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A mother by birth and adoption sharing - through photography, writing and humor - life with boys, autism, ADHD, fetal alcohol spectrum disorder, cerebral palsy and more. Reminding everyone that kids with special needs are kids.
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Living Under Water
I’m living under water. Everything seems slow and far away. I know there’s a world up there, a sunlit quick world where time runs like dry sand through an hourglass, but down here, where I am, air and sound and time and feeling are thick and dens...
Boy to Your Left
Appearances You appear in This world Like a seed Taking in the Experiences Of the material Body Which you later Have to present To the world As a certificate Of worth But nobody Knows the Certificate of the Soul The muscle of The soul Whether Weak or...
Days of Letting Go
"We are discharging him today. We have never had a child whose chemistry is as resistive to any and all medications as is his. We have never worked with a child who is completely unresponsive to all therapeutic interventions as he is. Our best wishes...
SOOC Saturday ~ Wonder If I Can Make It
This little critter was staring at the top of a park garbage can which was overflowing with inviting treats. He seemed to be contemplating whether or not he could make that leap to the top.He made me stop and realize that I have been contemplating ...
SOOC Saturday ~ All You Need is Love
Maybe not all you need, but it is at the top of the list. He is home. We are adjusting to a new Lee, a new life schedule, a new way of doing things and new hope. So many words I want to write here...so many emotions...so many ways I want to help othe...
Away
Tonight I saw him. I held him for an hour as he sobbed in my embrace. Fourteen. He should be happy with family and friends. Fourteen. Laughter should fill his life. Fourteen. Vicarious mischief should surround him. Fourteen. Not the barren walls of a...
Please Let Me Live in the Pretty Bubble
I long to live in the pretty bubble full of cheerful color, hope and dreams yet to come true. But I don't. Life is fragile and complicated. Real. Our family is holding tightly to love and breathing deeply and sobbing and praying for answers and peace...
Relieve the Pressure You May Feel to Be An Amazing Parent
Sometime ago I let go of my dreams, becoming completely wrapped in my son's struggles with fetal alcohol syndrome. For months I have chosen to see nothing but despair and hopelessness in him and, thereby, have caused it to manifest in his life...my f...
The Old Poets of China...and Me
Rain Falls in Rhythm
From outward appearances it cannot be discerned...did that really happen? Who will save him when I'm gone? Boys sit at the breakfast nook table shaping, smooshing, reshaping Play Doh. Funny, I... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website f...
Grateful For
~ my son in my arms ~ friends who care ~ God who answers prayer ~ life...even in times of struggle ~ sunshine [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website for full links, other content, and more! ]] ...
His Heart's Whisper
Mom why does Lee run from you? Because he is confused and searching for safe. But mom, home is safe. I know. You know. Lee's heart knows...but his brain can't hear his heart's whisper. Mom, I love... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websi...
Do You Hear All That Screaming?
It's my boys. I have begun the process of converting them to a gluten-free, casein-free diet. Right now, it is not a pretty picture. But after reading The Kid-Friendly ADHD & Autism Cookbook and with... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my we...
Our Sincere Gratitude for Reading ~ FASD
Today I am over here talking about an important topic that truly affects the lives of each of us...whether you realize it or not. Please take a moment to read. Next Tuesday, 09/09, is Fetal Alcohol... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my webs...
Connect With A New Blogging Friend
I read all comments left on my blog and reply with a reciprocal blog post or email as often as possible. I have never before 'called out' a commenter. Actually, this one made me laugh, and I had... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website...
Conversation About Tropic Thunder With A Child Living With Intellectual Disabilities
I do not expect to live in a perfect world, but rather in one that, having learned from past mistakes, moves forward. Yesterday I had a conversation with my sons which in a perfect world would never... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my web...
Insensitive Hollywood People Thought It Felt Right to Use Hate Words Against People Living with Disabilities
Once upon a time there was a retard... Is that phrase acceptable to you? How about... Once upon a time there was a nigger...or Once upon a time there was a spic...or Once upon a time there was a... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my website...
Parents are Allowed to Wish
Parents want what is best for their children, but sometimes deciding what that best should be is baffling. Today I am over at 5 Minutes for Special Needs talking about one incident in a string of... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my websit...
Awareness, Understanding and Advocacy
I have a post up at 5 Minutes for Special Needs today which is addressed to all parents and particularly to women of child-bearing age. It is a call to awareness, understanding and advocacy which is... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my web...
Reading The Book As Written
It does not mean ignoring, passively living. It means loving, nurturing, accepting and understanding your child with special needs in order to help him fulfill his life. Life is not about re-writing... [[ This is a content summary only. Visit my web...
