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I'm Having a "Bad Bra" Day...
Posted by lotusb • 8/04/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: bra
Brand new bra...and it makes my boobs look huge and weird. Not feeling this look today at all...
Anyone else having a "bad look" day..? Or had one recently? I need other people's misery to feel good about my bra situation...
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I am having a bad look day too! Big zit in the middle on my right cheek, I had no desire to do my hair so it is on a pony tail. I'm wearing jeans (bad when it is 105 outside), chucks and my dorkiest shirt. I feel your pain sister!-
Thank you!! And PS: chucks are fabulous.
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I love chucks, my are not original though
they are the payless imitation. I can't afford real chucks but I so want a pair of red ones, or green or both, jajajaja.
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Huge boobs aren't bad...unless it's giving you "muffin boob" I hate that! Had that issue the other day. GRRRR-
No...not having muffin boob...although I used to have that (before the oporation). Although I like to call "muffin boob" "quadrupalous titification".
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Take it off! Take it off! Let them be FREE! Let them be FREE!
I *hate* uncomfortable bras. I do usually wear one because the girls are on the voluptuous side, if you know what I mean!
Donna Karan makes the best lingerie--including the best bras.
The last time I was really uncomfortable was just this last weekend (Saturday night). I bought some really cute new shoes but they gave me a blister at this party I went to. I should know better to wear brand new shoes to a party where I am going to be standing around a lot.-
Oh I WISH!!! You know I don't usually wear a bra...at all. I don't even really like underwear either. But I'm in the office, and I have to have one on. I'll try Donna Karen..I'm usually a sale rack kind gal.
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I'm with you, but only because I don't really have anything to warrant a bra.... I missed that line up when God was putting me together. -
@sylvia--I wish I were flat. I honestly do. If my guy wasn't such a b00b man, I would get them reduced, I think. I've always wanted to be flat.
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@Melinda
I had one 2 years ago, and never looked back. I'm not flat..I'm a nice C cup now (instead of an overflowing DD)...but I like the look a lot better. -
I want to do that. I need to convince my hubby.
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Well something that I found to be a high point...is that since my nip/tuck I totally have (forgive my phrasing) rocket nipples. Plus I think it's sexy to go without a bra...no lines, no straps...easy access...
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I guess I'm lucky, my man always says he doesn't like big breasts, but deep down I think he says it just to make me happy.
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I'm pretty firm for a large busted lady (mostly because I've never had kids, I think). I like my shape and all--it's just a little too big (38DD). I'd like to be a C myself. I might actually do it.
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I say go for it.. I mean, having large breasts has it's advantages... but honestly I've never been happier. And it definitely makes wearing all those outfits with strappy foo-foo sht a lot easier.
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last week was bad bra week. i bought new bras and decided to wear them and they kept either riding up, so i loosened the straps, so then the straps kept slipping off my shoulders, then i felt the underwire was pintching my ribs...
this week im back to my good old bras hehehe-
I hate that. I also hate panties that ride up too.
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I could kill the man who invented the thong!
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It *had* to be a man, didn't it?
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hahaha panties that ride up are so annoying!
There are days when I just go comando.. -
Comando rocks.
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OMG!!! I bought a pair of panties the other day that were cut weird..Like they gave me a permanant wedgie but only on ONE SIDE OF MY ASS. I mean I wasn't sure if they were made to make your ass blink or not, but they totally did. How do you return that? "Excuse me, I'd like to exchange these panties for a pair that dosen't make my ass look cock-eyed." ???
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You mean these.....they are worse than thongs, these darn things have a mind of their own!!
Now this is what makes my behind happy
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Hey I have those in BLACK!!
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I HATE those kinds of panties. Thongs are def. better than those. I agree with Sylvia--they have a mind of their own!
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Thongs are awful...Ugh! I always end up getting a crack-wide wedgie. Not just one in the back, if you know what I mean.
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the red pair are the sexiest style of underwear
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Well considering that its the time for those wonderful 4 days for me...
EVERYTHING IS OFF and wrong and just not right.-
Ugh, bloated and crampy, Aunt Flo is visiting me as well.
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Well today I'm on my monthly. -
Me too...I was gonna go play laser tag last night but mother nature had other plans.
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I hate it when that happens! Good Luck with that issue!!
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Ive also been in a bad hair funk for about 2 weeks...its humid outside and my hair doesnt behave the way it should...so ive resorted to a ponytail.
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AH! Me too!! I straightened my curly fro (bad move) and now I'm dealing with tempermental hair issues. I'm totally cutting it all off again...
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My hair is not straight nor curly, it has some waves but it doesn't look very good with just product for curls. Sometime I don't care and I do that anyway, put on some curling product on my wet hair and go out like that, my sister hates it. But, it takes me about 45 min to make it look good and I don't feel like doing that everyday, I rather sleep a little longer, jajajaja.
