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A Man's Kiss Will Determine- "How Good in Bed"
Posted by AchEmpire • 8/04/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: kisses, MEN
A man's kiss will determine how good he is in bed.
~If he's a passionate kisser- Then expect all day & all night love making~
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Is that a question to be discussed or simply a statement about your opinion?-
Rainhat- The question is are you doubting yourself? On what I'm really trying to say?
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Why would asking you a question lead you to think I'm doubting myself? About what?
Is it really that hard to just answer a question? -
Rainhat- If you are doubting whether you're good in bed or not by reversing the question back at me by saying is this just my opinion only good kissers are good in bed.
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I'll take that as a "yes". You still didn't answer my question.
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Rainhat- Just go with the flow, & stop challenging me. We are all having fun for once & you're trying to spoil it by causing me to argue with you.
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If you want him to stop, why don't you answer his question?
Is your topic title meant to be an assertion that you consider unassailable (like most of your topics) or a query you want people to agree/disagree with? -
voodookobra- Why are you getting pulled into the question he is asking me? I'm handling it right, not arguing with him like he wants. Why does it matter if it's only my opinion or not? Everyone is having fun so you should too.
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"Just go with the flow, & stop challenging me."
I'm not challenging you. I'm just asking you a question, nothing more.
"not arguing with him like he wants."
What makes you think I want to argue about anything? I'm just asking you a question. You keep avoiding to answer it, making assumptions drawn out of thin air instead.
"I'm handling it right"
By refusing to answer the question?
You still didn't answer it. -
RainHat- Just let it go. As you keep asking me you are pulling others like voodookobra in ths. Now he is asking me, why can't you too just realize for once I have a thread with no controversy?
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Just let it go? You start a thread, then categorically refuse to answer a question posted in it. Since you're not willing to discuss anything, why do you start these threads? To "educate" the lowly BC users on the "facts" about human behaviour?
You are not discussing, you are stating opinions that you believe to be absolute facts, based on nothing more than your own opinions. -
Rainhat - Is anyone else asking me? We're all having fun, you want me to challenge you & I will not. You've even pulled voodookobra in this because he's all of a sudden asking me the same question. You too just go with the flow. I've got people appearing on this thread I've never seen before. They don't need to see the other me.
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"Rainhat - Is anyone else asking me?"
What has that got to do with anything? *I* asked you a simple question. Is there any reason for you to not answer it? it's not that hard.
"We're all having fun, you want me to challenge you & I will not."
Again, what makes you think I want to challenge you in any way? All I did was ask you a simple question.
"You've even pulled voodookobra in this because he's all of a sudden asking me the same question. "
I haven't pulled anyone into anything at all. I asked you a question. If Voodoo wants to comment on that, that is his responsibility, not mine.
"You too just go with the flow. I've got people appearing on this thread I've never seen before. They don't need to see the other me."
Why would answering a simple question make people see the "other" you, whatever that is? -
That was pretty lame u guys... -
Lol, I love AchEmpire, she's so crazy. how did Rainhat come anywhere near "doubting" himself with that question? haha
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I actually sort of kind of agree.-
dbowles1017- Wow, you agree with me? This sounds weird coming from you.
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Dont remind me. I already feel dirty about it
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You should feel dirty you dirty bad boy...
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Maybe I should shower to clean up a bit, at your place.
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I think that's best...then I think a spanking is in order.
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I will gladly spank you.
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Ok, but if you spank me too hard you might have to put some ice on it...
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Your ass should be the least of your worries
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I agree too--or at the very least it will determine if you are even sexually compatible. If a man is not a good kisser (or the kind of kisser that appeals to me)--there's no point in round the rest of the bases!-
melindaville- You are very correct about the sexually compatible part.
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Yeah a good kisser is a good lover. I think kissing can tell all there is to it.-
celticmusicfan- Yes it will, and not all men can kiss passionately.
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celticmusicfan - I agree, kissing will tell all
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How do you know that AchEmpire, I mean what are you basing it on, personal experience? -
I have been with men I had very little sexual desire for and wasn't into kissing them. I think I even told them, "I'm not really a kissy girl"...but with the guy I'm seeing now, I could lay with him and make out for hours... I think not all men are going to kiss every woman with passion because kissing is so personal.
