Discussions

Discussions » General Discussion

lotusb

Could You Have Sex Every Day?

Posted by lotusb • 10/21/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: sex

My bf and I made a pact to engage in sexual activity (with each other) every day. Do you think it's a pact that can last?

User Comments

10/21/08

PrincessQuello

I know I could.

[reply]
10/21/08

RTBjr73

YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES! YES!

In fact, you should start a side-project blog about it.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  PrincessQuello
  
  I'm sorry, what was that?
2. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  LOL...that would be a very interesting blog. Maybe we could start a forum for suggestions on how to keep it sontaneous.
3. 10/22/08
  
  mizhelena
  
  LOL I counted 56 YESSES! thats alot of sex!! LOL
4. 10/22/08
  
  HelloAnnie
  
  lol, you know why you're voted sexy BC member
5. 10/22/08
  
  pokey
  
  Damn, you need to recharge at some point. We are animals but not robots...
6. 11/24/08
  
  Jeunelle
  
  comment removed by the community.
10/21/08

xmarks

Practically speaking, I'm sure there would be a day or two a month that I would pass on. We have 3 kids under 7 and sometimes the day is just too tiring. I don't see my wife signing up for that pact either.

I guess it also depends on what you consider sexual activity. If it also includes 10 minutes of pleasant petting, then I probably would make 30 for 30.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  My definition is that at least one of the two participating parties gets off in any way possible.
2. 10/21/08
  
  xmarks
  
  Can you call my wife for me?
3. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  That's what I meant. The only days we skip is when she is under the weather.
  
  My wife actually asked me this past weekend, "Do you still fantasize about me?"
  
  And without batting an eye, I blurted out "Every f**king day of my life." Thank goodness the kids were not around to hear THAT...lol.
4. 10/21/08
  
  ryam
  
  @RTBjr73
  
  That's sweet.
5. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  What is this under the weather?? When I'm under the weather thats when its time to increase my mouth cancer risk!!
6. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  Next time she is sick, I'll have her call ya for a pep talk...LOL.
7. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  I might be in the wrong state of mind...but do I hear threesome?
8. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  not wrong state of mind...but I like your thinking.
9. 10/21/08
  
  PrincessQuello
  
  Do you guys need someone to hold the camera?
10/21/08

ryam

Yes I can have sex everyday.
No I don't think I can do it with the same person forever.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  LMAO...well that defeats the purpose of the question.
10/21/08

psychosolodiver

Yes, and more than once! I know because I do. Whether someone else is with me still remains to be seen.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  OMG, how did I overlook this comment...LMAO!! Good point, self-gratification is important for one's relationship with ones self.
2. 10/21/08
  
  kat822
  
  lol psycho you know I hear that it causes blindness lol
10/21/08

MadameX

Honestly, I'm struggling to understand the question. You can eat meals, go to work, feed the dog, read the newspaper, etc.,etc.,etc., every day--a lot of people even blog every day--what's more worthwhile?

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  It's simple, could you have sex every day as part of a pact like the one I have with my bf.
2. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  Sex with my wife is WAY more worthwhile everyday than reading the newspaper, etc.,etc.,etc., :-)
3. 10/21/08
  
  MadameX
  
  Sure. I'm surprised it's a question. I've done it for long stretches of time when I was married and I can't understand why anyone might consider that it would be impossible, or even difficult.
10/21/08

timethief

Q: Could you have sex everyday.
My bf and I made a pact to engage in sexual activity (with each other) every day. Do you think it's a pact that can last?

A: Yes, but I would never propose or enter into such a pact with my husband and he would never propose or enter such a pact with me either. Surprise! Sex is not the ONLY reason we are married, nor is sex THE most important part of our relationship. We like sex very much and we have it frequently, but we don't consider sex as being an "obligatory act" and making a pact to have sex every day would render it as such. In fact, I believe that if we did enter such a pact that it would cheapen the experience.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  MadameX
  
  Did Lotus (or anyone else) suggest that sex was the "only reason" for the relationship or an "obligatory act"? Many people find that regular sexual intimacy strengthens their relationships on many other levels. It's a shame you don't share that experience, but you can be different without being judgmental. Or rather, some people can.
2. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  @TT: Well, I guess if you see it thta way. For us, sex is a physical expression of our love and affection. When we have a hectic day we can lay next to each other and feel close, and intamate. We don't loose touch with what is important in our relationship, which is closeness and intamacy, not just the sexual aspect. I don't think sex cheapens a relationship, I think it strengthens it. We are also just very sexual people, and a young couple. So maybe your perspective is different.
3. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  @timethief, give her a break...she's half your age...give her time to get the fulfillment of sexual love that you have progressed to. ;-)
4. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  LOL- nevermind.
5. 10/21/08
  
  timethief
  
  @RTBjr73
  I could care less what other people choose to make pacts about. I was asked for my opinion and I stated it. What I forgot to mention is that we are sometimes separated so during those times when he works away it would be impossible to fulfill the obligations created of such a pact.
6. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  TT: I appriciate that you gave your opinion. I guess sometimes your opinion comes off a little....jugemental. But, to each his own, and thank you for participating. Your opinion is then, "no" this kind of pact would not last?
7. 10/21/08
  
  MadameX
  
  "timethief
  I could care less what other people choose to make pacts about. I was asked for my opinion and I stated it."
  
  Huh. I guess you read a different question than the one I see at the top of the page, which asked whether you could do it and whether you thought it could last. I ENTIRELY missed the invitation to denigrate the person asking the question and other people's relationships.
8. 10/21/08
  
  timethief
  
  @lotusb
  Read what I said again please. I did not say that having a sex pact cheapened your relationship. I said I felt that doing so within my own relationship with my husband would cheapen it. In fact, I did not pass judgment on your relationship or your sex life at all in any way shape or form.
  
