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My classmate is very angry,on msn.

JKust wondering how you treat angry people over the net or on the phone.

Or any other way without seeing them face to face.

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  1. MissSuzie
    Call them an @ss and disconnect or hang up.
  2. voodooKobra
    It depends on the degree and scope of the anger, as well as the focus of it.

    Are they angry at you? Ignore them.
    Are they angry at someone else? Brighten their day.
    Are they angry at themselves? Console them.
    Do they have an angry disposition in general? Get over it.
    1. PetLvr
      good advice, but missing important component.

      Smilies. :8
  3. MadameX
    Be persistently calm and friendly.
  4. dbowles1017
    Convince him to go release his anger on the person or object he is angry at
  5. dune
    Kill it with fire!
    1. voodooKobra
      He meant furious, not furry-ous.
  6. jeremyjanson
    Comes with the territory. See if there's anything you can do for them, and if not, accept it, accept them, and leave it alone.
  7. ThriftShopRomantic
    Often people when they're angry really only want to vent/want someone to actually listen.
  8. ThinkingUhuru
    If it's directed at you, disengage until they calm down.
  9. LadyHands
    Talk with them by calm way and let them talk and talk without any comment , you can only hear .
  10. Friday13
    "There, there. Maybe Santa does exist."
  11. HollytheHousewife
    Log on as invisible
  12. HollytheHousewife
    Or just block or delete them,very easy to do. If you are the one they're mad at. They generally get glad in the same pants they got mad in.
  13. crazyTsu
    Assuming he is angry at you, say to him, you are flustered at the moment. I suggest we talk later ;-)
  14. Theresa111
    Ignore them. Without an audience there isn't much left to do. Throwing tantrums doesn't make any sense if the person is alone.
    1. jeremyjanson
      On the flip side though they're not always trying to throw tantrums, so maybe you should find out from them first.
  15. HollytheHousewife
    Well like I said leave em alone or ignore,you have to be no one's punching bag. When the person gets back glad say then you talk to me, but never keep eating you know what with a smile on your face because you deserve the moon and the stars....period end of story
  16. owlbarn
    It would depend on why is he angry, Is he a friend of yours?
    Staying clam and empathizing always works
  17. HollytheHousewife
    Yea,not in all situations though
    1. owlbarn
      How about persistence? That'll do the trick?
  18. HollytheHousewife
    Um no you don't pursue someone who doesn't wanna be. Like I said be civil and when that angry person gets over whatever needs to be gotten over say holla at me,but you don't go back for more you live life let go and let GOD
  19. geekchick
    A soft word turns away wrath.
  20. sorcerer
    stay calm..let them tilt or run out of energy.
    then talk to them.show compassion towards their emotion.
    talk to them soo gently ..
  21. HollytheHousewife
    Um no you let them get over THEIR anger and let them kiss up to you for a while

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