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Do you think I like this girl?

Posted by arjunu • 1/20/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: girl, rapture

I was at a function, where I met this girl. She's my school mate and we're not good friends but we've known each other for 3 years. We both sat together for about 40 minutes. We had pleasant conversations. Finally we had to depart and she
waved at me to say bye. After she left, an unusual feeling struck me. When I figured it out, I was regretting her absence. I've been affected extremely by her. But she talked to me like she would talk to me like any other guy. Till now I've been thinkin of her. What do you think has happened to me? What should I do now?

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1/20/09

LynneaUrania

Looks like you have fallen under her spell. She now has the upper hand and can deny that anything ever happened.

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1/20/09

Financialnut

You're love struck, my friend. Good luck!

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1/20/09

arjunu

love struck eh? i know her from three years, and why did it happen only today??

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1/20/09

burningwindmil

its wonderful and magical, it can just spark, from nowhere, everything came together and then puft thats it, your brain is obsessed, your first thought in the morning, and your last at night.

Good luck love voyager

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1/20/09

sensico

Someone is in luv. Now you will probably not know what to say the next time you see her as you'll just be happy to see her. Us women have that magical thing going on where we can put you under our spell and control you

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1/20/09

darren1985

Meet up with her more often to find out your real feelings. I tend to have that feelings sometimes when meeting with a female friend whom i have not met for a long time.

Hope this helps!

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1/20/09

arjunu

sensico, that was really cool: i won't know what to say next time i see her. i am looking forward to meet her. i want to know her more.

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1/20/09

arjunu

and i just don't know if it was only some infatuation. i'm totally blank on what to do next. i believe in fate and stuff. let's wait and see

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1/20/09

ranist22

Must be initial attraction, not yet love.

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1/20/09

timethief

Can you contact here online, by phone or by mail? If so then why not tell her the truth ie. you miss her and would like to get to know her better? Then she will have an opportunity to respond and you will know whether or not she is attracted to you and wants to get to know you better too.

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1. 1/20/09
  
  sensico
  
  Its better to do it NOT in person, some guy came up to me today talking about how he wants to know me better. I turned him down...made for an awkward experience as he looked shocked and nervous...kind of funny when I keep thinking about it though.
  But if you can, to prevent embarrassment then dont do it person to person unless you know for sure shes going to yes.
1/20/09

roguedeals

I found it best to befriend. If it develops into something more then thats great. but I don't think it just works wanting to date someone right off the bat... at least I never had any luck with it. Im telling you... be her friend. Care about what she has to say, tell her that she looks nice, give her honest advice about the things going on in her life...

Don't suck up to her just because you like her. This will backfire. Don't be afraid to tell her your honest opinion.

Some people are afraid to do this because you get stuck in the 'friend' area and not the dating area... Well, I beg to differ. If you two are meant to be together she will see the good in you. You don't want a girl who is looking for something your not.

Don't come out and say you like her. For some reason this scares them away, especially if you don't really know them.

Be yourself, be honest, be a friend. It will become more if you two click. That's my advice.

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1/20/09

arjunu

thanks for coming in powerkor.

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1/20/09

acousticguitarist

i think you've got it bad, there's no hope, you're smitten, infatuated, are beyond hope and would sacrifice everything. Marry her before she gets away.

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1. 1/20/09
  
  sensico
  
  soooo NOT good advice
2. 1/20/09
  
  timethief
  
  we're not good friends but we've known each other for 3 years.
  
  Agreed - awful advice but I do suspect that the red panda said that "marry her before she gets away" with tongue in cheek.
1/20/09

riverstyxxx

3 years? You're on her friends list. That's just how women are bro.

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1/20/09

kat822

lol

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1/20/09

LynneaUrania

The sensations of falling in love aren't that different from the beginning of a major California earthquake. Hugz to the penguin. You need it.

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