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Curious & Invasive: How's Your Sex Life??
Posted by lotusb • 7/09/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: pervie thoughts
Do you get it often, rarely...is it satisfying or hardly noticable??
SPILL!! It's Thursday and you know sex talk makes the day go down smoother.
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My husband is nine years older than me. Unfortunately, he's done with his "peak" and I am just hitting mine. In other words, it sucks.
But thanks for asking.
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Awww...I know your pain honey. I had that problem before. I'm not even at my peak yet...according to my almost 50-year old mom, I won't be for at least another 25 years.
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@MS
You let him back in the house?
I'm behind on my BC gossip
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He's been back for almost two weeks. I haven't felt the need to polish my silverware yet, so all is good thus far.
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WAIT...what happened???
Are the deets in the blog, cause I haven't read in a while... -
The deets are definitely in the blog. Long story short -- He was gone for almost two months and has been back almost two weeks. Still a pain in my arse.
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Done with his peak, hrumph? I didn't start having two O's in a row until I was 50. You can't believe everything you read in Cosmo. -
I don't read Cosmo and shame on you for suggesting so!
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sex talk makes the day go down smoother.
This phrasing is rather unfortunate.-
You know u like....
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It made me laugh (but I'm sick like that).
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Not as unfortunate as "they were changing the complexion of the facilities".
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Lol...good point, ST.
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she said "SPILL!"
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@Agit8r
Spill what? -
sounded better in my head
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Lol...Green don't analyze the "spill" comand...
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@lotusb
Haven't you heard, I'm solely an intellect, rather like The Doctor of my avatar. There is nothing to spill.
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Couldn't be better! Absolute sexual fulfillment is never more than an arm length's away
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Really? Manual sex is better that the real thing??
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I've been known to pop the clutch every now and again
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LMAO!!! "pop the clutch"?
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you said "manual"
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Lotusb: When it comes to sex, anything's better better than the "real thing." That's what all that porn and all those romance novels and all those fantasies are about.
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It's been over a month now - which is suprising considering the last time my partner was left quivering for about 10mins saying that it topped the record for the biggest O she's ever had, without trying to be too graphic - she hit the ceiling.
So I dunno - perhaps she's in recovery or getting it somewhere else-
Wow....
So, wait...that means your available?....or.... -
I'll consider her innocent until proven guilty.
I'm engaged - but I'm not prepared to go into a once a month marriage, things will have to change -
Your not engaged unless your gettin it at least 4 times a week.
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It used to be 4 times a day - and then we had a kid, but she's 2 now so you would think by now that that is no longer the issue
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This is a HIGHLY personal question!
Let's just say that I am smiling today! -
Wooo hooo!!!!!! Something told me you "smile" often from the way you talk about your hubby...
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Yes, I do. Honestly, I am very blessed.
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It's been 3 weeks. But That's going to be changing in a few hours though.-
Enjoy and be safe...
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Dbowles is gonna get himself some HUNKA HUNKA BURNIN LOVE!
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@db: The sims game doesn't count.
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It will be relatively safe. She wants a blindfold and rope, oh and she said she likes some like choking. So I don't know how safe it can get lol.
mt- More like Bonchickawowoh.
Suzie- it's not the sims -
Go for it DB! Life is short--grab every brass ring (or bonchickawowow) that you can!
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I intend too mtyler. I'm actually surprised it's been so long. I blame it on me having no money.
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You mean you don't buy your hookas cheap??
This is a RECESSION!! -
Ha ha ha ha ha! I really am starting to like you so much! You crack me up!
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Let me tell ya... They are charging more.
No, I just haven't had money to go out. Which means I wasn't getting laid.
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It's been 3 years since I had sex.
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OMG....
Are you OK??? -
Care for some strawberries?
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lotus; I think so, my heart is pumping.
Suzie: Sure, why not? -
And if you think that's awful, I've been single for 3 years too.
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I've been single for 3ish years too. Getting laid doesn't require a relationship
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It does for me 99.9% of the time.
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Nonsense...where you u live, I'll come handle your little problem right now.
Wait...are you a guy?
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lol....i live in massachusetts.
and yes im a guy ^^ -
Not too far from me.....
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Yea I'm like right next to you basically. LOL
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Bow Chick BOW WOW....
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ditto ^^ lol
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17 years...-
Virginity doesn't count, but that's sweet.
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been like seven years without...? wait eight. ooops wrong thread. -
- My husband and I are tantric sex practitioners. We are currently enjoying yet another "honeymoon". Thanks for asking but that's as much as I care to reveal.
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We practice tantric sex also, TT! It's actually taken our love relationship to amazing new levels.
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I bow to you.
Tantric sex is supposed to be the heaven of sexual religion. -
It's pretty incredible, lotus--and what's even better, it is a fun learning curve--if you know what I mean! We started about 5 years ago--and it really does keep getting better.
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- It certainly does and that makes me wonder why most couples seem to be still into the 20 minute bump and grind. lol
We have been into tantric sex for 25 years now. (I'd better not say any more.) -
@ TT...lmao!!