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My wife got a new dress recently that for some reason makes her boobs look huge. I pointed it out to her the other night as we were leaving for dinner and she immediately went and changed. I thought she looked pretty and it wasn't like they were overwhelmingly huge...I meant huge in a good way. I guess she didn't feel like rocking the boobs that night either. Guess you gotta be feeling it huh?-
uhhhh no, you don't have to be feeling it.
Have you ever commented on her breasts before they "looked huge"? -
Lol...good point Sylvia.
Yea, sometimes you don't neccesarily want your boobs to enter a room before you do... Not always fun to be drooled over. -
Yes many times. Usually with more tact though.
You don't have to be feeling it? Not being a woman, I won't try to state facts here, but from observation it seems that sometimes women feel like "rockin it" and other times feel like covering up and not standing out so much. From what I've seen and heard too you get a lot more attention when you flaunt the goods and that takes more energy; so sometimes being plainer and more discreet is a way to avoid all the added attention. Am I wrong here? have I perceived this incorrectly? -
True, but you told your wife they look bigger than usual.
I was just thinking about how I would feel if my hubby said that to me.
I never comment on the size of his penis, how would a man feel if his wife or girlfriend said wow your penis looks smaller than usual, or wow your penis looks huge in those shorts when you know darn well your penis is the same size no matter what you are wearing. -
i actually would have been glad. a compliment is a compliment and there are clothes that make your gagas more prominent. and i have said those things to D. and he took it in strideat least i hope he did .
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Ladies, this is the most pleasant discussion I've viewed in weeks. Please keep it up (pun intended.)-
I thought this was for women only
Are you having a bad bra day too nothingprofound? -
please NP give us your perspective on the magical world of bras and thongs
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@NP...feel free to share some of your uncomfortable boxer/brief stories....
Unless, yes as Sylvia says, you have a bra story..or should I say a "Bro" story (bra for men as seen on Seinfeld) -
LOL!
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When ever my hubby and I get into it about what we women go through he has the nerve to complain about his testicles and penis.....
ready for this.....he has the nerve to say its impossible to find comfortable underwear that don't restrict his boys.
Apparently it is very hard to walk around with a penis always in the way and it seems men never learned to walk right with his dinky winky doodle doo always hanging in the way.
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LOL!!! I had no idea it was so rough having a penis!!
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@sylvia the best man undies are www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001CJ6SZY/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_1/182-0619160-9624...
They are all my D. is allowed to wear. Just the sight of him in them gives me an erection -
yummy, I like those too!
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the ones with the stripes are best at "exposing" the goods. I wish i could show you how he looks in them (jk)
GB has also the most comfortable fabric and design out there.
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My bra's right cup 'under-wiring' came out today and poked me in my right breast. Then I had to pull the wiring out and deem my bra worthless and unsupportive. Is that a bad bra day?-
OMG...I think you take the award for worst bra day. That happened to me in Jr. High I think I went under the bleachers, cried and cursed my over developed love pillows.
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I agree, she wins the award.
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I lost a strap of a bra when I was in high school. Fortunately it was winter and I had a jacket on but, still, it felt horrible!
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Stella, I'm more than content to be on the listening end of this conversation.
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hahaha ok...but feel free to dive in anytime. I always like hearing the male perspective
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My breasts aren't big. The bra was just old and was tired of supporting me. I need to buy more new underwear, LOL.
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I have to same problem, just when I find the perfect bra that gives my little girls just enough lift, and I get comfortable wearing it the darn thing falls apart me.
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Oh yea...I see what you mean. I had a favorite pair of sheer black panties from Fredericks with a little satin pocket in the back (for condoms?) and one day I took them out of the washer and they pocket was totally annihilated. I wore them anyway, but my (ex) boyfriend was like, "Um...you think it's time to go panty shopping?" I like to hold onto what works. Or what makes my ass look cute.
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Lotus: I'm convinced that before the Fall Adam had no testicles. They are God's ultimate revenge on men.
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LOLZ! I've always wondered whats it like to walk around with those things hanging
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Hmmm...me too. I guess it's like having boobs...only less fun because no one complements you on having really awesome balls. I mean can you imagine a world where men could actually show off their "ball cleavage"?
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@lotus-mental image, hilarious!
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i am always having a bad bra day. Victoria's push up are not meant for bending over because every time i do, the gagas spill
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Be careful of "nothingprofound" he was hanging around hoping this would happen to one of us. -
LOL!!! NP is so naughty!!
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LOL!! Speaking of boob-spillage.... I had on a tie-dyed maxi dress the other day..and I thought I looked pretty hot. Obviously it was a no-bra-allowed situation. So I was sitting down at a cafe and when I stood up my foot stepped on the end of the dress and exposed my giggly-boos to a crowd of people.