  I responded by providing my own opinion based on the realities of my own relationship.
9. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  @timethief...I was giving you props, girl!!!
10. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Absolutely, and I was stating mine. This is usually how discussions go. One person states an opinion, then someone states theres back, and it kind of goes back and forth. My opinion was that sex shouldn't cheapen a relationship but make it stronger. I also said my opinion is based on being a very sexual person and being pretty young. Therefore, I'm sure our perspective are different. Which is the point of my question, to hear other perspectives.
11. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  @TT, seperation dosen't equal drought...Theres always phone sex!
10/21/08

DrowseyMonkey

That's a really personal issue ... I don't understand people sharing this kind of thing online. Also, if you're going to ask the question I'm sure some people won't agree with you.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  I haven't objected to anyone's opinion, so I guess your not referring to me. I don't think this question is anymore personal that a question about political opinions, abortion or religious beleifs.
2. 10/21/08
  
  timethief
  
  @drowseymonkey
  That's a really personal issue ... I don't understand people sharing this kind of thing online. Also, if you're going to ask the question I'm sure some people won't agree with you.
  
  Yup, I agree with you. This is a personal issue and I don't usually share anything about my very active and very satisfying sex life online. Considering the response I got to my comment from a sideline sniper here today (not from the OP or from RTB or from DM) I don't think I'll bother sharing my opinions on this subject in the future.
3. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  I don't mean to be a poop here...but can you two just kindly remove yourselves from the discussion. It's just a light hearted question. It's not a political debate. If it makes you feel so offended or invaded...just DONT respond. My GOODNESS!!
4. 10/21/08
  
  DrowseyMonkey
  
  omg ... this is why I haven't been around in a while ... because of this kind of stuff. So I gave a comment you didn't like ... you don't own this thread. I wasn't trying to be difficult I just stated that I don't understand sharing this kind of stuff ... it's obviously an age issue because way back in my day when I was your age we didn't discuss these kinds of issues with strangers.
  
  Lighten up yourself.
5. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Personally, when I see a thread I don't understand or have any input towards (relating to the subject) I simply don't involve myself with it. It's just a suggestion.
10/21/08

gosmelltheflowers

Just once per day?

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Good point...let me clarify. DAILY..in whatever quantity needed.
10/21/08

jackpayne

Sure. And twice on Sundays, Three times on New Year's Eves and days celebrating the end of wars.

I am a boy of only 82. Bring 'em all on.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Jack...your awesome. I only hope my man keeps the same gusto.
2. 10/21/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  Yes, Jack...thank you!!!
  
  You have swept the flaccidness out of the thread.
  
  YOU DA MAN!!!
3. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  WHOOP WHOOP WHOOP WHOPP!!!
4. 10/21/08
  
  kat822
  
  Jack you are a freak in the bed ! good for you
5. 11/24/08
  
  Jeunelle
  
  jackpayne a sex machine...alright jack
10/21/08

irtiza104

i dont think it's possible 365 days in a year.... but who knows!! it's SEX we are talking about!!!!

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Thats right, ALWAYS worth a try!!
2. 10/21/08
  
  xmarks
  
  If you try for 365 days, fail and get only in the 350's, that really doesn't seem like much of a failure at all.
3. 10/21/08
  
  PetLvr
  
  even in the 200's would be considered a success in my books.
10/21/08

mrnightman

Yeah I Do! thats a big YES!

[reply]
10/21/08

voodooKobra

If I could ever get a girlfriend, maybe.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Propose a lifetime of sexual pleasure, and I'm sure you'll get one.
2. 10/21/08
  
  kat822
  
  Awe voodoo you 'll find her ,
3. 10/21/08
  
  voodooKobra
  
  Somehow I don't think that will work as a pickup line, lotusb.
4. 10/22/08
  
  Sway
  
  You just need to find a place where there are more intelligent females. When you find that place let me know where it is. PS @the females, before all you females get mad at me, answer this: are you single?
10/21/08

henchmanmike

Absolutely. I can.

[reply]
10/21/08

SharkysWorld

I think most people could have sexy daily if they have a partner they are attracted too....so yes, I could....and all night

[reply]
10/21/08

Sylvia

how great would it be....

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  I think if everyone in the world got laid EVERY day, the world would simply be better. Explains a lot about the 8 years Clinton was president.
10/21/08

PetLvr

There's no doubt that I am in the majority on this group discussion ..

[reply]
10/21/08

Fitzgerald

I think I could, the wife and I have had a few good runs over the years Good luck on that.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Graci!
10/21/08

dcdatingdiva

If he was hot & sexy...yes...and if he could mentally stimulate me, so that by the time I got home, I was ready to errr, jump his bones...double yes...

[reply]
10/21/08

RTBjr73

going home now.

BTW, just got off the phone with the wife. She said I get booty call if I give the two little ones a bath tonight.

them boys will be squeeky clean, I tell ya!!!!!

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Hit it HOME!!
10/21/08

chrissymarie321

Well to sound a bit like TT
Do I think it is a pact that can last?
Nope
I have loads of reason why not........but you gave TT a difficult time about her reasons so "Nope" will suffice

[reply]
10/21/08

Hangingonahyphen

I can have wishful thinking everyday...

[reply]
10/21/08

thefly

Ill make it real simple, YES.

