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Do Men CRY?
Posted by shaydelgado • 8/23/07 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: crying, MEN
Do you welcome MEN who cry publicly?
Wrote some thoughts here: www.shaydelgado.com/?p=31
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The sociological construct of which I am apart defines males who cry as weak. Crying is not associated with masculinity. Little boys may cry, women may cry, but the construct's definition of a man does not allow for crying.
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why are men not allowed to cry? if your wife dies or your mom/dad/brother/sister dies you are not weak for crying your just crying because youve lost someone you care about - how is that weak? Personally I think your more of a man if you can do it and not so up yourself at being a man.
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All I can say is that no man should ever stifle a tear and that includes out of sorrow or joy. In my opinion, real emotion is something that should never be manipulated.
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I have cried several times and used to use peeling an onion as the excuse. Takes my face about 4 hours to recover to avoid me looking like I've fallen asleep in a corby trouser press.
Men dry - too right - if us blokes dont start opening up and raising our EQ we're in trouble.
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I was told strength is our greatest weakness I think that applies to crying being strong isn't about not crying but allowing yourself to cry
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One of my exes made a bloody show of his public cries, but he had some issues.
I can't say that I know anyone else who would have had a habit of crying in public, I don't even know women who do, but I think when the situation calls for it, there's a lot of people who would cry in public... Oh, I was to a couple of weddings not long ago where the GROOMS were crying but the brides were not.
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Of Course men cry. One of the darkest days of my life was when my mother moved on, I cried for days. It's been 1 year passed and I still cry on holidays and when memories come into my mind. Ive cried so much after the loss I don't think my eyeballs can produce any more water for a tear. So to answer the question Do Men Cry, Id have to say yes!
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