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Have you ever felt invisible?
Posted by amybyrd21 • 9/26/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: hide and seek, invisable, not there
Have you ever had one of those days where no one notices you at all. I swear I could be driving a bright colored clown car and still every one will pull out in front of me in town. I could be shooting flames out my butt and hubby woudlnt notice me tonight if I jumped up and down and caught the house on fire. It make one want to scream. So are you invisable right now?
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My question would be: how hard are you focusing on it? I think people go about their own business, --on what level do you want to be noticed? I've felt I was "unheard" before - no one seemed to get what I was saying or just didn't hear me whatsoever.
I noticed you today!
If that counts any, I don't know.-
They act as if I am not here at all today. I get that from him and people in general every once in a while and all at the same time. Someone told me before I did not want to be seen so it was a mental thing on my part
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Well as far as your husband ----have you asked him why he doesn't pay the attention that is needed? I would totally communicate with him and let him know how you feel. He may not even realize what he's doing.
But with other people, it may be a self-projection thing where your vibes give off a "don't talk to me" type of signal, but I can't say that since I am not in your presence. I do believe in that type of stuff though. Energy is huge and effective, so whatever you are putting out there will be used in the same light... Try going out one day where you REALLY feel good about yourself, you're feeling generally happy and loving life---watch how people gravitate toward you. It is a fact that most people gravitate towards positive people. Have you been sad lately or less than happy? That could be it too...
I hope things go well for you! -
There were 4 young women handing out free perfume samples, in front of a huge shop I was entering. I love perfume and at that stage I had an excellent salary, so I thought one of the lasses would come up to me and spray my wrist as I went inside. But no.. not a one.
It was lunchtime, so I thought why not go back out onto the street and enter again. Surely this time someone will approach me. Nope. A third time.. not either. A fourth time and no approaches, so I checked whether my suit was dirty or my hair flying everywhere. Looked fine to me.
Finally I had to go back to work so I went up to one of the young women and explained that I had been through the front doors 4 times and noone offered free perfume. "Oh" said the Sweet Young Thing "you are probably over 50 and we don't even notice anyone old".-
Oh! My! That was rude! I hope you gently reminded the sweet young thing that she will one day be 50 quicker then she realizes, and she will expect to be treated with dignity and respect!
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Have I ever felt invisible? No. Have I ever wanted to be invisible? Yeah. But then, does that mean my clothes would become invisible too? If not, I would have to walk around in my birthday suit. And what if this invisibility eventually wore off? Could you imagine standing in the middle of the girls locker room butt naked when the invisibility wore off? Wow. But I think it would still be worth it. -
Just recently I was standing in the kitchen at our church, I have worked in the kitchen for many, many years, (we serve free lunch every Sunday) and I have been put in charge of everything going on in there.
But this time it was a weird feeling. I was just standing there, people were coming and going and asking questions.. only they were asking someone else instead of me this time, and it felt so odd,,, it was as if I wasn't even there.
But! in a way it was good, because I really have been getting tired of constantly having to do everything, so maybe someone else is being groomed to take my place. Also I think I feel honored that someone else wants to take over, which means I have inspired someone to do what I did ... even better.. Which will be a blessing! -
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You mean the above isn't visible?!-
Did someone just say something??? huh! Must be my imagination!
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My youngest kids absolutely believe if they cover their eyes with their hands no one else can see them....so currently I have invisible children who can't see me either -
Awwww... my little grandkids do that too!
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I think he is mad at my mom spoiling me this year. The disney trip, the rascal Flatts concert, lunch and alot of presents today. He feels like all he got me was a bunch of chickens. That is what I wanted by the way. Mom got me kitchen stuff like always. Because that is what I like. He feels down about it. He went to bed so it is better now he is not ignoring me any more.
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