Everything I wish I had known in my 20s about sex, self-respect and what not to do
Recent PostsI'm sensitive to the fact that this blog is called "Don't Be a Slut," and that the implied promise is that I will talk about love, sex, heartbreak and relationships. But before I can get back to writing about Number Two, I have to write a little bit ...
It's my first blogiversary.One year ago today, early in the morning, I sat down and wrote my first post.And I'm so glad I did.When I started my blog, I had no idea that I would reveal as much as I did, that I would feel as much as I did or that I wou...
I got over Latin Muslim quickly. A week and a half after our jailhouse breakup, I had a new instant boyfriend, just add water.Let's just call him Number Two. He was a security guard at Wawa, the convenience store where I stocked up on junk food and c...
Over the last couple of months, I've been silently bathing in the glow of blog love. I didn't want to interrupt my Virginity Diaries, so I saved it all up to share with you once I wrapped up that chapter. So, drumroll please, let the thank-yous and p...
I was thinking I had waxed as philosophically as I could about my Virginity Diaries ... when duh, I realized I left out the most obvious lesson learned:There is no rush, and it should feel good.My first time fell far short of amazing, in part because...
Whenever I turn on TV and see Black People Tryin' to Make a Difference, much effort is devoted to making sure black kids make it to college. But in all our Let's-Get-Our-Kids-to-College fervor, we pay remarkably little attention to what happens to th...
This blog is currently rated a 4.91 out of a possible 5 based on 11 comments.
mr. nicholsThe writing on this blog is so rich and raw that you feel like you were there to witness the stories yourself. The writer's style has a unique way of being both romantic and raunchy at the same time. This blog is the truth.
NeliaThis reformed slut is one PHENOMENAL WRITER. I feel honored every time I visit her blog. She makes you feel right at home and gives you the real scoop on her real life experiences.
Marty J.Very funny voice! Nice blog!
Marty J.Very funny voice! Nice blog!
Gina SteppWhen you enjoy what you're doing it comes out in the quality of the finished product--and you're doing a great job.
SarojHaha I'd be concerned if you didn't love your own blog! :p
Yours is always a great read. They're well-crafted anecdotes with great lessons on how to live and love. It's nice to see a blog where someone can take experiences that may have been negative and turn them into something positive.
David HickeyIt's ok to like your own blog! Good read, wish more 20 year olds knew what they were getting into. Blog well designed, good content, good read. I hate to feel like I've wasted my time. Sorry I don't give 5's on rating.
Mr. Alladatsh%tReal, Raw, Raunchy...Very entertaining, and a very good read! Some women in their 20's definately need to read this!
Mary HallSome great lessons learned from a VERY talented writer.
A very real look at growing up, making some mistakes and moving on in a positive way.
Well done!
Don't Be a SlutOk, I'm biased. I love my own blog. There. I said it.
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Awesome blog...very honest and well written...waiting on the book!
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