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I will never know,,,, I never kissed and won't kiss a man!!!-
Selbon- ?
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heh heh, good answer Selbon!!!
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Sorry, don't agree! Apart from personal experience snogging there is no scientific proof to back up such a claim.
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jafabrit- It is as per melindaville mentioned sexually compatibility. The kiss will determine that
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no, like I said it is NOT a given.
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Please don't keep quoting me incessantly as you have been. I am not special authority on kissing or anything else.
This is all opinion--Jafabrit is welcome to HER opinion. In my opinion, if I am not 'feeling it' when I kiss a man, I doubt we are going to have sexual chemistry. That's my OPINION! Not fact!!! -
melindaville- You said:
In my opinion, if I am not 'feeling it' when I kiss a man, I doubt we are going to have sexual chemistry. That's my OPINION! Not fact!!!
But I feel this way too, so it must be a fact. -
your feeling something does not make it fact. My experience does NOT support your so called fact.
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It is NOT a fact! It's an opinion. MY opinion. Don't be spreading my opinion in support of your claims! Support your claims with your own opinion. Leave me out of it!
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I think this may be the first thing AchEmpire has ever said that I agree with. I don't think it's so much a matter of "good", though, as of compatability.-
I think it can suggest compatibility but I remember a couple of occasions where that is where the compatibility ended, so I don't think it's a given.
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MadameX- Ok, but glad you somewhat agree.
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Considering as kissing of all forms is a big part of lovemaking, it is hardly a surprising conclusion.-
jeremyjanson- Great you agree
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Yes it is all about foreplay.It will also tell you if your partner like it rough but the way it is done.
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Maybe i should put a list on TYPES OF KISSES:
1.vacuum cleaner kiss-sort of that takes your breath away
2,Chocolate kisses: messy and sweet
3.Kiss of Death: You know that one
4.baby Kisses: Cute
5.Platonic Kisses: Yeah that one too
6.Vampire Kiss: One that leaves a mark.-
celticmusicfan -I like the kiss where he kisses you all over the face slowly while still holding your face like a baby, then gently to your lips like an angel.
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Ah you are talking about Napoleon Kiss.
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A man's cunnilingus should do the same.
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voodooKobra- You just had to take it your way?
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Burger King, BK. Blog Catalog, BC. Can you blame me for trying to have it my way?
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i say a dance tell you how compatible you are.-
*does the Lady Gaga(Pararazzi) with lolita*
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LolitaV- What do you mean by a dance?
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again a man with Rhythmn will rock your world because:
*he knows what to do with his body
*he is not stiff in the hips
etc...
@celtic u r a poor dancer
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What's in a kiss
Have you ever wondered just what it is
More perhaps than just a moment of bliss
Tell me what's in a kiss.
What's in a dream
Is it all the things you'd like to have been
All the places that you haven't yet seen
Tell me what's in a dream.
I know it's really rather stupid of me
But I honestly don't know
Every time I try to find a solution
I'm surprised at how quickly I become so slow.
What's in a kiss
Have you ever wondered just what it is
More perhaps than just one moment of bliss
Tell me what's in a kiss.
And any time you need a light refreshment
Baby you can count on me
I am your very own delicatessen
Well equipped to supply you with your every need.
Well what's in a kiss
Have you ever wondered just what it is
More perhaps than just one moment of bliss
Tell me what's in a kiss.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUCgBZz_GoI -
I agree with your statement, achempire.
Need to ask you though: Why are you so obsessed with men? I am too, but for reasons I won't go into here.-
aspotofblog- You think I'm osbessed? I'm trying to craft out my future husband eventually, so I can get married & have kids like all my other friends
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We already know why.
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dbowles1017 - Already know what?
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WOW...I can't beleive you said that!!! Your trying to "craft" out your husband so you can get married and have kids like all your other friends???
I don't even know where to begin on that one...! Thats kind of sad.
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some couples aren't big on the kissing, how would that fit in?
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hadn't thought of that, but yes, you're right!
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Floormodel - Then how does the romance take place in bed if there is no kissing?