Having sex everyday is as easy as setting aside 2 to 10 minutes just so the guy can get off. Easy.

buzz buzz

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  kat822
  
  fly you underestimate your self , afterall you are a young strapping man , well if you consider spagetti arms strapping lol , you know I am just teasing love ya
10/21/08

petrosianii

i can have sex everyday...but maybe not with another person

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  chrissymarie321
  
  LOL@petrosianii
10/21/08

djumbox

LOL! The interesting thing is, my gf n I made the similar pact too. We agreed on twice a day for a start, it lasts for a week now and we're sticking to schedule

good luck and have fun !

[reply]
10/21/08

ModelElaine

YES

[reply]
10/21/08

burtf51

You must be crazy! I Can't Afford It!

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  chrissymarie321
  
  PMSL @burtf51 That is the funniest comment I have seen all day...:)
10/21/08

kikolani

Definitely, assuming no ones bits get injured. Just make sure to throw in some variety (different times, locations, etc.) that way things don't get too repetitive. But it is definitely possible. It is in my household anyway!

[reply]
10/21/08

abhbah05

yup, I agree with Kiko on variety too. It will get boring and seem more like a chore after a few months. I try to keep the same pact with my wife anyways.

[reply]
10/21/08

chrissymarie321

Ok, Ok, I need to do a serious one then?
So what happens on the day when you lose someone like your brother or your sister, your Mom or Dad and you just want a cuddle...?
On the days when you perhaps you feel really sick, poorly beyond belief. You want sex/lovemaking?
When your new baby is ill and coughing all night because they have caught a nasty bug and they have a temperature of 100 upwards
What happens when the chips are down and you worry because your teenager has gone out with a bunch of morons who take drugs....you gonna think about sex?
I am sorry to introduce a serious note...
When you are making your pledge, life is fun. What do you do when it isn't fun? Well I reckon you need a friend as well as a lover ...

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  xmarks
  
  In each of those scenarios, a little nookie would help me feel better. Those are the times I really need a little.
2. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Well, I've been with him for over three years. And while that's no 25 year marriage, we've seen each other through hard times. The death of my god mother, the loss of his uncle, surgery, injury, sickness, hard financial times and so on. In all these occasions, getting under the covers and getting intamate through sexual contact has always helped us mend without words. I'm not saying after a dramatic experiance we still want to pound each other sensless, but our minds AND our bodies are one and therefore sometimes, the best medicine is to feel your loved on next to (or in some cases inside) you. I stand by my claim.
10/21/08

ernestlobo

its an interesting pact but I think thats too much of a rule. A pact that says "regular" sex is fine but "daily" sex would just add to unnecessary expectation....

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  timethief
  
  wrong spot
10/21/08

Theresa111

No and no.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  timethief
  
  @Theresa111
  Wow! Here we are thinking alike and answering alike again.
2. 10/22/08
  
  Theresa111
  
  tt, My, my. I love your new avatar!
10/21/08

kdawg68

Are we talking with an actual human being or would my robotic slave chick creations count?

[reply]
1. 11/24/08
  
  Jeunelle
  
  or robotic gladiator armor wearing lizards? I'm in
10/21/08

mikeny07

Music is the best hobby I think. Chess never gets old even if you don't win. Learning new things online all the time. I have been doing that since the mid 90s.

Plenty of other things are more fun than doing the wild thing. I think most people are afraid to go against the crowd though.

I always say what I want though so I don't care.

[reply]
10/21/08

mikeny07

CJ has post 11! I am mad dawg! I think he can still pull it off though. I have to see the PP yet.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  kdawg68
  
  Wow - that's guts right there. Taking CJ? I guess I still haven't forgiven him for making me look stupid in the Derby.
  
  I'm thinking Go Between or one of the Euros (Henrythenav or the Duke) makes it interesting. I'm very worried about Curlin's chances in the Classic.
  
  Zenyatta, on the other hand - cha-ching. Single all the way on the P4 and P6.
  
  Are you ready for some 10 cent supers?? I am!!!
10/21/08

morgantj

It's more like, "how many times a day can you have sex?"

[reply]
10/21/08

cheftom

I could definitely manage that.

[reply]
10/21/08

jadedconformist

What else would we do? Talk? PFft. That's for people that have something in common.

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Nonsense, we talk. During after and before sex.
10/21/08

josephgelb

yep

[reply]
10/21/08

kat822

anything is possible

[reply]
10/21/08

LGramlich

I could, but I really wouldn't want to. I know I'm a weirdo for this, but I could live quite happily w/o sex ever again.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  drjay1966
  
  Oh, man, you're setting yourself up, Lana...but I won't say it....
2. 10/21/08
  
  LGramlich
  
  It's all good. I'm not afraid. *L*
3. 10/21/08
  
  drjay1966
  
  alright: "your husband said he could live quite happily w/o you having sex ever again, too!"
4. 10/21/08
  
  LGramlich
  
  Except that I know that's not true. See? Like water off a duck's back.
5. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Damn, I don't know if I could say that. I'm having the longest dry streak since high school and I'm so hory I could have sex with a stapler.
6. 10/22/08
  
  LGramlich
  
  lotusb; When I split from my ex I went about 6 straight years w/o any (& had no problem w/it.) Other than that there was the occassional, casual thing, which was completely unfulfilling.
10/21/08

ekim941

If I really had to, I guess I could.

Women are so demanding.

[reply]
1. 10/21/08
  
  pumpkinlights
  
  Haha, so thoughtful you are.
2. 10/21/08
  
  ekim941
  
  Well, Ya'know, just doing my job
10/21/08

pumpkinlights

Yes

[reply]
10/21/08

robinn

Not good for health. But some people can do it. My friend cannot go for work if he cannot get it.

