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Are you the cat or the mouse?
Posted by brianomaracroft • 25 days ago • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: cat-and-mouse, Dating, relationships, sex
If you're interested in someone, do you pursue them, or hang back and wait for them to pursue you? How do you get their attention?
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Make them chase me.-
What if you meet a hot gal who feels the same way? -
A Mexican standoff of lust
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I initiate it, but I don't chase after them. If they don't take the bait (and they usually do) then I move on to whoever is next.
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That explains a lot. -
LMAO suzie, i wondered if you'd chime in....
db - sounds like you're a bit a player too - they usually take the bait...... so what's wrong with my baiting an ex and getting what i want? bait is bait.....it's just the level of the prize that's the issue.... -
suzie- what do you mean that explains a lot?
taco- im no player. Umm... err... *eject* -
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I just meant you are who you are, sweetie.
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Of course.
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If I'm interested, I hit on them immediately.-
What if he feels you come on too strongly and turns away?
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I do pursue them, but I think of myself more as a regal lion then a small housecat, and them less a pathetic but tasty mouse and more a beautiful and graceful gazelle to hold in my jaws, lovingly, forever, and I refrain from lowering my dignity to the extent that I can. I certainly do not "hit" on them.-
I'll be your mouse if you promise not to be to rough with me
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I think Amy's hitting on you!
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Doesn't that make her a cat then? -
Cats get eaten by Lions, unfortunately this one got spit out.
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Not hitting on him no never not me. I am married and live in tennessee. He is hairy and lives in Georgia. I am moving North with every relation ship. I can not go back down south.
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I'm a primate, actually: so I make a lot of noise.-
That's the best way to go
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...like a howler monkey
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Males chase, females choose. Pretty standard format across the entire animal kingdom -
I think you're right about that.
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I get hit upon mostly online. I try my best to piss them off
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Lets form a union or something..
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Spent a few years doing the chasing, but got lazy - and found that DB has the right idea (wish I'd figured it out earlier). Getting them to do the chasing works so much better, or at least it did for me.
I've now got no need to chase any more - and have become blind to those who might want to chase me. -
I'm more in "Are you the bug or the windshield?" mode... -
i hit on him immediately - however, after that, he needs to chase me. He needs to prove his interest....if he doesn't chase immediately, I have plenty of other options.
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wp
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I will give signs that I'm interested. If a man doesn't have the balls to pursue me, chances are, he can't handle me.
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yup - when i start talking to a guy, i make it clear that i have a strong personality.... they either embrace it or bolt - doesn't affect my life either way because only the brave prevail.
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Will you marry me?
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absolutely!!! and i have plenty of toys to keep us occupied - and the best part is?? since we'd love each other more than we could love any man, we could sleep with men and it wouldn't screw up our relationship!!
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Can I throw flowers at your wedding ?
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Promise you won't get mad if I'm at Paul Brown Stadium watching the Bengals when they're home and I say "I do."
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awwww! absolutely!! but my friend Mikey in England has to be my best man LOL
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Haha! All shall be arranged! Nothing should be impossible for a lovely wedding like this!
Maybe I can arrange some camera's? So MissSuzie can watch the Bengals and say 'I do'. Sjtavo's best man from England can tune in live from England to witness it all and...Sjtavo will you be running around the town? -
promise me you won't care when I scream at the TV during Notre Dame games and that you won't care when I take off with an Ex for a quickie LMAO and I say "I Do." LOL
and yes TJ, I will be running around town, but can stop long enough to exchange vows....now my behavior during the reception, well........ -
@TJ: You are the best wedding planner ever!
@sj: It's a deal. -
Does either state allow same sex marriages? -
I'll wear the tux because i don't like dresses anyways - however, I will be wearing a bustier.... can't keep the DD's contained!
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Hahaha! I think that would be perfectly fine!! Like I said, all is possible! This is going to be the most flexible wedding ever! And probably no issues with clothing too. Maybe MissSuzie will run off as well
I just make sure that the camera's will stop rolling at one point...otherwise it will be the next reality show. -
Oh hell, we'll have a nude wedding. No need to cage up the girls.
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ummmm no, Ohio does not support same-sex marriages but since when does a thing like a law keep me from following my heart? LOL
TJ, we definitely need to make sure the cameras stop before I make it on the next Girls Gone Wild...or online porno LOL -
Haha perfect!! Okay we got the locations, best man, dress code: nude and what about music?
Oh wait! You can have you own music since you both will be running around and well...wow! You are making this so pleasantly easy haha
Sjtavo, I will make sure that the camera's stop before it gets too spicy . You got my word as the virtual wedding planner! -
rock on!
as for music - we need a little of everything - however, our wedding dance needs to be Frank Sinatra - fly me to the moon. or Prince - pussy control? LOL -
Oh god
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Our wedding dance? Definitely pussy control.
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Haha!! Cool! Well we need to find a spot where you two both meet then. I will make sure the band and audience will be standing, waiting for your first dance together and after that you can proceed running along and doing what you were doing
DB - Oh god is appropriate...this is one of the best weddings ever. -
@db: Nice use of 'oh god'!
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awesome! pussy control it is... location..... new york city =)
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*checks everything of her list*
Awesome! I think all is set then
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Catmouse/black widow/bunny/deer
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You eat your mate after he fertilizes your eggs?
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Wow! Interesting mix! The Black Widow part can be dangerous huh?
DB! Did you have to pick out that one too -
@db: Is there another way?
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Ugh, I have been doing this a lot today *eject* ;p
TJ- haha, post faster? -
It is no fun being just the cat or just the mouse, different folks evoke different animals
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Crpitt - Haha you're right about that ^_^
DB - I will...next time. -
Hmm I have noticed that DB is a premature ejector...
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lmao!!
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LMAO he does seem to be ejecting a lot lately, early into conversations LOL
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He has confused ejaculating with ejecting. He's working too hard (or not hard enough).
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Ejecting early allows me to last longer on my second attempt. So I can understand the flow of things.
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ahhhhh! more than a one-pump chump! awesome!!!!!!
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db: I think I just fell in love.
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What can I say?
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Oh god...the moment passed.
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uh oh.....we're entering my fantasy world now.....lots of chicks fighting over one .... LOL
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your fantasy world?
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Neither...I'm speedy Gonzalez....arrrrrriba,arrrrrrba
Un de lay. Un de lay -
Well I know he's technically a mouse,but he's better than Jerry
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