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Do you think LOVE is painfull?
Posted by RioTheYorkiePoo • 4/04/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: advice, bloggers, couples, feelings, life, love, marriage, people, relationships, single
Daddy and mommy sure love each other
but sometimes...there is a tear here
and there...there I have to "work on" their
pretty green and brown eyes:-)
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yes it is...but if it wasnt painful, then you would never truly appreciate and experience its beauty and greatness...and not just in love, but in every other issue in life...if you dont experience the bad side, you will never see the true beauty of the good one
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"Daddy and mommy sure love each other
but sometimes...there is a tear here
and there...there I have to 'work on' their
pretty green and brown eyes:-)"
Does love hurt? Of course. I'm assuming that you're writing about the sort of "love" that involves two people fusing their lives. The kind of openness and commitment involved is unavoidably painful: and extremely rewarding in the long run.
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Love is work. . .It can be painful at times . . but not very often and if it gets to the point where its more painful then it is fun for you . .GET OUT haha and stop letting it drag on . .I'v made that same mistake for security reasons. Other then that I have pretty optimistic views on love since I'm currently in love.
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Love is always painful. It has to be, otherwise you would take it for granted and get bored. Love is about making a deal - I'll take the good times now, even though I know it can't be like this forever.
If you don't try to hang on so tightly to the moment, you can go on creating new and better moments, and that makes the pain of losing the last moment much more bearable.
When you feel the pain of love and losing it, or being tricked by it, you get mad and it robs you of your thinking powers. Using that angry energy to get heard and appreciated, to minimize the pain of love is your best bet. Find out more at www.drjeanetteraymond.com -
Matters of the heart definitely have their painful points. The people involved are the true defining point of the whole emotion. The maturity level, the perseverance of the two individuals, sacrifice and patience and finance and trust are just a few of the factors to overcome to lessen the painfulness of the situation.
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but these things are all just names and labels we give as an excuse to lash out and not love. The true essence of love belongs to YOU; what ever else you project is only a man made bunch of descriptive and restrictive phrases that allows excuses for love to be absent in case they become apparent. Why do we use sacrifice, finance and back slapping to even be a part of love. If you see yourself as misunderstood and use these excuses to not love, then you are right, you do not understand who you are and you are in capable of loving not only yourself but anyone or anything.
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apparently it can be painful ... and a serious medical condition called a broken heart sydrome can be a result of relationship difficulties...
www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/03/090326092354.htm -
If you honestly believe that someone else can project pain and give it to you where it hurts, then you are miss guided. Think for your self for a moment and turn that thought around, what if you are only making up a larger story so you can blame someone else for your "pain". You own it, you can get rid of it by not accepting that anyone can break your heart, except you of course. Lighten up and give yourself a hug, look in the mirror, are you really unlovable?
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PIECES OF APRIL
Somewhere beyond the month of May
Morning brings another day
Cold and empty, dark and gray
Memories from far away
Of life in April, Yesterday
When life was like a child at play
Full, with spirit, happy, gay
Now life, like wasted ashes lay
Across my treasured albums.
Once the brightness filled the world
From the candles that we lit
And Once the fire burned so high
We couldn't see but you and I
And Once our passion lit the sky
Our sweat and wetness feeding flame
Now all what blazed, but flickers low
And candles, one by one, go out.
Sometimes I still feel the heat
And in my mind the brilliant light
Whenever the dying candles tease
With flickers of fading memories
And sometimes I can't see at all
And I wish they'd just go out
And let me end it all.
To forget.
Thomas T. Panto -
I agree with Micheal Learn To Rock...Love is One Big Illusion.
You know what...Our Ego that can make "love" is so paint full.
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Love by itself isn't painful, it's how it feels inside you. The way it was first given will make you associate it with something nice or not nice. Some people feel loved when someone is fighting with them as it proves they care, so for them love will be tense and painful. If you feel loved when you get attention for being sick, then yes, love is painful! But, if love first came in a package of acceptance and tolerance, affection and sharing, then it won't be painful.
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