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  I don't see how this isn't a healthy thing to do. It's exercise and it get yor blood pumping, it can't be a bad thing unless you are having unprotected sex with multiple partners.
10/21/08

loverofjazz

not if you guys end up forcing it. good luck though.

[reply]
10/21/08

MarkPogue

With or without a partner? With or without Viagra? Just kidding!

My answer is "yes".

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  dede
  
  i never use viagra yet, but its help? i meant any its any different?
2. 10/22/08
  
  MarkPogue
  
  @ dede
  
  I've heard it works quite well. Fortunately, I haven't needed it.
10/22/08

duckyluvfishdotcom

damn wish my gf was as nice as you ahah

[reply]
10/22/08

Laura1318

Theoretically it is possible but won't you be bored with it because it becomes a chore ? Will you get any pleasure out of it ?

[reply]
10/22/08

shabbarsuterwala

not everyday.. it becomes a routine...chore as laura said...

the law of economics.. the more you have it .. the less you want to have it.

leaders-workshop.blogspot.com/

[reply]
10/22/08

Swasasi

Every day, oh no... see on this blog sex-education.health-tips-diseases.com

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Your blog post has nothing to do with this discussion, please find other ways to promote.
10/22/08

keanxy

What a great discussion with many replies though I am inexperienced since birth, I think it will be really great thing to do of being consistent and taking commitment in doing it everyday. But in a long way it would be boring maybe a variety would be a pleasing way to do. I am not acting as I am expert here, I was just playing dumb. I am though an inexperienced guy. Sincerely yours, keanxy

[reply]
10/22/08

mizhelena

yes I think I could, ive done it in the past when I was with my bf so yes its possible.

[reply]
10/22/08

BlueSunshine

Quite easily the best pact ever.

[reply]
10/22/08

earthlingorgeous

QUESTION: My bf and I made a pact to engage in sexual activity (with each other) every day. Do you think it's a pact that can last?

MY ANSWER: As long as you still love and lust each other it will. Kudos!:)

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Thanks!
10/22/08

TOMDDiary

No! but I can make love with my wife everyday...there is a difference.

JB

[reply]
10/22/08

dede

its very depend on mood,..but mostly i never refuse when partner asking for a sex...

[reply]
10/22/08

braincatcher

I assume the pact expires in case of a break up. Therefore, it depends in your relationship if the pact will last.

[reply]
10/22/08

bradhart

I did for about 6 years then I hurt my back and had to cut back on all physical activity. (injury not related to kinky sex) On the other hand I see no reason I couldn't still enjoy a daily blow job.

[reply]
1. 10/23/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Thats the spirit!
10/22/08

loverofjazz

what? you mean WITH somebody? naw, that seems unlikely.

[reply]
10/22/08

mnlewis

One Question.......Any form of sex? Because some men get grossed out about our aunts (ie...menstrual) visiting every month. So if its any kind of sex sure I can do it everyday....actually I did with an ex-boyfriend. We were together for 2 yrs and U can tell you that maybe a totall of 3 mos in that time span we didn't have sex. Once we did it 7 times in one day. WOW! I miss that....LOL

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Yes any kind. Some men are bothered by it, some aren't. Personally unless I'm close to my last day, I think it's a bit unsanitary and prefer to use oral.
10/22/08

Jeunelle

And you all turned up your noses at me when I wanted to start a BC Sex Group. HA
SEX WITH LIZARDS IS THE BOMB

[reply]
10/22/08

Jeunelle

I highly recommend it.

[reply]
1. 10/23/08
  
  lotusb
  
  Wait....what?
2. 10/23/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  Juenells has a healthy fantasy laden mind when it comes to sex...She get's turned on by man-lizards dressed in gladiator leather gear, fighting to the death for her love.
  
  I keep waiting for her to release the first movie installment, but she keeps dragging her feet. ;-)
10/22/08

webmister

You can do it, just follow the tips given here:

netsafire.com/watermelonviagra

[reply]
10/22/08

Anniepooh

Sure we could. We have before (and sometimes twice daily lol), but for now - with a few physical limitations going on with DH, it won't happen. It's good we got it in early on, though - eh?

[reply]
10/22/08

loverofjazz

if i wasn't impotent i could. damn it.

[reply]
1. 10/22/08
  
  Sway
  
  there are drugs for that. I get spam everyday telling me this.
10/22/08

Takwa

YESSSSSSSSSSSS

[reply]
10/22/08

piodalcin

you can as long as the passion lasts...then slowly you'll start slowing down,skipping days eventually with excuses...but at least it was worth the efford in trying

[reply]
10/22/08

curlydesigh

Good for you. I don't have the time nor energy. Maybe if we lived together it would be different. I am all for quality vs. quantity.

[reply]
10/22/08

Bayho

well.. im sure you can im sure anyone can.. but i personally think that after a couple of months.. and after we have already tried everything you can possibliy do.. i would eventually get bored. haha.. but im sure if we continued to keep it interesting.. that wouldnt be for at least awhile.. make sense??

[reply]
10/23/08

DaVincisBlogLog

I think you can try but at some point you'll be sore...

[reply]
10/23/08

vrajeshpilathottat

possible,but not so sweet

[reply]
10/23/08

Rhumperd

Every day? Every single day? In some form or fashion?

If I said this would be a dream come true would it gross too many folks out? To the people who think they would get bored, I wonder about their imagination.

It would be an incentive to stay in shape. To stay well groomed. Not to stray for men. It may not be the only reason you love them, but it sure couldn't hurt.

Oh my. My mind is already bursting...