And I thought my 5 hour session was hot..I can only imagine how awesome it is..
Do you guys have any books you can recomend..how did you get started?? -
- Become a yogini and that will open the door.
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A yogini...
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@TT--I so totally agree with you.
@Lotus: The Art of Tantric Sex: Ancient Techniques & Rituals that Enhance Sexual Pleasure by Nitya LaCroix is one I recommend. -
Awesome, i'll definitely check that out...I've always been sooo curious about that.
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So who wants to be my tantric partner?
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@lotusB
- A yogini is a female yogi and tantra is a spiritual practice. This spiritual sexual practice brought us more together not only physically, but also mentally and emotionally. It's definitely for any couple wanting to enrich their relationship on all levels.
P.S. The book being recommended and the practice itself is not a manual for enhancing casual sexual encounters. It's for couples in long term relationships, who have achieved intimacy, and not just orgasms ... lol
You can also check out the books on this site www.deida.info/ If you have an amenable long term partner then I recommend that you both read
The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
@Melinda
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@TT--Yes, I agree, it is a very good starter--I like it because it really explains the concept, history, etc.
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@ TT
Darn it, I'm not in a relationship right now. But I still want to learn about it, so I can introduce the concept to my next very awesome boyfriend...whoever he may be. -
I don't know lotus. I guess we get the book and then uhh read it or something?
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Yea...or we could just get the book and I could use it to prop myself onto the dryer and we could just go at it for a few rounds...ya know just to limber up.
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I like the way you think!
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I definitely get more action than anyone else on the BC staff! That may not being saying much though! -
Amazing how fast a thread about sex grows.
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Sex is serious business online and offline.
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Oh my god girls don't tell but midday made the rest of today better
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always does
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Boring sex life.-
So sorry to hear...
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At 59 I am having the greatest and most often sex ever. 3 times a week and I believe that means I am beating the average for most men.-
Is that the average? Either way, good for you!! 3 times a week is a nice way to keep things tastey.
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My sex life is interesting.
And funny.
And tender..
And well - let's just say - I have a MUCH MUCH MUCH younger husband than myself...
I'm nearing my peak - he's still in his... ROFLMAO!
IT works out quite well... QUITE well.-
wow you remind me of joan collins! kidding.
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I'm starting to find that the younger man is DEFINITELY a good thing.
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Great -
no i mean heather locklear *spanks own fingers with a ruler* there that should take care of it.
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*grin*
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My hubby and I started when we were teenagers and now we are in our forties. It is still there but not as hot as it was -
This topic still going? LOL I thought it had died last night around midnight.
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I was out last night, never got to see the rest of the comments. So I brought it back to life...
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I want some birthday sex. lol
Now just to figure out how to rollback time to my last birthday. D: -
Awwww....when was your birthday?
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April 25th. I turned 23 then.
I wanted it when I turned 21, so I could have sex and drink all in the same night. -
Your such an innocent...
Wondering where you measure on the "hot" scale.... -
More like, just in control of my hormones. LOL
Well that depends, I requested you on Facebook and you can see my pictures there. -
OK lotus, I added you on Facebook now. Seems the request I did the last time didn't go through right. :S
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I had NO idea who that was, so I kept deleting it!
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oh im sorry hun i thought i told you my name :S im daniel
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Nope...had no idea...
I'm a little scared!! I don't have any BC'ers on my FB. -
can i be your first then?
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Sure, why not?
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sweet! i thought the first time i sent request i included "blackwater from BC" in the message? :S
And you would be my first too ♥ -
"I'm a little scared!! I don't have any BC'ers on my FB"
lol I have like 5 bc'ers on min including an admin. I am a facbook/bc whore!!! -
Ok, then be my FB whore too!!
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I'm still waiting for you lotus.
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I don't see an add!!
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Sent request again as Daniel White.
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you two have officially been added to my debaucherous facebook haha
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rawr@lotus. 10/10 sexy scale!
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I've added both your fabulous asses...
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Time to go comment whoring on lotus' pictures!
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woot-woot!! Pictures!! Now if only my blackberry would stop "thinking" so I can do the same.
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Comment sex? lol
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I miss my college years sex life! -
I apparently get way too much for my own good, or at least I did. Dry patch for a week or so... quite depressing actually, this little 8 day drout annoys me so
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A week is nothing. At one point in my last relationship we went about a month maybe more without...
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see I would consider that neglect
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Lol..I considered it the initiation of an open relationship..
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lol niiiiiice.
I went 20 months when hubby was deployed... wonder if thats why we had "irreconcilable differences" shortly after ahahaha -
Lol...I sure would. The difference would be I'd be getting irreconcilably "violated" by someone else...
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@lotus: Don't ask, don't tell kind of deal?
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I'd definitley tell...
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hahaha
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Summary or go into full on details?
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Full details...for sure...
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I'd love to hear the details. LOL
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