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Sometimes everything seems to go wrong and you feel very low in your spirits. You may even think that there is no meaning in continuing the life after this?

Have you ever got this kind of experience in your life?

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  1. iglejago
    I think most people have experienced this feeling at some point or another in life, the important thing is to realize it is temporary and you will overcome whatever you are going through. Often times we cannot or do not realize the "troubling times" are there to enhance what is already in us, the ability to withstand more than you think you can. You are so much stronger than you think. Hang in there, if there is one thing I know about life and its many struggles it is that you do get through it and you are the better for it.
    Take care and very thought provoking question! Have a great week.
    1. vijayanths
      wow, what a meaningful and practical reply from you iglejago. I am sure you are a successful writer. Winners view a problem as an opportunity to learn and they really find their potentials during the crisis.

      They won't repeat the mistakes in future. Many achievements are made after big failures.I salute your knowledge and response,thanks.
  2. HollytheHousewife
    Baby,its called life. No I have never felt that sorry 4 myself. Everone goes thru ups and downs. Its how u look @ it that makes all the difference. There is nothing wrong with getting upset,but u have to take a step back and realize that u are blessed by the problems u do have. You know,your kids could be sick,or u coulda been born in a 3rd world country. Always look @ the big picture and realize how good u do have it.
    1. vijayanths
      yes Holly you are fully correct. I admire your maturity of mind for your age. You can think clearly and your knowledge about world is really good. Yet I wish you never have such bad phase of life,lol.
    2. HollytheHousewife
      See,that's what I'm talking about. Vijay I could've been really sad right now and u just said those nice things,and that's exactly what I'm talking about. I'm blessed to have u as a friend,see what I mean
  3. nothingprofound
    I've often thought that life has no meaning, but only in a philosophical way. Low spirits and depression are another matter, and I rarely experience that, because I don't try to impose my will on experience and events. I pretty much accept whatever comes along, and if things don't turn out the way I want, I find humor and occasionally a little insight in it.
  4. HollytheHousewife
    @ nothing
    That's all good. Its just kinda shame u will never feel what I feel life is all about.
    Don't take offense to that pls
    1. nothingprofound
      No offense, Holly. To each their own.
  5. HollytheHousewife
    Good,I'm so glad. I so don't wanna offend a good friend like u.
  6. mikeny07
    Yeah, but I always think something great may happen later on.

    I always say that everyone should live their full life out. We all will have plenty of time 6 feet under. Why rush it?
  7. trailofpen
    No, I have never thought life was not worth living. I've grown to the point that I really don't care about those who feel that life isn't worth it. I have lots of respect for suicide counselors. I don't have the patience to put up with those kinds of people anymore.
  8. Sam1982
    Yes quite often, and perhaps it really isn't - perhaps life isn't supposed to be this difficult, however if I was to end this life prematurely, putting an end to my personal struggles and heartbreaks - I would only be creating much greater stuggles and heartbreak for those that I leave behind.
    1. vijayanths
      You are absolutely right Sam1982.
  9. DeadRooster
    I sometimes fly in hot air balloons and look at the ground 3,000 ft below. I think about how cruel this world is and how easy it would be to end it all from way up there. I look down at the hard ground and wonder...

    Should I...

    Should I...

    Should I push someone out?
    1. vijayanths
      I should not come near you Dead, or I will be dead.
  10. MissSuzie
    No. I enjoy life entirely too much to want it to end. It probably helps that I take nothing serious and make fun of just about everything.
    1. vijayanths
      Nice to know that Miss.
  11. jeremyjanson
    Yes. Several times.
    1. vijayanths
      Ohh, sorry to hear that Jeremyjanson.
  12. FredSr2009
    Sure, just as a passing thought, I think most people has at one time or another.
    1. vijayanths
      yes, but the intensity of such thoughts differ from one person to another.
  13. HollytheHousewife
    @ cock-a-doodle-doo Haha
  14. dosox
    Yeah I do & it was the worst moment of my life.
    1. vijayanths
      Dosox, You can do wonders in this beautiful world and my wishes for you always.Keep going.
  15. writings
    i guess we all do, then we just pass that phase and smile at it.
  16. vijayanths
    Yes, I do agree with you writings. I am perhaps passing through that phase now,lol.
  17. ariwat
    I've realized the more I find my own sense of humour, the more that life is worth to me. Why? I don't know. Because I like to make people laugh?

    Plus, if I were to have ended it at my first pitfall, I'd still be a spirit wandering around wondering, "Now WHY the hell did I do that?! That was so stupid of me."
    1. vijayanths
      Yes, If you have the ability to make others laugh,then life is worth living.
  18. pandora106
    I've gone through some serious times like this and the only things that kept me here is the thought I had of the people I love without me, knowing these feelings are temporary and a pure miracle a couple of times.:)

    Just in general, most people have passing thoughts like this but if you have a lot of them you shouldn't ignore them. Some times people need other's help.
    1. vijayanths
      You are absolutely right. But the problem is mostly they can't approach others for help and others may not be having the interest to help them too. We need to understand that life is with good and bad and have to move on. We need to prove others that we are great. So we need to work doubly hard and reach our goals soon.
  19. Stillthinking
    I have thought this many times. Since I lost my job, I've spent every day wondering what it is I really want from my life and the events that have brought me to this point. In the past few weeks, I have wondered if it's going to continue to be a crapfest forever or if it's going to get better.

    I am leaning towards crapfest.
  20. tomirarosser
    Every time I look at the piles of laundry that I've put off all week - Oh yes!
  21. pandora106
    It's hard to be honest about these thoughts and even if you could, most often people don't know who to talk to. If your in this kind of funk, go talk to a Dr. Most people are afraid to go for many diff reasons.

    I have bipolar disorder. If I wasn't taking medication the main symptom is that my moods change between depressions and manic states, I have a lot of energy and feel as if I can do anything. If you relate to this my blog is may-bipolardisorder.blogspot.com/

    Now there are some sites that you can talk to people about all kind of things like depression. One that I have found helpful is www.mytherapy.com

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