[reply]
1. 10/23/08
  
  RTBjr73
  
  @Rhumperd
  
  If the dream came true, I would bet my mortgage that you couldn't care less if it grossed out ANYONE!!! LOL
10/23/08

rareahak

back to the lotusb said : 'My bf and I made a pact to engage in sexual activity (with each other) every day. Do you think it's a pact that can last?'
in first period of relationship may be u can do that every day (1-1000... times a day), but after several times u will do that once for 1-1000... day

[reply]
10/23/08

loverofjazz

nope. the restraining order kinda rules it out.

[reply]
10/23/08

asanka000

yes. but if you and your partner needs only

[reply]
10/23/08

Katuluu

Every day? In a row?

[reply]
10/23/08

4Freedoms

Once a day, I think it's okay. It's like an exercise.

[reply]
10/23/08

djxtreme

MMM..I just had sex. What were you saying?

[reply]
10/23/08

amesplaza

hahaha. oh yeah i could. oh my god. it's been much too long since i've been laid.

meh.

but, yeah, if i could have sex everyday, i totally would.

[reply]
1. 10/23/08
  
  djxtreme
  
  you're like 18. Ive had more sex in the last 3 days than you probly had yer whole life. hehe
10/23/08

JaydenVasara

um...hell yes!

[reply]
10/23/08

sinuousscribe

Everyday, with a week off each month. ...until menopause. Then, everyday. =^..^=

[reply]
11/11/08

artofreed

Everyday ?.... hmmmmm... maybe.... two times a week that enough.

[reply]
11/11/08

PetLvr

so .. um, 21 days later ... erm ...

@lotusb .. How is the pact going?

[reply]
11/11/08

jakeandcolin

Absolutely! I almost do have sex every day. Not always with the same women, but I do probably over 300 days a year.

[reply]
11/12/08

SyntaxOfL

Hmm, maybe you shouldn't force it. I do have sex almost everyday. Good clean fun. zomg
www.dangerdanger.org

[reply]
11/24/08

BillyWarhol

+ 6 Ways to Sunday!!******** ;PPP

[reply]
11/24/08

tjefferson85

Very possible, i know that i can. Depends on the drive of that person.

[reply]
11/24/08

4Freedoms

Yep it will last. askaboutloveandsex.com

[reply]
12/16/08

AndrewLong

Who says I don't?

[reply]
12/16/08

360wellnessguy

360 different ways to express love to that special person in your life every day of the year.

[reply]
12/16/08

kdawg68

I think I'd need lots of fruits and veggies - and maybe some juice and cookies for my blood sugar.

[reply]
12/16/08

satijournal

Sure, I can spare three minutes a day.

[reply]
12/16/08

SSNUFFY

Sex?? what is that? wifes been sick for 12 yrs,,, nuff said

[reply]
12/16/08

anicam

I believe it helps to keep the body in order.
so a BIG yes

[reply]
12/16/08

Robbyg13

If only I don't have to pay for it. Lol jkz... but yeah, it's definitely DO-able. (pun intended)

[reply]
12/16/08

Bonnielicious

I think a pact like this is stupid, because then you will end up having sex just to fulfil the pact and it will become a chore. However the pact itself is extremely doable, my last boyfriend and I dated for nearly a year and we had sex every day, usually more. It's all about how passionate and spontaneous your relationship is.

[reply]
1. 12/17/08
  
  Robbyg13
  
  agreed.
12/17/08

anatacx

I need sex, or i will have a sleepless night,
but
i m not a robot,
so
my answer is:
not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,not really,
not really,

[reply]
12/17/08

WilDip

Life without having sex everyday is a life worth not living.

[reply]
1. 12/27/08
  
  dede
  
  comment removed by the community.
12/20/08

KittyKat53

I've done it between 1 and 18 times a week. Just can't get the every day thing down. And I don't want to be put into a position where I feel I have to either.

[reply]
12/20/08

Oahupet

How about 3 times a day?

[reply]
1. 12/27/08
  
  dede
  
  comment removed by the community.
12/27/08

dede

comment removed by the community.

[reply]
12/27/08

Shuttercraft

Yes I could, but the sex is better if you have to wait for it...

I would love some feedback on my new blog shuttermag.tk/

[reply]
1. 12/27/08
  
  hatingtherain
  
  No, I totally disagree with that. Waiting sucks.
2. 1/08/09
  
  FatX
  
  It's like having to wait to scratch an itch. Why wait if it feels so good just to scratch?
3. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  Waiting for sex is not a good idea. Unless your like 16.
4. 2/09/09
  
  amesplaza
  
  i waited until i was seventeen, went to ny to stay with my boyfriend and lost it. best decision i'd ever made. it was the right time. no regrets, that's all that matters.
12/27/08

dratiffarid

Yup!

[reply]
1/08/09

Scribblerchick

I could not. I chafe easily.

[reply]
1/08/09

Arnous81

Yes I can, but it might be a quickie.It wont be passionate everyday.

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  Passion, Smassion....get your rocks off and kiss later I always say. Lol.
1/08/09

sensico

I could, just think how fun it would be to have sex everyday. Plus, its a good form of workout, so you'd be happy and physically fit

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  Exactly, excellent cardio work out.
2. 2/11/09
  
  MadScientist
  
  I thought for exercise to count, you had to have your heart rate up to 75% of you max target and keep it there for at least 15 minutes.
  
  Those 2-3 minute olympic sprints just dont really seem to meed the definition of a CARDIO workout.
  
  BUT... I suppose if you did that 5-7 times daily... it would be cumulative.
1/08/09

Jeunelle

I usually add "you will go blind" but bc usually removes that comment every time, even though it's the truth. bbwwwaaahhhh

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  No one removed it!! Mission accomplished..
1/14/09

yoppy

i like that but i can do it for one years.....

