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The Lesbian Lifestyle's mission is a simple one. This blog was created to bring together the real life stories of lesbians from around the world. The TLL authors throw their lives on the line to allow our readers to see just how alike and sometimes diffe
Recent Posts Tagged With 'coming out'
TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #42
Hot: Name: Mary Age: 29 Location: Los Angeles I don’t know where to being, I guess I’ll start with coming out at 10 to my father. I told him I was gay and he said, I know. That went over pretty well. I had always been attracted to girls...
I Want Some Stories
Hot: I’m still in the closet. Well. Kinda. I’m out to some people. The ones who are closest to me. Three straight friends and one uber gay best friend boy know. But it’s not enough for me. I want/need more. I’d love to eas...
TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #41
Hot: Name: Nancy Age: 49 Location: Kansas I think I am bi-sexual since I had a happy college romance with a woman, then due to religion and social pressure chose to marry. I was married for almost 20 years when my husband died of cancer. I have not...
My gf wont get out of the closet!
Hot: ok, so my gf wont come out of the closet for anything, it could be out of the fear that it will change the way people look at her and that she in some way feels that it may cause some type of physical violence towards her. she will be leaving ...
piece of me?
Hot: So you say you want a piece of me? {but only what you deem suitable, of course} Certainly not the part that loves a woman No, best leave that one at home for a while We wouldn’t want your daughter to see You miss me, do you? {but wait a minut...
TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #37
Hot: Name: Jenny Age: 35 Location: NY My girlfriend is overweight. When we first met, I was not sure if I was attracted to her because of it, but found that it didn’t matter. I feel like I am really in love with her and there is a difference b...
TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #35
Hot: Name: Genni-Leigh Age: 20 Location: Plainville, CT Recently I’ve come to identify my gender as mostly male with some feminine qualities. Though I carry the female equipment. I’m considering top-surgery (when I can afford it) and bin...
GUEST POST: Don’t Lick The Ferrets
Hot: I was very sheltered as a child and young adult. I didn’t have first hand experience with the gay community until I did an AIDS Ride and realized I didn’t HAVE to date men (and I finally understood WHY I never did well in relation...
TLL Q & A Advice Panel Installment #34
Hot: Name: Katie Age: 27 Location: Ireland I’m gay and I’ve messed everything up with my life. I’m in a M/F relationship for 6 years, I have three wonderful children with him and I love him, I’m just not sexually attracted to...
TLL Q&A Follow Up
TLL has decided to follow up with those who have written to its advice panel and see how they’re doing a couple of months later. Though our “advice” is intended for “entertainment purposes only” and not to be construed as professional ther...
TLL Q&A Advice Panel Installment #29
Name: Nicole Age: 21 Location: Oklahoma I have been fretting over this issue for months and didn’t know where to go for advice until I found your website. I feel so much more comfortable presenting my situation to women who will understand th...
lying low
I had the great fortune of a fairly unproblematic “coming out”. I was older, not living at home and no longer financially dependent upon my parents. I first told my mother, who had gay friends, without much fanfare. “So, you’re a lesbian”...
Where are all the Lez girls?
My girlfriend and I just recently moved to Milwaukee to be together. Before coming to Milwaukee we were in a long distance relationship. I was excited about moving to a new place, having people know my girlfriend and I as being together, and not ...
Ex-roommate. Not “ex-roommate”.
At the beginning of each school year my roommate and I carefully coat our walls with various posters and mementos of our life. This year was to be our fourth and final year of living in a tiny little box together. The walls had become a sort of m...
