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Age Is More Than A Number......
R Kelly and Aaliyah duped us..... or at least me.I'm finding out that age is more than just a number.Growing up I was always mature for my age to a point where people thought I was older than I actually was. I had myself so together that some of the ...
Insane In The Membrane....
Keeping from going crazy is a lot more difficult than it seems.Friday night I didn't have any plans. I took a nice night right through downtown with a stop at the capital for a moment. It's interesting, you would think that that time of night there w...
Still Around....
Cherry Hearts is still the same. We've had talks about the aaawwwwws, Shaaaaaaaawns, and baybeeeeeeeeees. I've summed it up as an annoying characteristic.I've had two exes from college recently send me messages that they would like to see me soon and...
12,054 Days Equals 33 Years....
That's right, today is the day.Whoo. Hoo.I tend not to get too excited around my birthday.I think sometimes it's cursed.Some examples:My first time going to Cancun, the flight was delayed, so we missed our first night. The second day the airline lost...
"Who Is The Head In This?"......
Brace yourselves, this may be a long post. I know how some of you complain "they are too long". Well today I've got a lot to say."Who is the head in this?" This was a direct question I remember asking The Ex one day when I told/suggested that she not...
The "Feeler" Message.....
We've all done it before. Haven't talked to someone in awhile, still trying to figure if someone is mad at us, trying to gauge if we can get that late night sumthin' sumthin'........We've all sent it.Usually it's the "How U doin'" or "what's up wit '...
When The Third Is "The First"....Part 2....
Saturday night. "First Date" night.I spent most of my day trying to clean and catch up on sleep. I told Joker that I would be picking her up at 6, so I had a lot I was trying to do around the house.Around 4 I kind of stopped doing things and started ...
Time To Step Up......
Shout out to everyone that got motivated by yesterday's post.That's just a sample of the new Shawn Smith.Yesterday some people stepped up their position.Joker: I've made it no secret that I didn't have plans for NYE. I didn't really want to go out an...
The Great Update.......
To make this easy I'll do it by character:Amazon: I am officially through with Amazon. She is a mental sadist and wants drama in her life. All week after our meeting on last Monday she called and texted that she wanted to see me. There were times tha...
