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Sunday, is it Fun? Believe and Then Show the Rest of Us.
Isn't it odd how we still can be afraid of the dark, even though we know, we cannot help but know, that the sun does come up in the morning? And when the cold dark days of winter seem interminable, we manage to forget that spring always comes, the me...
Divorcing the Narcissist. Swatting the Fly.
Image: Scrape TV-Obama Fly SwatSo I thought it was all over. There were so many manipulations, deceptions, and costly stalls, that I got confused, and probably at some point, I wanted to give up and sign the papers and get it over with. That was his ...
Sunday: A Day of Rest. A Day of Prayer. More Than a Nap.
Image: Hand Over Heart, by Catherine MittlemanIt was a week of constant battle, of great losses, yet ultimately victory is illusive, when there is no peace within. I have that. That is all I need, today.I have been in the business of creating "little...
Sunday, Funday. Heal!
I mean it, but I'm also ROTFLMAO, sort of. Don't want to cry no more. Love is always in the air. But watch out for that other stuff.Let me know if you're interested in participating in a PTSD discussion. We will also be discussing NPD and other PDs. ...
Another List. Codependency? PTSD? The Amazing Brain.
It is amazing how books "fall of the shelf," conversations can be just "the words you need to hear," and emails and texts seem Divinely inspired and timely beyond wonder. You get what you need when you need it. When you know better, you will do bette...
Manageable Pieces. Chew Slowly.
I’m taking my cue from Gin, who is also going through a divorce right now and has chosen to post in bulleted lists. This is so spot-on, it should be in the handbook: Don’t try to take in everything, just write lists. Every incident, and there are...


We Never Get Tired, Do We? - Sex Fatigue
I am referring to this obsession with a majority of men, wracked by one single thought,"Maybe I am not adequate, maybe I will not be good enough in bed." I have, in all my years of medical practice in the UK and the US, found that a great majority of men who consult have this question uppermost in their lives. I have also written about this problem, the causes,symptoms and the possible remedies in my book, "Love and Sex for Dummies."
The average Joe, if he knew one of the Gilbert and Sullivan" light operas, would have sung:
"Give up willingly
All matrimonial ambition
To rescue such a one as I
From his unfortunate position."
And our Average Joe would then have scuttled to the porn shop round the corner and picked up some strange Wu Tang aphrodisiac or maybe trawled the Net to find where he can get that great elixir which will enable him to make love all night long. One thing is for certain, his partner will not be saying," Encore une foi"
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Posted: September 22nd, 2009 | Report This Comment