[reply]
1/14/09

ArsenicCookies

Absolutely. Then I would cancel my gym membership

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  Right on sister.
1/14/09

thegnr

I think its possible but what are the odds of two people that both love sex that much wanting to go at the same time. I'm starting to realize that men and women like it at different times. Maybe it's just me. For example I like it early in the mornings late at night and in the middle of the day. LOL

[reply]
1/14/09

christiwicked

I've been married now for three years and my husband and I have had sex every day we've spent together. He is an artist, so occasionally we're apart when he travels, but every single day other than that. It makes our marriage very rich and intimate. I hope it always stays that way. Of course, we don't have children...so that might be why we're able to.

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  thegnr
  
  You two keep it up.I'm taking notes.
2. 1/14/09
  
  christiwicked
  
  Way to go Christi! Your my hero! Lol...
  
  Just kiddin, but yea it is a good way to stay connected.
3. 1/14/09
  
  lotusb
  
  No seriously, that's awesome! That's exactly what we're planning on accomplishing. Intimacy and a strong connection.
1/14/09

amitchopra22

i have some other work too, andi love my girl friend and i will love y wife. so i can't see her in so much pain with fun. i can't listen her shreeking sounds. cause i love her. and for my wife i will give her lots of love so that we can be in love for our whole life.
excess of every thing is bad. what i think. so thiscan also harm any relation. so i have and will have sex some days in a month only.

[reply]
1/14/09

SSNUFFY

This is not my favorite subject, as Jenny , my wife of 40 years is now bedridden with terminal cancer. But I feel the need to pull some reality back into this discussion. Appreciate what you have, and treat it as an awesome gift. For a great long time now, that part of our marriage is gone. and the Void is very very deep. As a man I figured to be able to handle whatever came along. But The sharing of the intimate act of just simply making Love lends much to a relationship. Honor your Mate, and understand the Value of this gift .

[reply]
1. 1/14/09
  
  thegnr
  
  Hey SSNUFFY
  Sorry to hear about your wife. But What I feel the author of this post was trying to do was lighten things up.I think what shes writing about is her reality. Life is fun its sad its happy depending on who you ask and what period your in. I just lost an uncle yesterday my dad's youngest brother. I guess my point is their is already enough saddest to go around in this world and our personal lives. This discussion serves as a welcomed distraction.
1/14/09

SSNUFFY

TheGNR,,, Sorry, Didnt mean to sour it, just wanted all to appreciate it more Gods best Al

[reply]
1/14/09

skgreaves

hmmm you may be in for a lot of exercise, then again too much of something might not be a good thing..to each their own. Personally, I just go with the flow lol

[reply]
1/30/09

FatX

Yes, the more times each day the better.

[reply]
2/01/09

twilightnera

i would loveeee that. My boyfriend and I try to keep that up as much as possible. It keeps us both very happy!!

[reply]
2/01/09

lnclark1950

Not according to my wife.

[reply]
2/01/09

ashishdesai

same partner?

[reply]
1. 2/01/09
  
  sensico
  
  nope
2/01/09

deoangel

It depends. If you are on that time of the month, then that its just plain nasty!

[reply]
2/01/09

TheLogisitician

Interesting. If you think that it positively advances your mutual interests.

[reply]
2/01/09

TheLogisitician

In thinking about it further, there are generally long range complications associated with just doing it one time. It's a problematic exercise. You might need to think long and hard about that.

[reply]
1. 2/01/09
  
  sensico
  
  HA!, yeah there will be a lot of long and hard thinking
2/02/09

ophase

Today?? Come on, not again

Sorry wrong spot in the wrong discussion

[reply]
2/06/09

RunningWolf

Yes Yes Yes!

[reply]
2/06/09

CoyoteRose

Depends on how good the sex is. If the sex is bad most days sure. If the sex is really good then i'm probably going to need time to recoup.

[reply]
2/06/09

thetravellerreturns

I've had sex every day for about a month until my forskin ripped, it couldn't take it any more and give in. its had a weeks rest now, im back on it tonight.....woohoo

[reply]
2/09/09

amesplaza

i just got out of a relationship that was FULL of sex. we had sex at least once a day. it was pretty awesome. i miss the sex. so sad.

[reply]
2/09/09

roentarre

As long as there is plenty of lubricant!

[reply]
2/09/09

TriNi

LOL yes! haha.. this question is funny.

[reply]
2/10/09

klambat

Why not?

[reply]
2/10/09

buyersweb

Yep yep yep... and again yep yep yep..

[reply]
2/10/09

Guess116

men they can women not

[reply]
2/11/09

prodigalson35

it would be nice to be able to do it everyday; however, there may be too many uncontrollable factors that could deter things. just my 2 cents worth

[reply]
2/11/09

MadScientist

Funny... just a couple of months ago, a couple of affiliated churches in Florida were touting this exact thing as a way of strengthening the marriage commitment. Only it was not a lifetime commitment, but rather a 30 day challenge. The idea was that making an effort every single day to be intimate regardless of your daily challenges would cause couples to communicate more and when you combine that with the added intimacy it would help to close the gaps created by misunderstanding, not listening, and letting daily life close you off from your partner.

I think that for a stint to kind of bring things back into focus is great, but then let if go back to being something spontaneous... my feeling is that after 30 days, something generally becomes a habit and looking forward to a close encounter with you mate is a great deterent from straying. Also once the intimacy is restored when a day goes by without it ... you will miss it...

