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I did mention a couple or more times that I have “crossed over” to that side of life that comprises children, family, spiritual well-being and contentment. However, there is still a lot of the weirdly-textured, gooey, evil stuff left inside my co
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For Single Girls: Waiting for the Right Guy, or the Birds?
If you've been single for a while and you know you're great, you might be wondering why you don't have a boyfriend yet. Is it because you don't want to take the risk and fall for just "any guy", or is it because you don't want to fall for the wrong t...
Budget Valentines: 5 Tips and Ideas for a Great Valentines Date
Sometimes, we get caught up with the "material" things that aren't really that important for a date to be successful. Sure, we like to dress up and play the "fine dining" roleplay together, but the real essence of going out is being able to share ide...
Befriending Your Ex: Connecting With the One that Got Away
I am a believer that one should never waste resources, and one should always keep great friends. Sadly, some of my worst dating mistakes included falling in love with a friend, or at the very least, letting hormones and sexual tension take over and c...
Goodbye IYS: Internet Killed Snail Mail Dating
I just learned that a penpal service I patronized when I was younger has closed down. A whole era of TRUST is gone... as most would rather keep online profiles using pseudonyms and code names rather than sincerely write a friend abroad in real ink. I...
First Date How To: Transition From Online Dating
Claire asked an interesting question on my You’ve Got Mail post. She asked, “It always seems so easy to be sassy and flirty on line but the thought of translating it all into real life is mighty scary. any tips on making the transition ea...
A Year of Preaching the Love Worth Finding
I start my blog anniversary post with a heartfelt Thanks! To everyone who I met through this blog and my activities online, THANK YOU for making my first blogging year a remarkable one. A year after my first posts about “anything under the sun...
Online Interaction and Playing the Exotic Card
It’s time for another AskWoobie feedback! As you read this post, you will see why this topic deserves its own page (and why I asked the feedback giver to let me publish her issue). Tala (not her real name) wrote me this initially. The stuff in ...
Dating Could Save Your Sanity
I think I am… I am fading away to rage and bitterness… The demon has been unleashed, And women have nothing to blame for it but themselves. Muhahahahhahahahaha…” -Linc, thirty-something years old bachelor, on his love lifeR...
Sexual Tension: How to Fan the Flame of Attraction
Attraction could translate as ‘crush’ or ‘extreme liking’. Some define it as love or being in love. Nonetheless, the best and most vague way to define it is this: The person incites a feeling in you that you cannot even begin ...
The Accidental Playgirl: When Does Dating Start, Really?
Once upon a time, a 16-year-old girl from a single gender Catholic school entered college with little or no knowledge about men, except the notions she learned from her hometown sweetheart and similarly inexperienced guy friends. When she and her hom...
The Yellow Car Club and The Girl Who Loves Yellow
A good friend from way back pointed me to his club’s site and I got curious. It seems that here in the Philippines, some young and hip car owners have resolutely gone against the stereotype of yellow-painted service automobiles and painted thei...
Single Gender Schools and Love Relationships
I’m running the risk of being called out for stereotypical thinking, but I have to get this post out of my system. You see, if you don’t get something out of your system, it eats you up. You end up repressed and raring to do rebellious ...
How to Plan a Grand Eyeball (EB): Taking Online Interaction Offline
In my quest to find advertisers who can offer my readers a completely Free Dating Service, I found Meeta.com. Interaction and community building are free. While connecting online is free, they do offer other things, and these include opportunities fo...
Why the Hell Did He Break Up With Me?!?
How about you, would you like to know (or at least confirm) the reason why you were dissed? I've had my share of breaking up with guys without giving them the real reason for the split. When a guy asks 'WHY?" he's really looking for an answer he can ...
Online Dating How To
Being new to Online Dating can be scary. Some doubts that make people hesitate include being skeptical about the characters they will meet online, not being able to project a good image of themselves… or simply the fear of interaction. The firs...
Jewelry and the Girls of Astrology
Girly stuff post! I was browsing the Tiffany Inspired Jewelry catalog of an advertiser when a sudden thought occurred to me. How do the girls of the Zodiac react to sweet gifts from a suitor? Narrowing it down to the most romantic of the girl signs, ...
My Cowboy Fetish and Taming the Bad Boy
You might have noticed that I jump at the chance to plug advertisements from AJ Western Wear Outfitters (Swarovski belts, Jeans and Western outfits, Mens Western Shirts, Mens Western Wear). This is all because of a secret fetish: Cowboys. As far as f...
The Real Relationship Killer
You’re doing great together. A fun life, well-cared for children, healthy bickering, and comfortable living. What force on earth can destroy such a happy partnership? What to look out for? There are outside forces that come in like thieves in t...
Parents and My Cupid Theory
Happy Mother’s Day! For this day, I’m going to be posting about one of the most fruitful relationship examples I know; that of parents! After all, these relationships bore fruits that are already walking the world spreading havoc and good...
A Tribute to Guy Friends
Guy Friends. Those ultra-lovable, ultra-sexy men in our lives that are the epitome of our ideal. We know their game, they know ours. They are here when we need them, just like girl friends, but better in a way that they can coach us with first hand i...
Relationships and Money
Starting a lasting love connection with someone includes being on the same page and having similar goals. Directing the flow of the relationship is difficult enough with all the quirks and bumps involving feelings and reactions, but there is one more...
Another Friend Takes The Plunge
BUNGEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!! Just got back from a friend’s wedding and this time I did not cry as much as I did when my best friend got hitched. Just a couple of sweat-ridden moments when my friend was walking down the aisle in her white dress, and t...
The Devil Made Me Do It (With Your Bestfriend)
Ah, friendship, the life’s quirk that enables people to connect with others in a deeper manner than just exchanging hello’s. A best friend is someone who is similar to, and yet so unlike, you. Two people bond in this type of relationship ...
Hints and Commitment: Playing the Love Game
“We talked about us last night after sex. It was very romantic. He laughed along with my crazy wedding ideas up until the point when I started making up baby names. Now he won’t answer my calls. Did I scare him?” Will telling a guy ...
What’s With the Number Three?
The code among players around the world preaches about the number three as the closing number in any discussion on how many lovers a person had. Like, when some tactless friend or boyfriend get nosy enough to rudely ask the question, a lady answers &...
The Woobie Game: How To Play with a Player
This is my comment-reply to this post. It reached 3k-words by the time I was half-way through, so I’m turning it into a blog post. Bobby Rio and the rest of the crew over there at TSB have been consistent advertisers in my Project Wonderful ad ...
What is Your Ideal?
Feel free to reflect on this question, as I have never really found an exact answer for it myself. Disillusioned. Disappointed. Frustrated. F*cked. are just some of the words people use to describe their relationships when the magic has waned and...
The Most Stupid Crush-Related Rituals
I was sifting through my mess box looking for old photos of myself when I came across a folded and browning piece of paper with the numbers 2.14.95 and a guy’s name on it. It took me a full minute to realize what it was. It was part of a charm ...
Some of the Best Relationship Quotes are from Cartoons
It’s funny when cartoon characters express what real people feel. It’s not difficult to relate with a bunch of pixels when they say things that I myself am bound to say at certain times. Here are my favorites: “Nothing take...
My World Got Bigger: The Evil Woobie Link Love I
*Special Thanks to Angelo of Armada for the Link Love image I have been linked to a lot this past month, and it’s time to give a lot of love back. I’ve found that my world has expanded ever since I met people who shared my passion for bl...
