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Back Ground Check on potential mate
Posted by Fabulous44 • 5/23/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: relationship
Is it wrong to do a background check on a potential mate...
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I wouldn't -
No, it is not wrong. You need to know what you have coming.
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You need to stop meeting women at the bar. -
are you insane? -
I was going to do a background check on a boyfriend, and I even gave him a heads up. Needless to say he freaked out. I didn't end up doing it, but I'm not against it. I wouldn't have a problem with someone doing a background check on me. -
It is also wrong to do a checkmate on a background with potential.-
Too many margaritas Friday?
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Who do you take me for, lady?!
They were mai tais. -
haha...I just had a sour apple margarita so it's on my mind..
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Well, you're still putting the words in the right order.
Um ... right? *adjusts glasses* -
right words...right order...haha
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What if the person is all foreground? What do you do, then?-
You do a foregorund check, of course.
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with something a little harder......like moonshine.
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Of course the person could turn out to be all foreplay-and that's a definite red flag.
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Well, if you pick a celebrity as a potential mate like Lisanyc did, a background check is unnecessary!
dearscottpeterson.blogspot.com/-
smart
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Wow...interesting since of humor.....at least I hope that's what it is.
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what humor?
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Of course she is a (future) supermodel so she has the luxury to pick and choose her mates.
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Is JFlower talking about your blog Cooking Asshole?
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that would be very rude if she was...
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Doll's link about love letters to Scott Peterson. I wasn't referring to you cookingasshole
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But I don't find the humor?
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I would at least like to think my sense of humor is genuine...
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yeah she is just a lady in love
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You can't help who you fall in love with !
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True...but you can do your best not to end up in someone's trunk with a severed head!
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to each his own...
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Well, I know for a fact that Lisanyc is a champion swimmer so I don't think she needs to worry!
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haha...I think she should really send the letters and see if she gets anything back. And who knows doll...maybe he has a roommate for you too!
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She has been sending letters~ I think the guards are intercepting his replies and that's why she hasn't heard back (yet!)
And Doll is spoken for! -
I heard he was engaged anyway....
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Well, Lisanyc has been planning their wedding, I know she has been auditioning bridesmaids!
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a google search usually suffices
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I'm all for background checks. No one wants to find out after they're married that they just married a pedophile or rapist.
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oOo did you marry one of those?
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LOL!!
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Doll, no I've never married a rapist or pedophile.
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phew ! I was worried about your safety!
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My intuition is pretty good...
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Wow. Incredible how some people find my choice of a mate "funny." Do you know Scott Peterson? Have you walked a mile in his shoes? At least he had the guts to end his relationship with Laci, unlike some people I know who stay stuck in bad marriages forever! Think about THAT, jflower36!!!-
LOL Lisa,
Well you have a point there. I guess if you are "lucky" enough to start up a relationship with him you can be assured that he won't cheat on you because he will just "end the relationship". Hopefully it will happen fast.
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u should just figure this person out urself, don't find a document to judge them by. Just be with them and feel it out. -
At least Scott Peterson isn't a rapist or pedophile! Every guy brings some baggage to a relationship.......if you're looking for perfection, you'll always be alone.
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Exactly! and Scott has done the right thing and discarded all of his baggage so you two can start out with a clean slate!
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Right. How many men are willing to do that? Many men would stay married and have affairs, and Scott only cheated on Laci for a little while with that massage therapist, until he wised-up and did the right thing. Jflower36 and other perfectionists need to stop being so judgmental and focus more on the positive attributes of others.
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what self-righteous aholes!
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Picky women like those end up alone and middle-aged on shows like "Real Housewives." So sad! My advice to the ladies is to drop the unrealistically high standards! It will do wonders for your social life.
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Let's think of some positives of Scott Peterson:
--he knows how to tie things up
--he's good at "undercover work"
--he's not afraid of death
--he's a risk taker
--he's a fisherman
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I think it would be nice to know your potential mate's background. But how do u do a background check on someone who lives in another continent, someone you just met online? Pray, tell me...
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ask their parents.....and then beat them all with a shovel.
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Oh totally, don't forget a sniff test and a DNA sample as well.
I'll tell you what's also good, do a body language course and also set up a hidden web cam
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