I was only going to give my 2 cents... but looks like I left a quarter instead

[reply]
3/31/09

londondarling

Best of luck!!

[reply]
3/31/09

melindaville

It would work for me. In fact, it does work for me. Sex is free, healthy, and SO MUCH FUN!

I am a firm believer of 'make love not war!'

[reply]
4/01/09

bcletourneau

comment removed by the community.

[reply]
4/01/09

FameofShame

Yes, I could have sex every day.

[reply]
4/01/09

dinsquared

Love sex(ual actvity). Couldn't have it every day nor would I want to.

[reply]
4/01/09

elmasahe

Yes, this is definitely achievable. If you have the time and energy to do it everyday. If you both enjoy doing it I suggest you do it as often as you can. All you need to do is try something different every now and then so that it won't become a routine.

[reply]
4/04/09

JoseSinclair

of course! but then, I'm a guy... and just look at the ladies of the world! that "dinsquared" lady ain't bad (Christina Hendricks?).. Salma Hayak, Aishwarya Rai, Michelle Pfeiffer, Scarlett Johansson, Jessica Alba... daily? R.U. kidding?

yep, it would be easy to make love every day, even with just one woman, if its the right woman that knows how to use her mind (and maybe lingerie and other costumes) to keep you stimulated enough for the same person daily...

I've known some women, not many, but some who could do this - I've been very lucky! - the Jman

"Can you speak with an Italian accent?" - Jamie Lee Curtis, A Fish Called Wanda
"You know I like the rough stuff!" - Carol Kane, Scrooged!
"You do know how to whistle don't you? you just put your lips together and blow.." - Lauren Becall, To Have and Have Not

[reply]
4/05/09

desiredctg

nice topics !!

[reply]
4/06/09

cheftom

I could...

[reply]
4/06/09

wardenwells

Not with someone that says hella.

[reply]
1. 5/16/09
  
  bcletourneau
  
  hey You aLL, what you think of my last discussion ?
5/16/09

bcletourneau

on my page,
bc
www.freedomandsport.blogspot.com

[reply]
1. 5/17/09
  
  HollytheHousewife
  
  AWESOME BLOG frenchy has!!!!! I promise!
5/17/09

xmarks

I've said it before and I'll say it again

YES!!!!!

[reply]
5/17/09

RudrakshRudranjali

why not

[reply]
5/17/09

LolitaV

at first i thought not, but now i'm trying to. that's what my blog is all about (www.sexingrock.blogspot.com). I'm chronicling my journey to more sex, better love life.

[reply]
5/17/09

siralmo

yep yep .. i just need to find a willing participant

[reply]
5/17/09

HollytheHousewife

HELL 2 THE YEA!!! I JUST LUV LUV!!!!!hehehehaha

[reply]
5/17/09

HollytheHousewife

I forgot to say I'm a SCORPIO! u know us,haha

[reply]
1. 5/17/09
  
  siralmo
  
  holly, you do know you can edit your replies
5/17/09

HollytheHousewife

um yea I did

[reply]
5/17/09

nothingprofound

I'd rather have a chocolate macaroon every day. It's less fatiguing.

[reply]
1. 5/17/09
  
  HollytheHousewife
  
  AWE,U must not have met ur soulmate yet!
2. 5/17/09
  
  nothingprofound
  
  To me, a soulmate is someone I can talk too, not screw every day. Besides, the best soulmate is oneself.
5/17/09

HollytheHousewife

no it ain't

[reply]
1. 5/17/09
  
  nothingprofound
  
  Whatever you say, dear. I've seen too many Goliaths fall, trying to argue with Holly the Housewife.
2. 5/17/09
  
  HollytheHousewife
  
  hehehehahahhaha,ain't that the truth! tehehehhaha
5/18/09

Alcomum

Yes. But I wouldn't plan to in advance. If it turns out to be everyday then so be it. And if not, so be it. There will be times when it's every day and times when it isn't. I don't think planning it would work for me though. Que sera!

[reply]
5/18/09

pinkmonkeychatter

If you are single and have to find a new partner every day, I would say, No! That is a dangerous game of roulette and frankly sounds exhausting. I suppose it's possible if you are in a relationship and have a partner readily available, but putting all that pressure on an act that should be pleasurable and not a chore doesn't sound like much fun either!! But I hope you and your boyfriend have fun trying...

[reply]
5/18/09

vacationTourism

ofcourse i couldn't, but i blogging every day

[reply]
5/18/09

wagerwitch

I would love to have sex EVERY day - as long as it is with the one I love and the one I'm married to... An on days I am sick, just a really good cuddle and a fabulous snuggle.

It's not about the sex for me - it's about being THAT close - that connected physically with the person who means the most to you.

It's about feeling that person inside and around you - and knowing they love you too.

My favorite sex isn't kinky... Isn't really about sex at all --- It's when we're together and we'll start talking - and we will be laughing together.

That's the absolute BEST!!!

So - could I laugh every day?

A million times over YES!

[reply]
1. 5/18/09
  
  HollytheHousewife
  
  I couldn't have said it better my self!!!
5/18/09

rajendradhakal

i've not try daily yet... have you try ??

[reply]
5/18/09

farangrakthai

No. This would not be sex anymore, sex as an act of love, but work. I mean if you need to make a pact about it...

[reply]
5/18/09

nothingprofound

No. But at my age, I could use a nap everyday.

[reply]
5/19/09

girishbillore

this is not possible

[reply]
6/11/09

dede

I cant stand lol...

[reply]
6/26/09

allofarts

i am not animal.

