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It is all relative... or is it not...??

all that we experience..the good.. the bad.. the ugly.. we have precedents to compare them to .. and then to judge or, rather to feel what it really is... what may be good for one person.. may be 'the best'

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  • Can we be content, ever?

    Posted on Tuesday July 7th, 2009 at 03:46 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    I used to fear the unknown. The things I thought I couldn't understand. That I didn't know the inner workings of. The dark. The world beyond. Now I've accepted that there might be things I don't know. Events that I don't understand. Circumstances I k...

  • Who's the fairest?

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 06:00 in life, reflections

    While watching the match y'day, gripping as it was, I didn't miss even the commercials. Suddenly I see John abraham and was I not interested! :)But the euphoria didn't last for long as I realised, he was the 'brand ambassador' for well.. Garnier Powe...

  • Not easy to please women

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 02:02 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    I am irritated. tired. and a litle buzzed. even after a super packed and fun weekend and a week of almost no work. maybe it is just the too much of nothings in my life that's doing this to me.Aah! I just realised all this is just the overflow from t...

  • The grand wedding saga -1

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 01:08 in life, reflections

    This happened to me on friday morning.There's light outside already. Rubbing my eyes I check out the phone to see if it's time to wake up. Hoping it isn't yet. It's only five. But hey! BFF3's been calling me through the night. and there are messages ...

  • The weekend so far

    Posted on Monday July 6th, 2009 at 00:11 in life, reflections

    Apologies. For not keeping up with blogging. But my life's been full of well.. many incidents suddenly. Very amusing at that.A little update on what my friends have been upto, and you'll get the picture.Umm.. for their rights of privacy and blah I wi...

  • Marking your woman

    Posted on Sunday June 28th, 2009 at 05:45 in relationships, reflections

    What's the issue with marking your woman? Metaphorically AND literally. Men like to mark their women. And subconsciously whether looking for a commitment or not even the other men stay away from the marked ones! :P Which makes me wonder if they real...

  • I need a husband.

    Posted on Monday June 22nd, 2009 at 23:53 in life, reflections

    I've always rebuffed any suggestions, nudge,nudge wink,wink or the more direct in-my-face ones, about my need to get married. But now I know. I NEED a husband. If only so that he can drive me to work and back. You might ask me if a driver would do, i...

  • I want to travel!

    Posted on Wednesday June 17th, 2009 at 05:33 in reflections

    There is suddenly an urge to travel. Again. After a long long time. I suddenly want to look around. to see the other sides. not of the proverbial coin but of the 20 sided die! Only cuz there'll be much more to look out for! :-)More on it when I actu...

  • Need a little time

    Posted on Sunday June 14th, 2009 at 00:04 in life, reflections

    A lazy sunday morning. Late night last night. Late morning today.A lazy sunday morning.I got breakfast in bed. Courtesy my mum. Who I just had an arguement with regarding 'my space'! At that time I thought she didn't get it. But in retrospect, I real...

  • Because she had not been born a man

    Posted on Tuesday May 26th, 2009 at 04:52 in life, reflections

    Acts of Faith by Erich Segal. One of the books that made me think. And realise the importance of the privileged life that I've been leading. Of life and freedom of mind and speech that until I had read this some years back I took for granted. ...

  • The theory of changes and the likes

    Posted on Monday May 25th, 2009 at 04:55 in relationships, life, reflections

    And then I think I don't change 'em nor do I change for 'em!Do I accept change as long as I know it is not for or because of somebody? And do I shy away from it as soon as I realise it is because of a reason other than myself?!Just a random thought....

  • A one year old's birthday party

    Posted on Monday April 27th, 2009 at 06:35 in reflections, it's all relative

    What is an appropriate celebration for your kid's first birthday?!Not only that s/he wouldn't remember any of it when she grows up she would perhaps be sitting somewhere looking at that didi snatch away her balloon and run!So, why do we really celebr...

  • Re-learning Driving.

    Posted on Monday April 27th, 2009 at 03:32 in fun, reflections, delhi, getting educated

    Re-learning driving. The Dilli ishtyle.Since the time I've started, I've had people praise me for my driving skills. Maybe only so so that I feel good! *smile*But now after about 6 years of sporadic driving on Delhi roads and also having driven a few...

  • I got it..

    Posted on Wednesday April 8th, 2009 at 23:51 in reflections

    I got my first birthday gift for the year. Ta da! :DAnd none other than the one thing I really wanted.The one I had (and there was a wonderful story behind it too) just managed to lose! A copy of 'Love in the time of Cholera'. :)Thanks, Arshad! :) :)...

  • I lost it..

    Posted on Sunday April 5th, 2009 at 07:49 in reflections

    I lost my copy of 'Love in the time of cholera'. :(Left it in one of the autos back home.*sigh*I've gotta go and get another one. Asap....

