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Alphafemme
http://alphafemme.wordpress.com
The chronicles of a twentysomething alphafemme in San Francisco--sex, relationships, politics, shoes. A bit of everything. Well, okay, not everything. A bit of many things.
Recent Posts
“but they’re not my girl”
Just brought her to the airport; she’s on a red-eye back to Vermont for Christmas with her family. (I’m here another few days until I fly to New York.) Parting was hard, even though I’ll see her again on New Year’s Eve when we...
bringing sex out of the bedroom
We started talking a few days ago and continued talking last night about how to make sure sex is a central part of our relationship, and not just an incidental part. What I mean by that is this: When you first start seeing someone, it’s all abo...
in which I take after my mother
So, for those of you who don’t follow me on twitter, you may not know that mi’lady and I hosted a party at my flat on Friday night. In the spirit of not caring about my job, I took the afternoon off of work to prepare (just finger foods and co...
note to mi’lady: DO NOT READ THIS POST if you want to be surprised on Christmas.
Thank you all for your comments, both on this post wishing me and mi’lady happiness together after one year, and on this one, offering suggestions and advice and sympathy on my work and life situation. All of those comments were really helpful,...
difficult decisions
It’s freezing today, I can see my breath in the air. I’ve been having a hard time writing this week. I think it’s because the magic that was our little retreat on the Russian River has faded into the dreary stress of work and busine...
one year
Our little Thanksgiving vacation was perfect, in every way. I neglected to mention before that it doubled as a celebration of one year of being together. One year! And I only love her more. I look at her sometimes in sudden shock, like how did I get...