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@Lotus why wasn't I lucky enough to see it live??
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LMAO!! I should make a bra that's sole purpose it to get you off all day...like a silicone-lined bra with lubricated suction cups on the inside.
That could be a money maker...I'd totally buy it.
I'm sure I'll flash again..it's something I do often on accident. I always say if I end up famous one day everyone is sure to see my coo-coo on TV... -
lol, i'd buy it too and buy some as Christmas presents.
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LOL @ the perfectly placed pun.
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It's like having two bells constantly ringing in your eyes . After a while, you get insensitized and pretend you don't hear them. But if the underwear's not a perfect fit, it's adjust, adjust, adjust.
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So now it all makes sense.... the constant adjusting I mean
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On the topic of underwear-What do you guys think of Victoria secret?
Personally I dont like their stuff..I think its overpriced and overrated.-
Overpriced for sure...I mean aside from the semi-annual sale...totally not worth it to me. I actually like Fredericks better or I just go Macys or even Ross...I got an awesome CK sports bra from there for $21.
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i love Victoria's secret and i buy from them. yes, they are overpriced but they get the job done for me. i love their sales and plan my shopping around them
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I think their catalogs are very thought-provoking.
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I usually prefer to go department stores when theyre having their underwear sales, Ive found some great stuff at really low prices. I also like La Senza, they have some really cute panties and very comfy bras.
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I like their Body By Victoria Bras, but thats about it.
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the only thing I buy from there is my perfume. I only wear Body by Victoria. -
Lately Le Targè has been my source of bras. Victoria's are very expensive and most of them make me have boob-muffin, no thanks.
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I've been lurking around this thread awhile, so here goes...do you happen to have a picture of this bad bra? -
Ladies, I'm copying all this down so I can use it later during my Fantasy Hour.
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Lol!! Glad this stimulated your motor. I make it my daily goal to try and make every aspect of my life as pornographic as possible...
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Glad to be of some service
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do you ladies always match your bra and panties or at least color coordinate them?
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I usually coordinate my underwear with my outerwear. If I'm wearing green shorts my panties are green. Not so much between bra and panty.
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interesting approach
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I'm a little obsessed with color-coordination, jajajaja. That would be why I have >70 pairs of shoes but, that's for another thread I guess, jajajaa.
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Not unless I'm goin on a date. Otherwise..it's usually good old cotton panties and whatever bra has the right straps for the outfit.
Also I really don't wear underwear all that much. Like ever. Unless I'm at work. -
what's a bra?
seriously, no. some days I'm lucky if my socks match. -
hahaha I color cordinate on dates as well
I wear a lot of light colors so I usually do a beige bra, but I add a little fun with a colorful panty (as long as it doesnt show thru the skirt or pant im wearing. -
Now I'm thinking about how much awesomer life would be if everyone just converted to nudism.
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I pass (on the nudism)
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I like being naked...
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I tend to color coordinate as much as possible...I mean black, beige and white really go with everything. Dates require special undies.
@Lotusb, you are like a brother from another mother...I am so partial to commando. I thought I was the only person who only wore panties to the office. If I'm not at work you rarely catch me with underwear on...so not necessary. -
@faith
the other day i went comando to the office by accident. cause in the morning i first pick out what i going to wear and then i choose panties accordingly. so it was one of those mornings where i tried on several outfits before deciding on the final on...and as i was driving to work i realized oops no undies! -
@stellak,
I've done that before for the same reason. I wasn't completely uncomfortable because I prefer commando but there's something about being in a business attire that says put your panties on.
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So, what are you gals wearing right now?
Just to exemplify my obsession with color coordination.
I'm wearing a navy-blue t-shirt, black bra (I don't have a blue one), blue panties, blue jeans and yes, blue chucks
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Black "brief style" cotton panties, pink satin bra.
I am just the opposite. Although I'm stylish and have even styled others professionally...I make it a rule to never match...coordinate by color catagory not by exact shade...that's my rule. -
Im wearing a beige bra, and bright orange lace panties (the kind that only cover half the cheek)
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I have on beige bra with stripped purple and maroon low cut bikini rise briefs. I detest high rise underpants.
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Thankfully my midgets are tame today...I am at work and work is a place for tame boobs.
My most embarassing boob moment was when they escaped my tankini and began floating on the surface of a lake for all to see. Luckily all included my sister and of course a 9-11yr old boy. To this day I will never forget the embarassed yet amused look on his face.
I know that wasn't really a bra issue but I thought it was appropriate.
I've also had the unfortunate pleasure of being poked by an underwire which had to be removed leaving me lopsided for half the damn day. If having large boobs wasn't enough now I was lopsided...not amusing...not amusing at all.-
oh no. I had that happen once too, luckily no one noticed my floaters but me
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