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eye candy: gloves
“Debs is incredibly handsome & strong. She is chivalrous, passionate, brave and loving. She loves life, riding her motor bike and pinning me down! Lucky me! What a woman!” - Rose (Ros...
eye candy: standing around
I ran into this shot of Jenni from butch.org recently, and she kindly gave permission for me to reprint it here. The caption read: “What Do I Do at Frameline32? I stand around outside the theate...
the term “transmasculine”
I’ve been adopting the word “transmasculine” to use to describe, generally, female-bodied folks who are male-identified, masculine, masculinely presenting, in some way. I tend to stu...
eye candy: Dani
(click for the full size) “Dani loves forensics, hip hop and rock, her animals, coffee, fishing, being choked and boobs. She gets called ’sir’ at the coffeeshop when she holds the d...
eye candy: noir
My very own kinky queer butch top, Ferret. She likes cigars, corsetry (on me), and being called Sir. - Lemur Related: eye candy: work safe eye candy: lauren eye candy: triple scorpio eye candy: ̶...
telling her what to wear
I have in the past thought it kind of funny that girls would ask me to tell them what to wear. My feminist/analytical brain would pipe in with interpretations of beauty, insecurity, self-worth - but I...
on butch style: briefs
I still remember the day I had an awakening about my underwear, much like my butch breasts / bras moment a few weeks back, where I found some girly undies in my drawer and wondered why I even owned a...
eye candy: work safe
Ginny from Liverpool, UK writes, “Sent to brighten my day at work. But the only one of the photos that was ‘work safe.’” Related: eye candy: lauren eye candy: triple scorpio e...
eye candy: buxa
“This lovely buxa - Chicana butch - is E-lo. She loves to make art, listen to cumbias and norteñas, and to play butch/femme dress up with me! She’s oh soo yummy!” - from Laura, who ...
eye candy: hot pink hat
The Sugar Butch in the photo is Azaan Kamau - the author and publisher of In The Midst of My Blackness. Azaan loves jet skiing, writing, boating, taking photos, and fighting for LGBT Rights! (Photo Cr...
eye candy: bedroom eyes
My hot papi Jess of HouseofJero.com. She’s bringin’ butchly back. - Tina Tina sent me three shots of her partner Jess because, she said, she couldn’t just choose one. It was tough!...
eye candy: lauren
“This is my fiancé Lauren. She is the sweetest piece of boy I’ve ever had. And the best friend, too.” - Desaray...
pink & bent: queer women art exhibit in nyc
The opening reception for Pink& Bent: Art of Queer Women is tomorrow night here in New York City. One of the contributing photographers, Sophia Wallce, sent me a few of the shots that will be in h...
eye candy: extra dirty
“This is me (with the glasses) and my girlfriend K. drinking extra dirty martinis at Dances of Vice in New York City.” - Mirabai...
On misperceiving someone as femme or butch (again)
A couple heated comments about my last post already, and I want to make a couple things clearer. First: I believe it is absolutely okay to not identify with the labels of butch or femme - or any label...
On misperceiving someone as femme or butch
I often have conversations with folks who say that they have been perceived femme or butch, and they really don’t like it. That tweaks me a bit, for various reasons, not the least of which is th...
Interview with stylist ariel? ariel!
Ariel has been my style consultant for a while now, and when she’s not too busy being a matchmaker, I’m often asking her basic style questions like “should my socks match my shoes ...
eye candy: triple scorpio
Triple Scorpio. Wanna go for a ride? These shots come from Diane, who adds: “My smokin’ hot girlfriend, seven years and counting.”...
ask me anything: about butch identity
4. leo asked: i have a question about butch identity. you’ve written so eloquently about the concerns you faced in reconciling feminism and your gender identity, and especially about rejecting miso...
the personal ad I’m not posting
You: Tree-climbing dirty jeans and sneakers femme. Frisbee in the park and a picnic femme. Jogging in the rain femme. Dancing sober all night femme. Occasional martinis at home because it’s Tues...
the last time I saw belle (part three)
Happy birthday, Belle! I finally dug up this part three of “The Last Time I Saw Belle” posts (that should really be called “The Last Time I Fucked Belle,” as I’ve se...