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Do You Fake Orgasms?
Posted by evilsquirrel01 • 6/07/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: fakers, orgasm, sex
I have never faked an orgasm. I see no point since I'm taking the ride anyway. Do you? Any fakers out there? reason why do you do it? Let's hear it!
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All the time. Sometimes, I just get tired.-
Really? I didn't know men could fake too!, I thought only women could do that. Guess I was wrong, huh?
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It's more or less like,
make grunting sounds, pull out, then make more grunting sounds, then go to sleep. -
Yes I have been known to do this also - but mostly during morning sex when I'm still half asleep and really have no energy to burn. I can go for hours going at it and never reach the finish line, so I fake it, rest then go for round two and then I normally get there. -
haha, I admire your method
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Is there a software version?-
hunh?
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exactly Huhh!
it's a very lateral joke -
There's an emulator somewhere ... -
now I don't get it :-)
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I think you need a wii for that to work though.
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i had a wee just before, but if keep drinking coffee i'll go again
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huh/ Never had to. -
On occasion, some just ain't that great. Sometimes you just do it just to do it. Most of the time i get one from a lady though, but a few times not at all. -
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No. But I believe I had been 'faked' in the past
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oh? you noticed?
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I once did that but I think it was obvious with my ex-partner.-
she noticed?
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Don't have to I have a man that knows how to push the right button, if you know what I mean
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i hate you :-)
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maybe someday. haha.-
that means not having sex yet?
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wud like to reprint osho`s version on this"
"All life exists through sex, all life grows out of it. Nothing is wrong in pure simple sex. It is natural. There is no need to hide it behind the beautiful word love. There is no need to create a cloud of romance around it.
Ninety-nine percent know sex only as a relief; they don't know its orgasmic quality. Even if they think they are having an orgasm, it is not orgasm - it is just genital relief.
Orgasm has nothing to do with genitals as such. Genitals are involved in it, but orgasm is total - from the head to the toes, it is all over you.
What is orgasm? Orgasm is a state where your body is no longer felt as matter; it vibrates like energy, electricity. It vibrates so deeply, from the very foundation, that you completely forget that it is a material thing. It becomes an electric phenomenon.
Now physicists say that there is no matter, that all matter is only appearance; deep down, that which exists is electricity, not matter.
In orgasm, you come to this deepest layer of your body where matter no longer exists, just energy waves; you become a dancing energy, vibrating. There are no longer any boundaries to you - pulsating, but no longer substantial. And your beloved also pulsates.
Now, sexual orgasm needs time - the longer, the better; because then it will go deeper into your being, into your mind, into your soul. Then it will spread from the toe to the head . . . every fiber of your being will be throbbing with it. Your whole body will become an orchestra and it will come to a crescendo.
But if you are in a hurry the orgasm becomes just an ejaculation, it is no more an orgasm. It is local and very tiny, almost meaningless. In fact you will feel tired, frustrated, depressed after it, because the energy is lost and it has not given you a bath, so it was just meaningless. " -
You remain the old - a little more tired, of course, with less energy of course, but you remain the same. It has not been a cleansing process, it has not thrilled you from corner to corner, from end to end.
Man always likes to enter the woman immediately.
He is not interested in foreplay because his positive pole is always ready. And women are always reluctant to enter into the sex act immediately, without any foreplay, because their negative pole is not ready. . . .
And man thinks the sex act is simple. Why waste time? Enter the woman immediately - and he is finished within minutes. But the woman was not a part, she was not aroused. . . .
When the woman remains cold, the man's orgasmic experience remains local, genital. It does not reach to his soul, it does not reach to his whole body. All his cells are not thrilled, are not in a dance. It is poor, very poor. It is a release, a relief, but not an orgasmic experience.
Make love only when there is tremendous desire and passion, otherwise simply say, "Excuse me, it is not there, so what is the point?" Pretending is not good. And if you stop pretending, you will find that your depth of love making has increased very much.
Premature ejaculation is really not a sexual problem at all; it is more a psychological problem. Physiologically there is nothing wrong but psychologically you are in a hurry, that very hurry creates premature ejaculation.-
rajneesh was murdered and replaced by his brother
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Why has man so many ways in relating - heterosexual, bisexual, one-to-one or in a group?
