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Are You Happy For Your Ex(s)?

Posted by lotusb • 10/30/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: relationships

Is there one that got away and has someone new now? Or more than one? How do you honestly feel about it, happy for them? Jealous? Mad? What about the person your with now, could you be happy for them if they were with someone else?

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10/30/09

Floormodel

excluding my exhusband because that's a whole different kettle of fish, with my most recent at first I felt a gnawing of jealousy but I'm happy in my own relationship so the jealousy faded fast and I do want him to be happy I care(d) deeply for him and it just didn't work for us but I bear him no ill will. I hope he's found or will find what works for him, like I've found what works for me

except the exhusband I mentioned. He married his own personal hell after we divorced... I'm glad, he wanted her while we were married, he got her forever and it's not a good forever. heh heh heh!

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1. 10/30/09
  
  lotusb
  
  Ooooh....karma really bit him in the ass eh??
10/30/09

MissSuzie

All my ex's are right where I want them -- neatly tucked beneath my floorboards.

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1. 10/30/09
  
  brianomaracroft
  
  I use mine as a scarecrow.
2. 10/30/09
  
  MissSuzie
  
  Yeah, I pull them all out at this time of year. I hang them in my trees for Halloween decorations.
3. 10/30/09
  
  lotusb
  
  I burn them and brush my teeth with their ashes.
10/30/09

nothingprofound

Totally indifferent. I don't spend any time thinking about the past.

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10/30/09

LGramlich

I'm happy THAT he's my ex, if that counts. (He didn't exactly "get away," I did.) When he got married years ago I even drove his sister & nephew to the ceremony. No hard feelings, I'm just done.

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