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The Relationship Overthinker
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When it comes to LOVE, I know it is more of a matter of the heart. But RELATIONSHIP is not LOVE. Relationship is a completely different thing. That is why, like anything else in life, relationships should be pondered upon, contemplated, reflected and analyzed.
We pick up lessons from all our relationships—lessons about ourselves, the other persons, about life, about love, about many things. The key is, there is always a lesson. And if relationships are not analyzed and contemplated, the gems of wisdom we can get as benefits are wasted and the whole relationship will just be a complete waste of time. Contemplation will guide us from committing potential mistakes or the same mistakes that can cost us our esteem, our selves or our lives—at the extreme.
I started this blog in order to post those contemplations with some analyses—from my experiences, from my friend’s experiences, from other people’s experiences which even when not universal, all persons who have been in a relationship could relate too. At least we get a handful of wisdom and we can say we’re a better person every after each one as we keep challenging our thinking after every relationship. And with these I hope we could become better lovers in our next one.
- Added on: Jan 9th, 2009
- Country: United States
- Language: English
- Author: TRoverthinker
- Listed in: Relationships Womens
- Tags: love relationship friendship contemplation commitment analysis
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