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Ask Gay Dr. Bill

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An Out and Proud Gay Male Activist and Author answers questions about gay life for his gay brothers and sisters and other interested parties -- from a gay bear's perspective.

Added on: Jan 5th, 2008
Country: United States
Language: English

Author: Bill Samuels
Listed in: Gay and Lesbian Lifestyle
Tags: gay advice gay life coming out gay pride gay liberation

Recent Posts

Where are the "Edgy" Guys?

Posted on Thursday November 19th, 2009 at 17:51 in fetishes, kinkiness, leather scene, leather bars, the new york blade, boston eagle, new york eagle, mr. leather

I was recently at the Eagle in New York one Sunday night and I noticed a lot of guys in alligator shirts and designer clothing and I swear I felt like I was in some twink bar catering to the fashion or hairdressing set. Where were the edgier guys, th...
Dating Sites for Big Guys

Posted on Thursday November 19th, 2009 at 13:59 in bears, silver daddies, gay dating sites, big men, bearwww, chubby bears, bear411, biggercity, large guys

Dr. Bill, I am a larger guy. I am also very honest and do not want to hide things. I have decided to be upfront in my profile about my body size. This is usually one of the first things we discuss if we talk over the phone. Should I change this? I be...
Letting Go and Moving On

Posted on Monday November 9th, 2009 at 13:45 in gay dating, coming out, ex-wives, mixed marriages, straight spouses, straight spouse network, spouse comes out

I am a gay man and I have a platonic friend, another gay man in his early forties, who has come out of the closet and left his wife. Well, let's say the two are divorced, but he never really left. They do everything but live together. My friend badly...
Gay Husband?

Posted on Monday November 9th, 2009 at 13:22 in internalized homophobia, gay self-hatred, mixed marriages, gay husbands, straight spouses, straight spouse network

Hi there. I suspect my husband is gay. I honestly can't say that I think he has ever cheated on me, I don’t even know if he’s ever had sex with a man. However, I have many many reasons to believe that he has lots of internalized homophobia. Thing...
When Lovers Become Friends

Posted on Tuesday October 27th, 2009 at 03:45 in infidelity, gay relationships, lovers, gay couples, one-night-stands, fuck buddies, sexual incompatibility, gay partners

I'm hoping that you can help with this. I respect your opinion and I'd love to know how you feel about this situation. It's like this. My lover and I have been together many years and are both in our forties. Our sex life pretty much died two or thre...
The Whole "Queen" Thing

Posted on Tuesday October 20th, 2009 at 03:52 in queens, gay men, gay community, drag queens, femmes, transvestites, butch numbers, butch and femme

I'm a gay guy, but I confess that I don't get the whole "queen" thing, and especially not the drag queen thing. You can slam me if you want, but that's how I feel. What is up with those guys? Anon.I'm a little confused here. I assume you're a butch o...