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The continuing story of a man fast approaching middle age, armed with a fast wit and bad intentions. Follow me through the Atlanta nightlife, my own sad romantic life, and whatever else crops in my mind.

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  • A Quick Restaurant Review - The Social House

    Posted on Sunday August 9th, 2009 at 13:04 in relationships, review, restaurant, 2009, mediocre

    When I was college quite a while ago, I had a professor make a statement that at the time was probably true: That only black people ate at black restaurants. It was sociological statement that at the time may have been true, but does not hold water t...

  • The Fifth of July

    Posted on Sunday July 5th, 2009 at 21:45 in relationships, zen, weekend, crazy theories, sporty

    Ramblings Post #42As of late, the great holidays in which I had vested so much attention, Valentine's, Memorial Day, Cinco De Mayo, summer, the 4th of July, have all had to take a backseat to the what I'm hoping is my future. But with the recent spat...

  • New Lessons from the Obama Presidency

    Posted on Tuesday June 9th, 2009 at 23:08 in relationships, women, obama, drama, crazy theories

    Internet Fodder Post #3You ever see something on the internet while you're just browsing and have something to say about it, but realize that you don't have the vast forum that whoever you read has, so that you can put your word to the people's ear i...

  • Sometimes...

    Posted on Wednesday February 18th, 2009 at 20:12 in relationships, zen, law, weekend, crazy theories, sporty

    Ramblings Post #11Since in reality, we live our entire lives inside our own heads, those things we miss are things we saw but didn't see. Or something philosophical like that. I think as I get older, and my body takes more and more time to heal from ...

  • Sleep Late, Turn in Early

    Posted on Friday February 6th, 2009 at 21:56 in relationships, life, love, women, atlanta, 2009

    Ramblings Post #7There are many signposts in life that mark where you are in life. How great your Christmas haul, ...er, I mean, how much love was shown to you during the holidays? Was your birthday party really what you wanted, and not just that sho...

  • Courting in the time of Instant Communication

    Posted on Wednesday December 31st, 2008 at 09:02 in relationships, crazy theories, chickenshit

    Mental Rehab Post #45Odd conversations. We're not even going to discuss the opera singing at work or the idea that my Caucasian coworkers found the white racial slur that blacks can't use comfortably as topics here, although they may find their way h...

  • A couple of errant thoughts

    Posted on Saturday August 23rd, 2008 at 00:09 in relationships, zen, changes, endings, learned

    Mental Rehab Post #17This one is kinda stream of consciousness talking half to myself and half to nobody in particular, and I'm hardest on myself. As we all know hindsight is 20/20, it's always what I should have done, what I should have said, what I...

  • It just keeps coming and coming and .....

    Posted on Friday August 15th, 2008 at 18:45 in thoughts, relationships, law

    Mental Rehab Post #14Life is the thing that happens while you're making plans, or so they say. I'm really wishing there was a pause button somewhere so I could stop and take stock of everything that's changed in past 6 months. A whole lot going on, a...

  • How to Insult a Guy

    Posted on Saturday August 9th, 2008 at 09:41 in relationships, women, crazy theories, grown folks

    Vent Post #3This might have been a mental rehab post, but it's really just me yelling into the electronic darkness because I'm not really looking for an answer, I'm just talking to myself until I'm tired of listening to me. I repeat, there are NO ans...

  • This Person We're Going to Marry One Day

    Posted on Thursday August 7th, 2008 at 12:26 in relationships, zen, sin, crazy theories

    Vent Post #2It's really just me yelling into the electronic darkness again because I'm not really looking for an answer, I'm just talking to myself until I'm tired of listening to me. There are no answers here...and in this case I don't think I'm eve...

  • I used to...

    Posted on Saturday July 26th, 2008 at 07:51 in relationships, restaurant, atlanta, learned

    Mental Rehab Post #7I'm finding out a lot about myself. Some things that I didn't know, some others that I knew and was actively suppressing that have morphed into something else entirely. But I recently found out something else. Yesterday Schmoopy h...

  • Though I stumble...

    Posted on Sunday July 13th, 2008 at 11:54 in relationships, atlanta, grown folks, chickenshit

    What had shoulda happened this weekend, but I ain't been nowhere and ain't seent nobody. I swear I'm putting on the makeup as fast as I can.Friday I should have gone to Sporty's long delayed Going Away/En.....well, Going Away party but she got upset ...