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Do you think LOVE is painfull?
Posted by RioTheYorkiePoo • 4/04/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: advice, bloggers, couples, feelings, life, love, marriage, people, relationships, single
Daddy and mommy sure love each other
but sometimes...there is a tear here
and there...there I have to "work on" their
pretty green and brown eyes:-)
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Going to the dentist is. -
Maybe you're doing it wrong.-
just my thought
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its very painful... -
Oh yes. Painful. Love should be abolished, banned ... the gene surgically removed.
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Ummmm...
to be continue-
I'm waiting for the part...
To be continued...LOL
Is it going to take a while?
I guess
Lmao
Rio
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yes it is...but if it wasnt painful, then you would never truly appreciate and experience its beauty and greatness...and not just in love, but in every other issue in life...if you dont experience the bad side, you will never see the true beauty of the good one
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It makes sence Anar...
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Ditto.
Love is what it is.
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No, but sex can cause rug burns.-
knee pads?
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Don, Don, Don what are we going to do about you!!! LOL
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Hey Ben you beat me to it. That was my next comment.
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That's a very odd question. I don't think it's the "love" part that's painful.-
@DrowseyMonkey
Which part do you think is painful?
If you didn't love it wouldn't be so painful...
You see...
"The odd part becomes the love."
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attachment leads to suffering. -
I've never found painful, but I have found loss painful.
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If the one you love dies then yes it can be painful.-
@Shiley
The whole family here just watched the movie
P.S. I love you with Hillary Swank/Gerard Butler...
It is a great romantic comedy...It has a lot about your post!:-)
With a lovely twist:-) -
Or if you are deeply in love with someone when you're a teenager and your parents separate you from that person.
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"Daddy and mommy sure love each other
but sometimes...there is a tear here
and there...there I have to 'work on' their
pretty green and brown eyes:-)"
Does love hurt? Of course. I'm assuming that you're writing about the sort of "love" that involves two people fusing their lives. The kind of openness and commitment involved is unavoidably painful: and extremely rewarding in the long run.
There are enjoyable patches, too, of course.-
Yes I'm writing "about the sort of "love" that involves two people fusing their lives."
Thx 4 blogging back:-)
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brevity hurts
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spread my love into her is kinda cool -
"Love, love will tear us apart, again".-
such a great song. ah, Joy Division.
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"The greatest happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved, loved for ourselves, or rather loved in spite of ourselves". Victor Hugo
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as long as you are not divorced or separated it will always remain sweet -
if done right.
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Going to dentist is loving yourself...so...because
you love yourself you go to dentist.
By the way...going to dentist doesn't hurt much:-)
Sitting on a dentist chair having a root canal
done and after that...you still have to pay...
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the after love is painful
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I guess "before and during" is not??:-)
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Absolutely! But it "hurts so good" - Nards
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@ nardeeisms - "Absolutely! But it "hurts so good" - Nards"
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who hurt ya nards - let me at em - laughs
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I think I understand this. I like you Nards. You are one sharp lady!
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Only the most excruciatingly painful emotion ever
I had my heart ripped out once.-
how did they get it back in there - or are you a zombie?
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love sadness is probably the most hurtful emotion, got 3 in my life wow...what a painful ride
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If it is painfull, it is not LOVE -
Agreed Acoustic...
If it does become painful then just apply more oil.
Sorry. -
Only when she bites...
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amazing what threads return around here. I'll just chime in that:
"LOVE STINKS!!!!!
YEAH YEAH !!!!!
LOVE STINKS !!!!!(love stinks)
YEAH YEAH!!!!!"
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It's only painful when I beat the hell out of him..poor guy.. -
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Love is work. . .It can be painful at times . . but not very often and if it gets to the point where its more painful then it is fun for you . .GET OUT haha and stop letting it drag on . .I'v made that same mistake for security reasons. Other then that I have pretty optimistic views on love since I'm currently in love. -
love is worthwhile ...
we may be scarred by past lovers, yet we still seek out somebody for love ( affection, sex, money, etc) -
Only if you're into S&M.-
As Lou Reed sang "taste the whip, in love not given lightly..."
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I think it might be and therefore I am really cautious about what I get myself into. -
No gain without pain. Anything thats gives us lots of joy also has pain hidden in it. Motherhood is painful right from inception itself but gives us joy like nothing else. You don't stop living coz of fear of death. Similarly love is painful...but we still love the idea of being love. -
Love itself is not painful, on the contrary, but to loose love is the most painful experience of all. -
For cats it is.
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Love can be painful, but that's why god invented lubricants. -
If it doesn't hurt you it doesn't mean anything to you. You are only hurt when you feel deeply for someone. -
it can be.. but so is everything else once in awhile.. wjust cause you get a papercut doesnt mean your gonna stop using paper right?? love is painful, but still beautiful. and we should always remember the good not the bad
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Reminded me of a song Plasirs d'amour with the following words translated in English - ...."The joys of love are but a moment long
The pain of love endures the whole life long"
However, don't feel that way myself. -
can love hurt? hmmmm, well it would depend on what you are being tied up with...*whish* yee ha ride'em cowboy -
It's not the luv that hurts, it's the getting dumped that bites
love itself rocks. especially if the sex is good. -
Love is always painful. It has to be, otherwise you would take it for granted and get bored. Love is about making a deal - I'll take the good times now, even though I know it can't be like this forever.
