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Some are content with their partners. Some are not. Some are fully happy with their partners.

What about you?

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  1. nothingprofound
    Yes. I figure she's as good as anyone else.
    1. vijayanths
      Nice start from you,thanks.
  2. Anok
    You'll never be fully happy or content in any relationship until you are fully happy and content with yourself.

    With that said, no, I am not fully content and happy because I am not content and happy with myself 100%. But my spouse, with all of his quirks and issues too is a solid match for me, and I am happy to have him in my life. I wouldn't want to share my misery with anyone else
    1. vijayanths
      nice to note you have the right match. Why you are not happy with yourself? Can we know?
    2. rainforestrobin
      @Anok

      I just love you!! This is so honest, blunt and to the point and so human and real and YES!!! Wonderful!!
  3. Agit8r
    yeah, being self gratified is key
    1. vijayanths
      thanks for the response.
  4. ckent27
    I am very happy. Of course, I'm just in a relationship with myself. haha. But I am a very happy single person. One day maybe I'll have a relationship!
    1. vijayanths
      So you are 100% happy with your relationship,lol.Your picture confirms it.
  5. LolitaV
    YES!!!
    I married a man on the streets and a freak in the sheets, lol! but seriously, D. is great dad, a wonderful person and the man of my dreams.
    1. vijayanths
      It is very important that a man should be a good dad.
  6. RudrakshRudranjali
    Yes .. she is a very nice person.. probably the best..
    but many a times I feel ..I am not upto the mark..
    1. vijayanths
      this humble statement itself tells that you are no less than your wife. Good couple, wish you a very happy,long married life.
    2. RudrakshRudranjali
      oh so nice of you.....
  7. Rivy
    Fairly well. Once the fantasy begins to fade I just fantasize about another.
    1. RudrakshRudranjali
      life itself is fantasy..till you realize it... and by the time you realize...its shattered dreams...
    2. vijayanths
      @Rivy:
      That is the secret of your long interesting relationship?
  8. rainforestrobin
    Yes, I am very happy in my relationship or I wouldn't be in it. We laugh, care, share, look after each other, are compassionate, thoughtful, kind and loving. YES!!!
    1. vijayanths
      Great, that is what important in a relationship.
    1. vijayanths
      No one yet?
  9. oesterhoudt
    To the extent that we can attain anything approaching true happiness in this world, I am extremely pleased with my relationship. We have been together for 10 years through every possible adversity and we have conquered injury, jealousy, mutual mistrust and poor communication. After working out all the trouble, we have found an inseparable bond. My partner almost died in an accident and I have cared for him ever since, sacrificing my job in the process. Never forget: Relationships are HARD WORK and not for the faint of heart, the jealous, the possessive or the proud. If a relationship seems "easy," something is wrong. Success requires not only self-effacement, but also the ability to endure humiliation, even when you don't deserve it. If you always must be right, it is not the path for you.

    Do relationships make us happy? I think they offer a seductive way to trigger immensely pleasurable sensations. But only the individual can say what makes him or her happy. I write about it all the time, both seriously and through satire... feel free to check out my archives on it:

    reasoncommercejustice.blogspot.com/search/label/Happiness

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