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Actually that's a very good point--some *cultures* are not big on kissing.
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My culture is not big on kissing either...but when you are married to a westerner,...you gotta catch up lol. That's when French kissing comes in
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there's other parts involved in the bed stuff. things can and do work just fine. but my point is not much kissing doesn't mean bad or not much "other stuff"
you can start a fire with only one spark y'know
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Achempire, most of your threads are about men.
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@ ache, its funny and surprising to learn about your understanding[ mis understanding ] and view points on such/related issues -
aspotofblog -True, if you put it that way.
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Ok. Do girls like kissing with tongues? Do you call that passionate?
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Selbon - Silly that's called french kissing, & if it's done correctly the kiss will cause giddyness
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meh...
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LOL
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Hmmmm, I would have to disagree based on personal experience. I've had great kissers who were lousy in bed, great kissers who had no idea what to do in bed, lousy kissers who were unbelievable in bed, *meh* kissers who were unbelievable in bed, and every combination in between.
Sexual prowess (what one can do with their body and to your body) has little to do with the way they kiss. If they are great kissers and great in bed, awesome. But I wouldn't for a minute prejudge one's ability based on something so simple as a kiss.-
Yep, my personal experience doesn't the support claimed fact either.
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Anok - Hi do you know what sexual compability is? You can only determine this by way he touches you & kisses you. If you don't feel the feeling when he touches or kisses you, then you will not feel in anything when hes sleeping with you. It will just be straight lust
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hey u r talking mathematics.... its neither physics, biology and chemistry...its art and all about artistic expressions.
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Adityavardhan - We all have our own opinions, so what ever works best for you then go for it.
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Sexually compatibility comes with having sex. If you have sex, and it is terrible, there may be a few reasons:
The trust is not there, performance anxiety, purely a bad lay/incompatibility, inexperience. Everything but a pure incompatibility can be worked through and improved.
I know I've trained my fair share of lovers, and it was worth every moment. -
Anok - You said:
Sexually compatibility comes with having sex
No it doesn't- I'm dating a guy right now & have been dating him since 2/5/09. He & I kissed 1st time 2/20/09 & we knew we were sexual compatible by the kiss. He & I kissed all through the 90 probation period "with no sex". So you can have sexual compability without involving sex. -
"But I feel this way too, so it must be a fact."
Yes we all have opinions and different experiences Ach but what you are claiming is that your opinion, what you feel makes it a fact. -
In your experience, that is. Not in mine.
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Oops. Double post.
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LOL just because he's a good kisser, and you like him, doesn't mean that the sex will be to die for.
He may not know what you like, he may be woefully inadequate (size wise and talent wise) he may be into things that you are most definitely uncomfortable with and vice versa.
I speak from a lot of experience here. Looks, kisses, "chemistry" all good stuff...but none of them will guarantee you anything at all.
For example: I met a guy in college - hot, hot, hot. Not a bad kisser (I'd had better), but definitely...RAWR on the chemistry scale. He absolutely sucked in bed. Just...nothin. I mean, I wanted to get a magazine to read until he was done. He was great at oral sex, though.
Case in point: I hate the way my husband kisses. But good Lord do I love the way he moves in bed. It's Earth freaking shattering!
Case in point: A wonderful guy I dated for a couple of years when I was just a teen. Great guy, great chemistry! great kisser! Couldn't have sex with him. Literally. It didn't fit. He was like some freakish porn star, and thus, we were unfortunately and completely incompatible in bed.
really, the list goes on and on. Compatibility in almost any respect comes with time, and experience.
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Well I don't know how true that is but I will say that guys I kissed who weren't too good I never actually slept with because I wasn't interested enough to find out.-
That's kind of where I'm at! Who knows? Maybe they would have been great--but if the kiss isn't good, I would lose interest in them sexually.
The first time my husband kissd me, my toes curled (in delight--I shoudl add that). It totally knocked me off my feet. -
@Melinda, that's a pretty awesome kiss...I mean toe curling/numbing only happens when...well never mind but that seems like a pretty awesome kiss.
With the guy I thought I would marry when he kissed me for the first time it felt like firecrackers going off...that's an amazing feeling possibly once in a lifetime...