If you don't try to hang on so tightly to the moment, you can go on creating new and better moments, and that makes the pain of losing the last moment much more bearable.
When you feel the pain of love and losing it, or being tricked by it, you get mad and it robs you of your thinking powers. Using that angry energy to get heard and appreciated, to minimize the pain of love is your best bet. Find out more at www.drjeanetteraymond.com -
Anything you expose your emotions to has the potential to hurt. -
Love is not painful. It is the fear and the absense of it that hurt -
Love is not painful... only painful things done in the name of love cause pain. Like beating your kids for their own good... -
When a civilization permits you to love only ONE other person, and fear all the rest as competitors, then the FEAR of Losing, and the actual loss, of that ONE LOVE is a as serious as a death in the family. When Love is made RARE by a civilization then each love is a priceless treasure. -
I don't think the LOVE part of the relationship is the painful part. It's the other stuff that's the cause of the pain- disrespect, poor communication skills, quick anger, etc...
There are plenty of relationships with pain and there are plenty of relationships without pain. All have love. -
Why are so many of us mere mortals in pain about the possibility that Love causes us pain! If we choose to love then we start with thy self. This is the beginning of all good things to come. Learning to love yourself first is understanding what there is to love. -
I don’t think love itself is painful but everybody doesn’t see love the same way. Some guy may back slap a woman, and say, but I love her. Also, it takes more than love to put food on the table and make the house payment. -
Matters of the heart definitely have their painful points. The people involved are the true defining point of the whole emotion. The maturity level, the perseverance of the two individuals, sacrifice and patience and finance and trust are just a few of the factors to overcome to lessen the painfulness of the situation. -
but these things are all just names and labels we give as an excuse to lash out and not love. The true essence of love belongs to YOU; what ever else you project is only a man made bunch of descriptive and restrictive phrases that allows excuses for love to be absent in case they become apparent. Why do we use sacrifice, finance and back slapping to even be a part of love. If you see yourself as misunderstood and use these excuses to not love, then you are right, you do not understand who you are and you are in capable of loving not only yourself but anyone or anything.
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Love can be painful, as long as it is not the person you love knowingly inflicting the pain on you. (Well, apart from certain situations in which it is not only acceptable but encouraged... :p) Having said that, love isn't painful by definition, and can be rather painless really. -
apparently it can be painful ... and a serious medical condition called a broken heart sydrome can be a result of relationship difficulties...
www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/03/090326092354.htm -
If you honestly believe that someone else can project pain and give it to you where it hurts, then you are miss guided. Think for your self for a moment and turn that thought around, what if you are only making up a larger story so you can blame someone else for your "pain". You own it, you can get rid of it by not accepting that anyone can break your heart, except you of course. Lighten up and give yourself a hug, look in the mirror, are you really unlovable?
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PIECES OF APRIL
Somewhere beyond the month of May
Morning brings another day
Cold and empty, dark and gray
Memories from far away
Of life in April, Yesterday
When life was like a child at play
Full, with spirit, happy, gay
Now life, like wasted ashes lay
Across my treasured albums.
Once the brightness filled the world
From the candles that we lit
And Once the fire burned so high
We couldn't see but you and I
And Once our passion lit the sky
Our sweat and wetness feeding flame
Now all what blazed, but flickers low
And candles, one by one, go out.
Sometimes I still feel the heat
And in my mind the brilliant light
Whenever the dying candles tease
With flickers of fading memories
And sometimes I can't see at all
And I wish they'd just go out
And let me end it all.
To forget.
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Never let the memory be a painful one, allow it be flicker and dance in heart for ever. If you can do this it will prepare you for the next wonderful experience of love that life can present. Keep you heart open and it will fill up again.
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When you are doing it right, love can be the most beautiful thing ever and pain is not involved, only two people knowing, sharing and communicating with one another.
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its painful only if you let it be. -
Love is a battlefield. -
Greed is the battlefield. When love is given to life , nothing is asked in return.
Life was not designed to be alone, and once life is known, then to be without it is a great saddness. -
where there is heart
there will be all feelings
smiles, pain, laughter tears
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Is love painful?
Yes, extremely so. Next silly question. -
Love has the ability to drop a person to unbelievable anguish but it can also lift a person to unbelievable joy. -
I agree with Micheal Learn To Rock...Love is One Big Illusion.
You know what...Our Ego that can make "love" is so paint full.
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Love by itself isn't painful, it's how it feels inside you. The way it was first given will make you associate it with something nice or not nice. Some people feel loved when someone is fighting with them as it proves they care, so for them love will be tense and painful. If you feel loved when you get attention for being sick, then yes, love is painful! But, if love first came in a package of acceptance and tolerance, affection and sharing, then it won't be painful.
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yeah that sounds great! im wit the doc on this one. -
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