Man has freedom to choose. And this choice can make you pathological or this choice can make you a Buddha. Now it depends on you, how you use your freedom.
Sex has been called the original sin - it is neither original nor sin.Up to now societies have been so much against sex - religions and churches against it - that they have created a very very unconscious hatred.
You may not be aware of it consciously, you may not see it anywhere in your mind so that you can detect it. It has gone to the very roots of the body, to the gut level, because it has been centuries that people have been taught to be against sex.
That hatred has to be dropped, that hate and condemnation has to be dropped, and that can only be dropped if you start learning a reverence for sex.
We suppress movements. Particularly, all over the world, we suppress all movements, all shaking for women.
They remain just like dead bodies.
You are doing something to them; they are not doing anything to you. They are just passive partners.
Why is this happening? Why all over the world do men suppress women in such a way?
There is fear - because once a woman's body becomes possessed, it is very difficult for a man to satisfy her; because a woman can have chain orgasms; a man cannot have.
Any woman can have at least three orgasms in a chain, but man can have only one. And with a man's orgasm the woman is aroused and is ready for further orgasms.
Then it is difficult. Then how to manage it!
She needs another man immediately, and group sex is a taboo.
All over the world we have created monogamous societies. We seem to feel that it is better to suppress the woman.
So, really, 80% to 90% of women never know what orgasm is.-
wow, good point, but I do not think I could have sex if another man was joining in.
I dont think many women feel they are being supressed by having sex with one guy at a time.
no no no no
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This was asked by a man for sure. Every woman knows this answer.-
I'm a woman
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Why would anyone fake it? If you act like it's good, it isn't going to get any better. Instead of faking it, try suggesting something different instead.-
Yep, I know some women are "good" at faking, but if your not, then please don't try it, I most likely would end in a fight and possbilily a break up, if your together. -
I don't see why someone would fake it either. Isn't that the whole point of sex in the first place?
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It is hard to fake when it hurts! -
I faked it when I was younger, because I thought there was something wrong with me. But now I don't! Most of the time I get there, and if I don't I'll get there next time. No big deal! -
so it's psychological, as Rudrakshrudranjali said.
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No it's because a lot of guys suck at it. I know I used to be horrible.
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haha
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Personally ---- have I faked it?
Yep... Once or twice when the EX was drunk and fumbling and it wasn't very pleasurable and I was sober - and I just wanted to hurry up and get it over with... You betcha... I faked it.
But for the rest of my life - I either had an orgasm or did NOT have an orgasm. I didn't or don't normally fake it - because heck... why bother?
Sex is fun and dynamic - but sometimes sex isn't about reaching the end of the marathon... Sometimes it's just about being connected to the person you are with... Literally connected.
Sometimes it is just about the running - whether or not you finish the race.
And what Ruds wrote up there... Yeah - to some degree I believe that men have lost their BEAUTY in sex.
Men are too busy trying to reach what they can reach with their own hands.
They often aren't looking for the total mind/body stimulation.
Not many men will look you in the eye as they make love to you...
(Ok - keep in mind I've not had a bajillion lovers or anything...)
But I've had 2 lovers that were superb and wonderful and we were TOGETHER in the sex.
And I've had 4 that STUNK... I mean they had all the right moves - and yeah - they could jiggle and wiggle the right way... But they didn't make love to my mind, my body and my soul. They just screwed or "got us off".
And that stinks.
I want my body LOVED - My mind LOVED and my passion met.
And so - if I don't get that - yeah I can have an orgasm - but it doesn't really matter if I do or if I don't.
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oh, thanks for sharing that!
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Only when I've got a cup of hot yogurt handy.
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thats a brilliant avatar for this thread XD
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evilsquirrel01 yep! never! *blushes*
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good for you!
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What's the use? -
Heck yeah I fake orgasms. I carry a squeeze bottle of mayonnaise on me at all times just for that occasion.-
that's double effort ,man
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Well, I sometimes fake not having one, just to keep my wife wondering...
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when i m tired dear
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Never had to... should I kill myself now??? -
Whoa? Should we ... -
never had too and never will. If a man can't please you, you should show/teach him how to do it (to you) right. Or just take matters into your own hands. tie him down and ride him until YOU are finished!
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