[reply]
6/26/09

jeremyjanson

I think it would depend very heavilly on the married (alas, or unmarried) couple involved (as in who my partner is), their mindset and their motivation. I don't think it's a good idea or a bad idea in general for everyone, although for any particular person it would definitely be either. Your physical needs are someting you should consider, of course, when finding your mate, as otherwise it will be a huge source of tension in your marriage. Also, don't agree to something that will burn you out, and if you are the less virile partner, definitely try to vary the activity somewhat, educate yourself on aphrodisiacs, et cetera. There is no set method for an effective, loving relationship.

[reply]
7/22/09

acLiLtocLiMB

When I was er-hem a little younger, I could - very much so. Now, can't really say - with the wife I have now, it's definitely a no-no. But if someone who knows how to turn me on and loves being turned on....who knows...

[reply]
7/22/09

aspotofblog

I could have sex everyday (depending on circumstances), but not with the same person over the long-term. I would venture that the longer you and your bf are together, you will have less sex. Life always gets in the way.

[reply]
7/24/09

Multibrand

It depends, if both of you are committed to move to future relationship then your pact will have a good future. Otherwise it would only be a any other sex-based relationship

[reply]
7/24/09

stellak

At this point in my life I could. I have a lot of time in my hands and if I found someone with whom I had great sexual chemistry...Bring it on!

[reply]
7/24/09

melindaville

I usually do.

married + in love = great sex.

[reply]
1. 7/27/09
  
  rajendradhakal
  
  it's very nice
7/25/09

Takwa

Y? couldn't you?

[reply]
7/25/09

sunyy

i dont have this experience yet.

[reply]
7/25/09

avideogameplayer

I could have sex every day...if I could find a willing partner...

[reply]
7/25/09

weblogian

I love to have sex everyday-that what my mind and heart wants but sometime i am too tire after work. Sex is great and lovely. I will reserve myself on the pact but A condition pact will be much better.

I think A healthy sex life is important.

[reply]
7/25/09

scenexg

sure i can do it everyday. i wouldnt necessarily make a pact on it though. how bout you just bang out whenever u feel like without the guidelines?

[reply]
7/25/09

trailofpen

Everyday, I would have to say no. Sadly as it sounds, there have been times I've turned sex down, which is usually in the middle of a Laker's game or something of that nature.

[reply]
1. 9/19/09
  
  quack18
  
  only sports comes ahead of sex, i agree with you on that
7/26/09

allofarts

hello friends, i hope you visite me in my set in facebook,you can see the URL in my profile,you welcom any time dear.

[reply]
7/27/09

mylittleponys

Crazy woman! After looking after the son all day I'm too knackered when it comes to kinky time in the bedroom!!

[reply]
7/27/09

setiawati

comment removed by the community.

[reply]
7/27/09

mismatchedpear

yes but you might get sore if he's big. i couldn't. but me and my boyfriend do lots of other things.

-jennifer

[reply]
1. 7/28/09
  
  jrmellem
  
  Maybe try using one of the lubricating products to diminish the soreness.
7/31/09

earthlingorgeous

I can't believe this thread is still alive!

How are the old folks!

[reply]
7/31/09

influential

I would sure try.

[reply]
7/31/09

aspotofblog

I'm having sex now as I type, ejxuucghjuse the tyyyyyyyyypos

[reply]
1. 7/31/09
  
  dbowles1017
  
  nice!
2. 7/31/09
  
  blackwater
  
  hold still my laptop is on your back!
7/31/09

dbowles1017

At one point in time I was. Now, it's more like once a week if I'm lucky

[reply]
1. 7/31/09
  
  aspotofblog
  
  Why is that? Has your gf become frigid?
2. 7/31/09
  
  dbowles1017
  
  Well I don't have a girlfriend, and I have been working 12 hour shifts. I need 10 hours of sleep, so I get home, eat shower, then pretty much go to bed.
7/31/09

aspotofblog

Woah, that sucks. You need to work less and play more ha ha.

[reply]
1. 7/31/09
  
  dbowles1017
  
  Tell me about it. Only one more week of it though. Then I plan to ravage many many women.
7/31/09

aspotofblog

Whoohooh! Have fun!

[reply]
9/19/09

dharmathai

I think the amount of sex you can have, and how exciting it is cannot be the same with every p[erson you meet, rather that some people might have a certain thing which just makes you so excited you just cante ever get enough from them, nor they from you.. such chemistry is hard to find - the kind which never fizzles out. But sometimes you find it.. normally that ends up with a fiery relationship but a fantastic sex life.
People who are too kind to you normally wont turn you on to the highest degree, and people who are more demanding and selfish may just have that fizz which makes you go nuts in bed.. or maybe thats a personal karma of mine.. thats how i always found it to be anyway..
nice people are boring in bed

[reply]
9/19/09

TheCrazyhorse

No more!

[reply]
9/19/09

quack18

If we can go to gym everyday for an 1 or 1.5 hours everyday then i think we can have sex on a daily basis. At least sex will be different everytime even if its with the same woman.you can try different positions and stuff like that. so yeah i think it can be done on a daily basis.

[reply]
9/19/09

DiggaDominus

I could do everyday ... but with my partner - maybe not. I like to take my time.

[reply]

« back to discussions

Add Your Comment

Login to leave a message.

Recent Readers
Related Discussions
- Homophobic Homos?
  54 replies • 1 day ago
- I'm starting to worry....
  44 replies • 4 days ago
- Craziest place you ever "did the nasty"?
  83 replies • 4 days ago
- Famous Orgasm Lady has Found a Mate
  20 replies • 6 days ago
- What Qualities should a single dad look…
  2 replies • 6 days ago

Discussion Search
Subscribe via Email