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It is all relative... or is it not...??

all that we experience..the good.. the bad.. the ugly.. we have precedents to compare them to .. and then to judge or, rather to feel what it really is... what may be good for one person.. may be 'the best'

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  • Important things.

    Posted on Thursday November 12th, 2009 at 00:09 in relationships, life, love, reflections

    The RJ asked ,"How connected are you to your partner ? How well do you communicate ? Do you also talk about yourselves or is it that all you talk about are the important things? What about things that all not important ? ". Important things ... But ...

  • Easier way.

    Posted on Thursday October 15th, 2009 at 05:27 in life, anti smoking, i like

    One of those ads that strike a chord. Immediately. ...

  • Happy teacher\'s day!

    Posted on Monday October 12th, 2009 at 06:18 in life, getting educated, the teacher in me

    I have started teaching! It was something I never thought I would do. There are always those times in your life when you look down upon some profession or other. We have all had this when we were in the college, directed towards the only accessible-f...

  • Get Well Soon!!!

    Posted on Friday August 21st, 2009 at 07:33 in life, it's all relative

    What do you do when someone you love falls sick? I panic. So I realised in the past couple of days. Not in a way that I don't kno what to do, where to go et al. But panic in the weirder way. Where I feel helpless AND useless if I am not doing somethi...

  • Vacant Expanses

    Posted on Wednesday July 15th, 2009 at 07:00 in life, poetic somethings

    Vacant expanse all around Hangs heavy And tepid Pungent with my own fears. Alone. I am all alone. Road winding uphill With ends that ne'er o meet With except for in illusions Parallels moving together Not a soul to be seen. I ...

  • Can we be content, ever?

    Posted on Tuesday July 7th, 2009 at 03:46 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    I used to fear the unknown. The things I thought I couldn't understand. That I didn't know the inner workings of. The dark. The world beyond. Now I've accepted that there might be things I don't know. Events that I don't understand. Circumstances I k...

  • Getting a girl - and keeping her as well

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 12:15 in relationships, life, love, what women want, it's all relative

    As someone I know very aptly put it - Its not rocket science, but you are likely to have better success if you treat the girl like any other business associate - Polite and Professional!!But he gave out only half the story. Maybe because he doesn't r...

  • Who's the fairest?

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 06:00 in life, reflections

    While watching the match y'day, gripping as it was, I didn't miss even the commercials. Suddenly I see John abraham and was I not interested! :)But the euphoria didn't last for long as I realised, he was the 'brand ambassador' for well.. Garnier Powe...

  • Not easy to please women

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 02:02 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    I am irritated. tired. and a litle buzzed. even after a super packed and fun weekend and a week of almost no work. maybe it is just the too much of nothings in my life that's doing this to me.Aah! I just realised all this is just the overflow from t...

  • The grand wedding saga -1

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 01:08 in life, reflections

    This happened to me on friday morning.There's light outside already. Rubbing my eyes I check out the phone to see if it's time to wake up. Hoping it isn't yet. It's only five. But hey! BFF3's been calling me through the night. and there are messages ...

  • The weekend so far

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 00:11 in life, reflections

    Apologies. For not keeping up with blogging. But my life's been full of well.. many incidents suddenly. Very amusing at that.A little update on what my friends have been upto, and you'll get the picture.Umm.. for their rights of privacy and blah I wi...

  • I need a husband.

    Posted on Monday June 22nd, 2009 at 23:53 in life, reflections

    I've always rebuffed any suggestions, nudge,nudge wink,wink or the more direct in-my-face ones, about my need to get married. But now I know. I NEED a husband. If only so that he can drive me to work and back. You might ask me if a driver would do, i...

  • The upturned denim!!

    Posted on Monday June 15th, 2009 at 00:24 in life, fun, daddy

    I so don't like shopping for denims. Or anything else that tells me that because I am thiiiiiiis fat I should've also been thiiiiiis tall! Hmmmph!So I got this pair y'day which of course needed a few inches chopped off. But as usual, of course, they ...

  • Need a little time

    Posted on Sunday June 14th, 2009 at 00:04 in life, reflections

    A lazy sunday morning. Late night last night. Late morning today.A lazy sunday morning.I got breakfast in bed. Courtesy my mum. Who I just had an arguement with regarding 'my space'! At that time I thought she didn't get it. But in retrospect, I real...

  • Because she had not been born a man

    Posted on Tuesday May 26th, 2009 at 04:52 in life, reflections

    Acts of Faith by Erich Segal. One of the books that made me think. And realise the importance of the privileged life that I've been leading. Of life and freedom of mind and speech that until I had read this some years back I took for granted. ...

  • The theory of changes and the likes

    Posted on Monday May 25th, 2009 at 04:55 in relationships, life, reflections

    And then I think I don't change 'em nor do I change for 'em!Do I accept change as long as I know it is not for or because of somebody? And do I shy away from it as soon as I realise it is because of a reason other than myself?!Just a random thought....

