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How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested
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How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested
Posted: 31-01-2008 | Comments: 110 | Views: 233,034
How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?
Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:
1. He tells someone
Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.
2. The look
He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.
3. The conversation
Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.
4. He appears unexpectedly
He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.
5. EVERYONE likes you
Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.
These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.
Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know
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I don't think secrets are needed to attract men, and I imagine that any man who requires that secrets be employed to get him interested is probably not worth the effort...
how about just be yourself? -
An engorged trouser snake?-
hahaha.
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Hey don't mock my suggestions!
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This particular snake specie secrets killer venom that is known to cause cervical cancer -
...way to kill the mood!
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#4 kind of sounds like stalking...he asks people about your schedule and whereabouts and shows up uninvited and unannounced?
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Agreed
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4. He appears unexpectedly? Like a crazy stalker?
Darn it! beaten to it! -
1. He tells someone - Say what? Is this article directed at the highschool set?
Honestly, I don't mean this to sound rude or anything but the last line in the OP is: Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know-
the whole thing doesn't really sound much like it's about a guy who is interested in a girl - it sounds like a guy in a club who spotted a hott girl he would like to sleep with on the other side of the room.
there is a big difference between liking someone and thinking they are attractive.
never wear a ring in public? silly advice - perhaps, and hopefully - it is not every girls ONLY desire in life to find random, stalkerish strangers in clubs.
Here's MY list of advice to women who want to find a guy
1. don't go looking for guys - wear rings if you darn well please and be yourself and you will meet someone when it happens. don't try to be someone you aren't.
2. find someone who shares your interests and who you can talk to.
3. watch out for creepy guys who 'watch' you while you are walking with your friends and follow you home.
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It is perhaps the easiest thing in the world. Eyes tell the love first and not lips. Women are damn good to read the eyes.-
haha!
great answer!
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1/ He sticks your secretly taken picture to the wall of his attic bedsit using bodily fluids.
2/ He kills your neighbour and makes it look like suicide because he looked at you last Tuesday when you had come out of your house at 9.42am wearing a black skirt white blouse and a grey jacket possibly by Gaultier.
3/ He has not only your face but the faces of all your immediate family tattooed life size around his body.
4/ He has legally changed his name from Adolf k Flexinbinder to whatever yours is.
5/ You keep getting unaddressed envelopes pushed through your letter box with nothing in them except some kind of sticky white fluid and a picture of a cat with a thought bubble saying "Thinking of you"-
Wa~~~~~~~!!!!!
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OMG! donkey likes me!!!
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So when these guys pop up on my bus surprisingly it's not because I am their favorite bus driver? Dam they ask dispatch to be put on my bus but thought it was just because I am the cute fun bus driver
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so cute answer..
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Ah thanks *blush* Oh wait the answer was cute oops my bad
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Personally, this is an almost accurate list, i feel. Though some of the signs might not apply to some men.-
Try mine. It's even less accurate, lol.
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In my experience, to name a few, it's the way the guy looks at me, it's like I'm the only person in the room; the staring, the laughing at my corny jokes, and always showing up unexpectedly. I just would know and would feel it. -
Okay, in just a day short, he would turned your life from boring dull unpopular into his popular mainstream friends world.. -
He who never ever know your existence, is now makes you more "exist" than the existence you could imagine
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he would offer you a free ride anytime anywhere.
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very well said ... -
The trouble with these sort of pieces of advice is that they are almost always misleading. Depending on your personality, (self-confidence) you will either see all signs or you will refuse to see he's interested even if he put a sign on himself saying "I like you".
The advice did sound a bit high school to me too, if even that, grown men don't stalk you or send "tentative smiles across the room" if they're into you. If they do... They're creepy. A man worth noticing will come talk to you with an open smile on his face, stands a little too close to be platonic and that's all there is to it really. -
Well, I can't agree or disagree with anybody here because it really depends on the person's style and attitude as well as interpretations and experience. A smile may work on one person but may not have any effect on another. There is no right or wrong answer, just whatever your experience is on this, so there should be no judging either.
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Sigh!!!
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"Never ever wear a ring in public"... some men like the thrill of the chase... Its what makes it more exciting. If your not looking for a serious relationship, I Say wear the ring in public, give the look like you want more than just to kiss ;-) and then slowly look away.
When i was single and actively looking i would love challenges. some guys, maybe most don't actually but some men like to conquer, its in their blood from the middle ages. The thrill and excitement.
However, be careful as some, not all once they conquer the excitement is gone. the thrill of the chase is over. you may be left hurt at the end.-
"Never ever wear a ring in public"... some men like the thrill of the chase...
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Sometimes, it is a rule for all man--both single and married :)))
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If I like a girl she will know, trust me!-
So, if you like many girls, what will you do? :)))
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nice info^^ -
Sometimes it's all about intuition, your friends might give your some suggestions, but it's your guts that give you the real answer.-
en....maybe, yes.
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today, reject by a beautiful girl, sigh now ...
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I wouldn't be surprised if you acted like you're supposed to in the OP!
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How to Tell if a Gal Likes you ? im really curious..
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your question is so funny
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If I have to decipher something to find out if a guy likes me, chances are I'm not sticking around to find out. Sounds like a bunch of games to me and I don't have time for it. -
what about stupidity? isn't that a sign as well?-
yes, it is a sign.
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Emmm,
It might be when a girls keep on eye on him and he tried to be cool but fails to keep up the girl keep asking for a respon.....
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I think most women can agree with me, that even if a guy likes you........ and if he isn't the way you want him to be.......... it isn't going to go anywhere, and is gonna be a huge blow to his pride.
It just makes the "whole thing" more complicated and vexing.-
sometimes, single way is the most useful way!
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sorry, prohibited to visit blogcatalog.com by some reason for long time...:(((
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when he exerts extra effort on being nice and not being himself. haha
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