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The Philosophy of Infidelity
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Angst and philosophy of a superficially conventional man who has a secret life in which he succumbs to his greatest weakness: women! Lust, love and poor judgement combine to create a cocktail of emotion, twisted morality and humour. This is a tale of sex
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Summer Holidays with your Spouse and Lover
A new web site called Our Secret Affair set up by a married couple (of the "not to each other" variety) caught my attention recently.The thing which specifically caught my eye was their claim to have taken their relationship through an "integration s...
An Unconventional Proposal
In the years since I confessed to the affair there is no doubt that W has contemplated divorcing me.She has also thought about ways to preserve the marriage, or at least those aspects of it that she values, whilst simultaneously being ready to change...
Playing With Fire
C called me."I've got a new job," she said.I was impressed. A couple of months earlier she had walked out on her previous employer without having anything else lined up. I had been shocked and concerned. I rarely change jobs and I could not imagine w...
Liar, Cheat, Adulterer and Better Husband
Looking back to my affair with S, I can now see that there were two major problems.The first, as is already well documented on this blog, was that she was single and that fact gave rise to a lot of trouble.The second, I have recently come to realise,...
Why Don't the Wife and Mistress Take Responsibility?
Dear S and W,Do you know what you both have in common? Apart from me that is.You both operate as children; you both make me into your parent. In your eyes, I am responsible for everything, and you both set about manipulating me to get what you want t...
Giving Away the Mistress
I think there was a point when I knew I cared for and admired S, but before I realised that I loved her or that she loved me.At that time, I used to fantasise that we could remain friends but she would find someone she could be happy with, a man who ...
Good Rats, Bad Rats and Sex Hooliganism
Don’t ask me why but a bunch of scientists set up the following experiment. Two enclosures were created, suitable as living environments for large rodents. For reasons which will become clear lets call them “Good Rat World” and “Bad Rate W...
Being thankful
Things have not gone to plan in all areas of my life but there is still plenty to be thankful for. My love life may have been a disaster zone at times but at least I have loved and I have felt what it is like to be loved. I wouldn’t swap anything f...