  • And I thought I was an architect..

    Posted on Monday April 27th, 2009 at 06:06 in life, water cooler talks

    And I thought I was an Architect. Being in this wonderful office has made sure that I've remained everything but that! The latest being 'The letter writer'. Yep. I now do all the important letter writing bit for my seniors. All thanks to my good lang...

  • Atleast a moment.

    Posted on Saturday April 4th, 2009 at 01:23 in relationships, life, love

    Her first reaction was one of hope, beĀ­cause his eyes were open and shining with a radiant light she had never seen there before. She prayed to God to give him at least a moment so that he would not go without knowing how much she had loved him desp...

  • It is wonderful Tonight

    Posted on Saturday March 28th, 2009 at 10:45 in life, reflections, i like

    9:15 at nightCCD, RegalIt is wonderful tonight :)I am doing what I like doing the best like. Am digging into a chocolate fantasy (with ice-cream :)) savouring every bite of it.. with a wonderful book for company. :) This is what I had wanted to do si...

  • The vagaries of love and the likes.

    Posted on Wednesday March 25th, 2009 at 23:06 in life, reflections

    Give me the idle lecherous look vis-a-vis the undying non-wavering loving gaze any day.Does this make me weird? Maybe.But it is so much easier to deal with disgust than with the realization of the power of hurting someone....

  • True homage?!

    Posted on Monday March 23rd, 2009 at 23:28 in life, reflections

    I got this SMS sometime after the 26/11! They talk about true homage. Erm.. I am not too sure..What wud be true homage to victims and brave souls of soldiers?1National Flag at half mast 2CandleLight Vigil 3Memorial 4Other Snd Homage to 59595 Rs2.Oh!...

  • In love with office!

    Posted on Friday March 20th, 2009 at 12:11 in life, reflections

    I am going insane. I am in love with my office! ok! not so much so with the people around but the office itself! Freshly out of college I was this super excited super exuberant kid who jumped at the opportunity of being posted at the airport (at the ...

  • Still you are all that I see

    Posted on Friday January 23rd, 2009 at 10:58 in relationships, life, love, reflections

    Wherever I goWhatever I doYou are all that I seeThe skyThe treesThe flowers And breezeBut you ain't hereYou ain't here andAre you all that I see?The starsThe moon The coughAnd sneeze!I tried to evadeEven shut my eyesWhy are you all that I see?The swi...

  • My Guy, My Girl

    Posted on Monday January 19th, 2009 at 03:05 in relationships, life, love

    This is sucha beautiful song. :)(Told you, am a sucker for anything even remotely romantic :P )P.S. Please listen to it HERE as I still don't know how to embed a player in my blog. Will try to figure out. :)Diana RossNothing you could sayCould tear m...

  • Why's it so difficult?

    Posted on Tuesday January 6th, 2009 at 07:13 in relationships, life

    It is so difficult to let go. And so easy to keep clutching. So easy to take space. So difficult to give.So easy to make understand. So difficult to understand yourself.So Easy to have friends parties bonding. So, oh! why so difficult to accept other...

  • Be the change you want to see

    Posted on Tuesday January 6th, 2009 at 03:56 in life, inspire, getting educated

    Ugh! Ouch! What a pot hole!Not another power cut!Sheesh! the streets are so dirty! Careful.What? that good for nothing bloke again became the MLA?!*cough* *cough* Kitna pollution hai!We keep harping about how bad our country its roads the infrastruct...

  • What is fun supposed to be like.

    Posted on Monday January 5th, 2009 at 02:40 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    To have fun. What does this mean actually? What is is that you consider fun?What do I really want to do when I say I want to have fun? It is so 'funny', how the answer evades me. Completely. There have been times I've been to a place, I didn't really...

  • Marriage : Before and After

    Posted on Tuesday December 30th, 2008 at 03:32 in relationships, life, love, fun, e mail

    Got this email. Just had to share ! :) enjoy :D Enjoy, read each sentence slowly.Before marriage.... . He: Yes. At last. It was so hard to wait.She: Do you want me to leave?He: No! Don't even think about it.She: Do you love me?He: Of course! Over an...

  • The Year that was!

    Posted on Thursday December 25th, 2008 at 22:09 in life, reflections

    From 2008 to 2009From religious zest To spirituality unlimitedFrom ecstasy of two To awareness of oneOf momentary highsand promised eternal blissFrom Lists of 'to-dos' To lists of 'have-dones'Of soup at jughead's And peaches poached in wine Of airpor...

  • Jealousy revisited

    Posted on Monday December 8th, 2008 at 00:55 in life, love, fun, reflections

    I can't stop looking at it! Again. Even though it does funny stuff to me. Not the types i'd like though.*wink* Does it happen with everyone? Is this what jealousy is?! But I don't like it....