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I’m baaaack….
Well, Lucas and I have been dating for about 10 months now. I don’t want to say I’m bored with the relationship, because I’m not. I just don’t feel he is The One. He is a good person… full of insecurities, but he is loya...
I want out. And in.
Well…. I’ve been messing around with some of my online dating subscriptions, but I decided finally today to cancel them. My heart just isn’t in it anymore, even for the laughs. I think I’ve really fallen for Lucas over the pas...
And the nominees are…
Lucas called me tonight while I was rifling through responses to my newest online ad. What fucking timing. I started to feel like a girlfriend looking to get out… that I should break it off with him before pursuing this… and then I remind...
Taking another shot
After finishing up a weekend with Lucas, I just thought I would throw this ad out there, back to my roots of non-paid-for dating ads: Looking for my Leo He’s in his mid to late 30s, early 40s, enjoys kids, maybe has kids, is funny and looks aft...
Understanding
Well….. I emailed Kris back and told him I’d be up for getting together, let me know what he had in mind. Then a week of checking my email every few hours, and nothing from him. I’m not surprised, just disappointed. I guess if anyth...
Where have all my morals gone?
All of a sudden… I have a second, third, fourth communication in my little online dating world!! Are these guys gearing up for Valentine’s Day, or what? One guy seemed really interesting, lives near me… and we volleyed back and fort...
Crossroads
I haven’t written for a while because there wasn’t much to write about. I’ve been seeing Lucas. He’s a good guy, great guy even, but I’ve been keeping at bay getting our kids together. I just… I’m just not su...
Merry (fuckin’) Christmas
Lucas and I have been hanging around a lot among friends and as our kid schedules allow. But it wasn’t until Saturday that we actually had the chance to go on an all-out, real date. No kids to worry about, no dancing around the subject. We went...
In the driver’s seat
I have been seeing quite a bit of Lucas. It seems like he wants to see me all the time. I kind of enjoy that he likes me so much. I remember some time ago, a friend of mine telling me that it’s good to have the upper hand, to be the one who lov...
Amazing smile
I was super tired last night after the party I had, and after I got the kids to bed, Lucas and I talked on the phone again. For an hour. Before I finally asked him, “Why did you not come over like you said you would?” I thought he’d...
The crush
Lucas — my childhood friend who I bumped into on Yahoo personals — and I have been emailing, then we graduated to IMing and texting, and now we actually talk on the phone. The old-fashioned way. We have talked about how it would be weird ...
It was bound to happen sooner or later
I started a Yahoo personals account for the heck of it. It’s not been getting much activity, not nearly as much as the Match.com account. But there’s been a couple of guys I’ve been emailing with this past week. On Yahoo, you are st...