  • Leading to Twenty Five - 4

    Posted on Monday March 30th, 2009 at 23:26 in reflections

    There's no other time that the your age bit starts hitting you than when you hail an auto or a rickshaw! These people somehow have this uncanny way of telling you your erm.. age.When I was a li'l girl I was 'baby'.A little later I became 'Gudiya'.Col...

  • Leading to Twenty Five - 2.1

    Posted on Monday March 30th, 2009 at 05:14 in reflections

    But they won't let me!!!A haircut? - My hairdresser wouldn'tA tattoo maybe? - My friend wouldn't nose piercing? - My mum wouldn't Or maybe I should just get that bit of colour I wanted on my hair. That splash of red! only at the ends.. :) - My siste...

  • It is wonderful Tonight

    Posted on Saturday March 28th, 2009 at 10:45 in life, reflections, i like

    9:15 at nightCCD, RegalIt is wonderful tonight :)I am doing what I like doing the best like. Am digging into a chocolate fantasy (with ice-cream :)) savouring every bite of it.. with a wonderful book for company. :) This is what I had wanted to do si...

  • Leading to Twenty Five - 3

    Posted on Friday March 27th, 2009 at 23:01 in reflections

    Idea for this post was on my mind for sometime, but Arshad's comment on the previos one acted like a catalyst! :)There's never enough excitement in the world. But there also is never a paucity of events we can create excitement for! It is the 'what ...

  • Leading to Twenty Five - 2

    Posted on Thursday March 26th, 2009 at 01:42 in reflections

    Spring's all over. In the air. In the trees. In chirping of the birds. In my colored non winter clothes! :)There's something exciting.. new.. and different I want to do now. Umm.. A haircut? A tattoo maybe? nose piercing? Or maybe I should just get ...

  • The vagaries of love and the likes.

    Posted on Wednesday March 25th, 2009 at 23:06 in life, reflections

    Give me the idle lecherous look vis-a-vis the undying non-wavering loving gaze any day.Does this make me weird? Maybe.But it is so much easier to deal with disgust than with the realization of the power of hurting someone....

  • True homage?!

    Posted on Monday March 23rd, 2009 at 23:28 in life, reflections

    I got this SMS sometime after the 26/11! They talk about true homage. Erm.. I am not too sure..What wud be true homage to victims and brave souls of soldiers?1National Flag at half mast 2CandleLight Vigil 3Memorial 4Other Snd Homage to 59595 Rs2.Oh!...

  • In love with office!

    Posted on Friday March 20th, 2009 at 12:11 in life, reflections

    I am going insane. I am in love with my office! ok! not so much so with the people around but the office itself! Freshly out of college I was this super excited super exuberant kid who jumped at the opportunity of being posted at the airport (at the ...

  • Leading to Twenty five - 1

    Posted on Friday March 20th, 2009 at 03:16 in reflections

    I'll be Twenty five in a few days. Twenty Five. Sounds big! But I don't feel as if I'm approaching twenty five. For I like to believe that I had reached the mental 25 a long time back! ok. Debatable it is, but that's what I like to believe. :DThere a...

  • -

    Posted on Thursday March 19th, 2009 at 07:23 in reflections

    My beloved Milo is being taken away !!! :((((Now how WILL I drink milk???? :(((...

  • Hindustan Times

    Posted on Friday February 6th, 2009 at 03:53 in reflections, it's all relative

    Why does Nadal's win win him the honourable headline's spot whereas our very own Sania and Bhupati are lucky-by-chance to have been mentioned in the same breath!This, despite Sania being the first Indian woman to win a grand slam!!!All this in Hindus...

  • Still you are all that I see

    Posted on Friday January 23rd, 2009 at 10:58 in relationships, life, love, reflections

    Wherever I goWhatever I doYou are all that I seeThe skyThe treesThe flowers And breezeBut you ain't hereYou ain't here andAre you all that I see?The starsThe moon The coughAnd sneeze!I tried to evadeEven shut my eyesWhy are you all that I see?The swi...

  • Because, laughter is the best medicine. :)

    Posted on Sunday January 18th, 2009 at 23:08 in fun, reflections, e mail

    Top 22 things an Indian does after returning to India from "US" ( also is applicable to any other foreign-returned-Indian national! :P )22. Uses Nope for No and Yep for Yes.21. Tries to use credit card in road side hotel.20. Drinks and carries minera...

  • What is fun supposed to be like.

    Posted on Monday January 5th, 2009 at 02:40 in life, reflections, it's all relative

    To have fun. What does this mean actually? What is is that you consider fun?What do I really want to do when I say I want to have fun? It is so 'funny', how the answer evades me. Completely. There have been times I've been to a place, I didn't really...

  • The world knows it all

    Posted on Monday January 5th, 2009 at 01:56 in fun, reflections

    Manmeet sinha so loves you, romit :-* "Roshan da luk iz messdSiya kinda homesick:/ i miss everyone :( wah wah wah..Manmeet sinha wanna hve NjOIee last day of d YeAr^^ 2oo8!!!Riya is not getting d solution of d confusion.....................//.Manit ...