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Supporting Others
Today was another day of doing presentation to Army couples. I really enjoy the work and the information appears to be helpful for the participants. I got to spend some individualized time with another counselor who was working named, Debbie. She and...
Rejuvenation
After the demanding weekend I had, traveling over 7 1/2 hours, getting up each morning at 5 AM, working on my feet delivering presentations, all I did today was lay on my couch. I felt run down, deleted, and tired. Since I didn’t have anything ...
Couples Presentation
Today I did more work with Army couples. I did a presentation about their five basic needs and the needs of their spouses/partners. We looked at areas of compatibility and areas of potential conflict. We then talked about the use of the 7 Deadly Rela...
Compatibility
Today I worked on the chapter in my book about determining what you want in a relationship. I already wrote the chapter about needs. This chapter is more about preferences. I talk about having a vision, mission and values. PeopleĀ need to first be c...
Food Sensitivities
It is much harder than I imagined trying to cut out eggs and dairy from my diet. Of course there is the obvious–don’t eat eggs, milk and cheese! But do you know how many things have eggs and dairy in them. I bought a bag of salt and vineg...
Couplesā Counseling
Today I was invited to write a chapter in a couples’ counseling book, using Reality Therapy as its method. The chapter I’ve been assigned is the one on interracial couples. I guess I know something about that topic. I’ve been involv...

