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Have you ever felt lonely on Valentine's Day.
Posted by Wildnfree • 2/12/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: Dating, kissing tips, love, Romance, valentine
Valentine's Day is approaching and if you not dating someone, you might be tempted to even drop dead. Have you ever felt lonely and unloved on any Valentine's day in your life.
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Yes and it sucks! -
Nah, I never let it bother me. If I felt lonely, I'd just fire up my chat room and pretend to be a 16 year old blonde.
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Wow, what a nice way to be creative..hehehehehe.
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Same here. Just sent myself a card during the quieter years and pretended to be excited and surprised upon arrival -
Not really if you look at it from a marketers view it is only to sell cards,and candy anyway. -
I`ve been single on Valentine`s until 4 years ago when I met my partner. I don`t care more about Valentine`s now than I did when I was single.... it`s just a marketing device...
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Hopefully singles could have a party and spend time with each other. -
Not really, although I do miss companionship sometimes I like having my freedom more nowadays. -
Loneliness Rocks
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Three cheers for being single! -
Every year...year after year! -
Nope, I never feel lonely because I have adopted an entire brigade of U.S. Soldiers serving over in Afghanistan. In fact, I'm embarking on a Soldier Message of Love Campaign, so if you're feeling lonely, why not stop by and drop them a love message. Chances are they are feeling pretty lonely too and this simple act of kindness could make you both feel better ;-) If you would like to post a Valentine's Message to our U.S. Soldiers, stop by soldiersvoice.wordpress.com. Thanks!! and Happy Valentine's Day!!-
Does this work for Afghanis too?
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Never. Valentines day is the one of the top 3 days to be out and social at a bar/club. Lots of them have social events scheduled. And if they don't, you could hang out and meet mr or ms Right Now. -
Not really i just got my freedom after ten years of loyalness to my mate who thought it would be fun to sleep with my sisters husband. This happend in November and is still going on today and he will be with her on Valentines day i could crawl under a rock and die but that would not be fair to the rock or myself. So this Valentines day i will be updating a few of the eighteen blogs i write and have grown to love and all they want is Content and there happy.
PS life is what you make it dont let others get you moving backwards.
That's her in the picture i would post a new one but she refuses to give me my PC i have no files to make the change.-
Thanks for having consideration for the rock and yourself. Life like you said is all really about moving forward.
Cheers
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Valentine's Day is just another day. I don't buy into the hype (even when I was single). My husband shows me he loves me every day and that works for me. -
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Sure, I'd imagine most single people've felt that way at some point around the holiday, as much as it effectively cheapens love with its commercialization. The rest of the world's basically throwing their happy relationships in your face, after all. But there are certainly worse things in the world, and I'm plenty accustomed to being alone around this time of year. -
valentines day for my love and me is everyday. i love to create givts form him, a selfmade music cd, a calligrafic painting, and too funny, I need to hide all of my givts because he "smells" them :-), and wants all at once. -
DO NOT WANT -
and we have created our very own valentines week, celebrating it monthly from the 4th to 10th
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Yes.
But nothing a good blunt can't fix.
Know what I mean :o? -
For the longest time I was jinxed. I never never had a relationship or date on Valentine's day. I had always had a break up with the person prior to that day. It would be nice to break the curse in 2009. -
yeah...sigh...in fact just thinking about it right now makes me feel lonely... -
seeing as being single on valentine's day is all i've known i can honestly say that i feel like a huge inconvenience on Feb. 14th... i almost feel like saying 'excuse me, single girl coming through...' but i feel like i am not missing out on much- chocolates and roses, how cliche.
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What do you mean, ever? I always feel lonely on Valentine's Day.-
now that was funny. nice one.
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Ever since living in the wild far away from my fellow humans and all the traditions I grew up with I have little attachments to the "holidays". I tend to create my own special moments and find it much more freeing and less stressful. I often forget the holidays completely and am surprised when someone sends a card or gift.
For me, I think it is much more important to make each day as special and sacred as we can and to be aware of those we love and whom love us. I also don't particularly like "scheduled" gift giving like Christmas, Valentine's Day, etc. I find it more spontaneous to give and receive gifts when one is really "feeling" the desire to give. -
Drop dead because you're single and it's Valentine's day - for goodness sake! It's a big marketing ploy. You should check out the over-priced restaurants on that date full of couples who do it for the sake of doing it and sit there miserably not knowing what to say to each other. It's all so manufactured! -
Let see, when I was 21, Valentines day was two months after my fiance cheated on me and I found out Christmas Eve.... I was pretty close to the edge. -
Never. Every day is valentines day with my partner.There is one out there for you all. Advice dont go for what you would usualy go for. Dont get caught up with appearance or wealth. Choose someone kind. Then be kind to each other.Then you will find unconditional love. -
Yes, I did! Therefore I went online for searching a partner. It happened exactly for Valentine Day! It was 5 years ago. Now I am happily married for two years to the man I met online. More than that. I realized that I love to match people together online, so I have found spouses for two my single friends. -
What?!! Lol!!! Valentines Day is a commercial holiday. It's made to sell jelewry, candy, cards and other crap people buy for it. To question your entire existence or worth over a 24 hour commercial is totally insane.
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hahaha exactly! My friend refers to it as hallmark conspiracy day -
HAHAAA!!! I like that!!
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no, D. takes those things seriously. When we fight the night before, we make sure it's resolved that same night.-
D (my D) and I fought so bad on V-day I went to bed without any sex.
Now THAT is uncalled for. -
Lotus, i don't let fights get in the way of my pleasure anymore. we fight okay but if i want it, we are having it and then we are back to not talking anymore
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Well. . .
What we must feel lonely on Valentine's day? Although we single, it doesn't mean we have to feel lonely.
Hey. . .U still have a friends, rite? And may be the best friends u have. Why we don't celebrate valentine's day with our friends. Is that weird?
Ohh. . .indeed, only people who have narrow minds who hold like that.
Valentine is just a celebration, for me everydays is valentine. Mutual love between friends and fellow creatures of God.
U will never be able to feel the beautiful meaning of Valentine and story from the behind, If always feel lonely at the Valentine's day.
Wew. . .what was I said? -faint- -
i always feel lonely on valentines
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