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Infidelity and The Holidays
With the holidays here and so much going on, I have found myself so busy with things that I haven't stopped to think about him.....and that's a good thing. My heart still beats hard, thinking about what might have been and the family times we could h...
Sometimes It Takes A Little While To Get Over It All
What a lovely day it is today, not too warm out and the sun is shining brightly......inside I am wanting the joy to come through but for some reason, I feel blue inside. I have been doing sooooo well since he and I parted and went our separate ways ...
Thankyou All So Much For Your Support
Thankyou so very much. Support is something very important in today's world. I could not imagine having to go through this kind of thing without having someone to lean on. I don't know but I have found that some families are very supportive and other...
Loving Yourself
He loved me at one time in his life, and perhaps he still does, but that doesn't matter anymore...what really matters is learning how to love yourself. Did you get married or into a relationship, and soon after came household chores, working and chil...
How I Made The Decision To Go
I think that after being married to him for over 10 years, discovering his affair and leaving him the first time, I still came back to him after about 9 month of being apart, AND divorcing him. I went back to him and thought that I could try it again...
Broken Hearts Are Meant To Be Put Back Together
I truly and honestly believe that broken hearts are meant to be put back together....but that doesn't mean that it has to be put back together by my ex. I am done, done, done. There is no turning back to be with him. I guess that I was put through...
When Did He Show Me His Love?
Living with this man of mine was somewhat of a challenge at times. What did he want from me? Didn't he understand that I had feelings too? He often told me that he would come home when he felt like it and there was nothing that I could do about it...
Could Things Ever Work Out For Us Again?
Oh dear, I don't know if I could ever go through the hurt and pain ever again. His cheating was just too much for me to deal with, especially since I went through this with him twice. After we divorced the first time, it took me nearly 9 months to g...
Inner Strength
Day by day, I see my inner strength getting stronger, but when will I be over him? How can I get past the infidelity and sorrow that he has caused me? I seem to be fine on a day to day basis, but if I start talking about it, or someone asks me abou...
Accepting The Truth
How do you accept that your partner has actually cheated on you? It's hard to think that after going through the steps of getting married, having a home together and children too, that he would actually consider taking a chance at losing it all. I k...
Do You Blame Yourself For His Cheating?
When I discovered my husband's cheating, I felt so alone....but I knew I wasn't alone. There are many women/men finding out about their partner's cheating every single day. The one thing I knew, was that I really tried my hardest to make things work...
Seeing The Real Side Of Things
Did the other woman not care about how stinky his feet are when he comes in at night? Or how he is so picky about what foods he eats? Does she have to deal with washing his clothes or making sure that all the buttons were on his shirts? She didn't ha...
What Have You Learned About Infidelity?
Seeing him now only makes me think about what could have been, and luckily, I don't see him often. We learn from our mistakes as we grow, and no matter how old we get, we still learn new things every day. I have come to learn that no matter what h...
When Will I Stop Caring?
I would like to know when I am going to stop caring about what happened to us? It took so much of my time worrying about what he did to me, to our family and us, and now that it's over, I am still sitting here trying to figure out when will I stop c...
Are You Number One When He Cheats?
The heartbreak of discovering infidelity hit me badly. I found myself "stuck" in one position and didn't want to do anything about it. So, what if you don't want to do anything? Well, it really all depends on what you really want in life. Do you ...
Moving On Past Infidelity
Oh, this is one of the hardest things in life, well, maybe it's just me, but after being with someone, sharing your life with them, and then to have it all come crashing down on you is life altering. Here is my checklist for reasons to move on past...
No More Worries?
No more cuddling up beside him, but I guess I haven't done that in a long while anyways. No more having to cook his "special" dinners, no longer having to worry about his clothes being washed and ready to wear the next day. .... Hey !!! That even ...
Stressful Family Life
Not being able to trust your partner is a deal breaker for sure, and it leaves you wondering what's left of your marriage/partnership. I had an unexpected leave last week and the whole time I was gone, I only had my dad to worry about. I came home...
If I Could Have Only Done Something Different
If I could have done something different, would I still be with him? Would I be in a happy marriage? To be honest, I don't think there was anything that could have been done differently. I could not have been a better wife, because I was very atte...
