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Hedonism - For or against it?
Posted by morgantj • 8/24/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: hedonism, pain, philosophy, pleasure, purpose
Hedonism, are you for or against it? Are you a hedonist? What are your thoughts on it?
Hedonism being defined as: a school of philosophy which argues that pleasure has an ultimate importance and is the most important pursuit of humanity and that it is the only thing that is good for a person.
(Combination of Normative and Motivational Hedonism)
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Yes, THEIR pain and pleasure and when one has children the priorities should shift. Also I think you may want to double check, while your statment "Hedonism being defined as: a school of philosophy which argues that pleasure has an ultimate importance and is the most important pursuit of humanity and that it is the only thing that is good for a person." is part of it, the origins were not so much for complete pleasure so much as it was for complete happiness and in my opinion one cannot maximize their happiness if they do not evolve with lifes changes.
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People should be able to do whatever the hell they please, within limits of course. As long as you're not hurting others with your behavior, then it's none of my business.
However, I don't think living a life a life in constant pursuit of only pleasure is entirely a good thing. That's when it becomes selfish behavior and a superficial lifestyle. People need ups and downs and more meaningful pursuits to grow as human beings, it's what gives us substance, character, empathy.
Oh, and another thing, people have to experience pain, in order to experience pleasure. If you don't know pain, you cannot identify pleasure or appreciate pleasure. -
For me pleasure has to do with accomplishment. I think it is an active process and not something passive that just happens.
If I want something done and I succeed, it gives me pleasure.
But after that, I want something more difficult done. That does not work right away, which is frustrating, but when I succeed I am happy again. And this is an ongoing process where frustration and pleasure alternate.
And minimizing pain, I think, has a lot to do with learning from mistakes and adjusting behaviour.
Or avoiding them, but then you also miss the pleasure I guess. -
All good points raised.
If we lived in a bubble, I would say that yes - hedonism in that definition is perfectly fine. But since we don't - I would say that hedonism in it's purest form would not only be a poor choice, but perhaps even a counterproductive one. And using that premise - the reason groups of humans learn social interaction they way that they do is the action/reaction that behaviors cause - the pleasurable behavior that nets a painful reaction is counterproductive behavior in the sense that instead of achieving the hedonistic goal, they've actually created the opposite. (Non pleasurable experience)
In doing so humans naturally learn what not to do.
In other words, I don't even think it's achievable. -
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while pleasure is ultimately very important to the human mind, it does carry with it a host of problems...particularly if pleasure is acquired in ways that could be very damning to oneself and others. but pleasure being, in the end, a very selfish thing (if we get extremely technical, we can say all human actions are selfish but that's a different conversation), hedonism would be a very flawed way of living that at some point would result in problems. the horrors and pains of existence are perhaps even more important than the pleasures because it is the pain we learn best from.
hedonism could even be a somewhat impossible way of living...
failing to obtain pleasure if we seek it...what about sex? we deliberately seek it, we attain it, and then if we're lucky, we get to seek it again a few minutes later and again attain it haha -
The problem with hedonism is that it believes that pleasure is the only human need. Reminds me of some lines from "Comfortably numb":
"Just a little prick,
There'll be no more 'ahhhh!!!!'
But you'll feel a little sick"
People need purpose, honor, deep relationships, a feeling of strength in themselves. They need to feel like they can wake up and lighten themselves in the morning. And they need other human beings too.
I also, however, agree with the idea that people should, for the most part, be allowed to do what they want, provided that they accept the consequences, though I also believe that there is a natural morality that if followed from the heart, rather then the mind, will lead to happiness. And I do believe that most people are too controlling and controlled. -
What is it if you make every one else happy and you suffer for it?
I have always wanted to go to a Hedonism Resort. Maybe one day -
True happiness does not come from satisfying the ego. Feeding the ego is good for caterpillars, but not for butterflies. True joy comes from abandoning the ego and discovering the ability to soar. I think the Buddha said something like that, maybe not.
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To live a hedonistic life is wrong, because one can not know what is good and what is bad for him/her at the time he/she was born. We are all ignorance of distinguishing the difference between right and wrong at our middle ages.
So it's all about knowing yourself issue which is a divine philosophical question: Do you know yourself? Do you know why sometimes you feel great and sometimes not? Do you know where your senses come from? Do you know what you know and what you don't know? Do you know why you are looking for the answers? ...etc.
I think hedonism is ok for you, if you all know the answers of these questions. -
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I'm a parent. I don't think you can be a good parent and be hedonistic because if you're hedonistic, you're going to care about your needs and wants over those of your children's.
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