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"We all have our own opinions, what ever works best for you then go for it."
@ ache....
If this is such an individualistic question, then where is the discussion.... what is the point...and what will be the conclusion. -
I kind of have to agree with you here...I mean men who are giving, sesual, patient and passionate when they kiss tend to be that way in bed...but that still dosen't gurantee that the sex is hot. I mean some men have kissed a lot and not had as much sex..experiance is half the battle.
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lotusb- With me if I feel the passion generated from his kiss the first time, I already know if sexual chemistry/compatibility is there or not. I'm dating a guy right now who had to do the 90 probation period. My point is I knew when he first kissed me how good he would be in bed, but waiting it out 90 days caused he & I passion to explode in bed everytime we get together. He's a Scorpio & I'm a Aries, he is much older than me though, he's 59.
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Wow...59. Well that's good. I just don't think that's a general rule that applies to EVERYone. Although like Faith said above...I'd be hard-pressed to sleep with a guy who couldn't kiss me right. But sexual chemistry has a lot to do with so many things...ability, compatability, communication, experiance, foreplay....to measure one's ability to please you in bed based on their kiss every time might be a little too ridged. You got a lotta rules, Miss.
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*pictures OP's makeout move--the reach around/feel up wallet* -
Depends what he kisses..... LOL -
So there you go, Anok. You either have chemistry with someone or you don't. It's different for everyone.
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aspotofblog & anok- I agree with you both, either you have it or you don't
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Wrong - you can not determine a man with a great or long kisse -
a great kisse or long is only showing that he realy cares about the girl or just a beginer & praticing --
nycmovers - I understand, but for me it's a little different than that.
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AchEmpire you are very active in that subject -
when was the last time you got a long & good kisse ?? -
nycmovers- I want to know why do you think I'm very active in this subject?
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nycmovers: Wrong, In YOUR experience. Geez, I agreed with achempire because that's what I found to be true in MY case. How can you say we are wrong?
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aspotofblog - Yes I agree with you too.
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Well i will say it depends. If the man is horny at the particular time the kiss may be full of lust(ppl call it a passionate kiss). but when he is in his usual mood the kiss might not be that passionate. Why girls judge men by the kiss? go and try them on bed if you are too much concearn about how he is on bed.lol-
techhgyan - I would say it's not really judging, but more analyzing
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I would have to disagree with your theory. A man could kiss you and you would judge it as bad while he could kiss others and they would love it and judge it as good. It will all be based on the perception of the individual to the kiss and what their criteria of a good kiss is and their expected feelings to get from the kiss. But I think It would be unfair to kiss someone with your own expectations, expecting to receive something good, that's plain selfish.
A man could practice to be a good kisser, but does he really become good or he is just good based on your criteria. He can also practice to become good in bed or is he really good or just became good for you? Why judge something based on another thing kiss and sex are separate act unless you're kissing while having sex. LOL-
jerrodmcjunkin - Whatever works for you
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I love how threads involving AchEmpire dissolve into battles over what people meant to say, grammar and wording.. Nothing actually ever gets answered.
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iratedog - You think so? I don't
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yeah I do, like that first comment with the guy asking you a simple question. and then again with jafabrit and melinda
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iratedog - But that's not everyone, as you inform me.
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Iratedog was providing examples, not making it his mission to literally name everyone who participated in the thread.
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voodooKobra - Hi how are you today? This is between iratedog & me, but thanks for your input.
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@Ache: If you want a private discussion with Iratedog, post a private message in his shoutbox. This is a public thread.
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Yes, if you want to discuss something with another person, do so outside of a public forum.
Also, iratedog never said "everyone," you did. -
Rainhat - I did not say this thread was a private discussion.
Voodookobra said: Iratedog was providing examples, not making it his mission to literally name everyone who participated in the thread.
So I was only commenting based on his comment.
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YAY it's humpday...WEDNESDAY!!! Who's gettin drunk tonight???
I AM!!!!-
@lotusb, my drunken(ness) is reserved for Friday nights. I will be with you in spirit though.
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It would have been me and D's 4 year anniversary so we're having dinner tonight. No way to get through that but to be sht-faced...ya know?
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