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   7/05/09

   HollytheHousewife

   I never would,I would never let it come to that,and neither would he.

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   7/05/09

   blackwater

   If I ever did that (even though I don't believe in cheating) I would probably just end my life right then and there since I wouldn't have anything to live for.

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      7/05/09

      HollytheHousewife

      @blackwater
      Don't say things like that ! Nothing could ever be that bad. A person is not who defines or makes you. It sounds to me that maybe you should be alone and work on you. No one person can make you happy,that is all in your control. You don't need another person to make you feel complete,until you realize the hey to happiness is through you and jesus
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      7/05/09

      blackwater

      That's my opinion, since if I screwed up with my soul mate that is pretty much it as far as truly being in love with anyone.
      
      And please don't talk to me about jesus or god or whatever, I'm an Atheist for future reference. Thanks.
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   7/05/09

   crawler

   Sing Bryan Adams! Please Forgive me............full throat. But it is more serious than that.........I think.....I cannot imagine..........Did you ever ?

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   7/05/09

   HollytheHousewife

   Hahaha that's funny,but that would never work

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   7/05/09

   SweetViolet

   Cheating is not an option. I end one relationship before embarking on another.

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   7/05/09

   HollytheHousewife

   Exactly sv,that's what I said

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   7/05/09

   celticmusicfan

   Wow that is a tough question...considering this song by Enya
   
   Who can say why your heart sights,
   As your live flies, only time?
   And who can say why your heart cries
   when your love lies, only time?
   
   My take on this is this. All relationships need WORK. It's not all bed and roses. When you jumped into the train with your partner you know it's not going to be an easy road. There will always be bumps and grinds.But love is not just about feeling something for a person. It is also about working for that feeling to last. If you have already done the mistake, then try your best to work for it. Time is a great healer. Don't underestimate time.

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   7/05/09

   HollytheHousewife

   Yea

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      7/05/09

      celticmusicfan

      Holly do you think they noticed that I am shamelessly plugging the song in the guise of a thoughtful advice? Kidding. I really am serious
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   7/05/09

   HollytheHousewife

   Ur silly is what u are

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      7/05/09

      celticmusicfan

      I guess I am missing the sillier people here. Come out come out wherever you are.
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    7/05/09

    HollytheHousewife

    Well we both know we ain't gonna find silly people here. Hellooooo science,darwin,einstien,etc...

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    7/24/09

    borislugosisr

    There's a saying about people who say they wouldn't cheat.... cheat. But i'm not getting into that There are some many different types of people so it's impossible to compare different peoples values, life situations and their acts (what ever they might be ;)).
    
    My stance on this has always been. I'd rather kick my girl before cheating on her. Because that would be the only straight way to handle the situation. Ie if it ain't working and there's nothing to fix and one needs to move on. Then you gotta take it in steps and the first step would be to end it. BEFORE moving into other things.
    
    So cheating doesn't feel like a good thing in my view of life. But i'm not throwing any stones! (They're kinda old and i'm worried they might not take the fall...)

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    7/24/09

    borislugosisr

    Just noticed that i'm the silly person you were all waiting for. Glad to be of service. Continue

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