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By Suzan Norman

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"I will never forget the time I sat down with a class of eight- and nine-year-olds and asked them what their greatest fear was. I didn’t even say money fear—just plain old fear. One of the children stepped right up and flatly told me her biggest fear was that she would end up having to support her parents. I was of course stunned by this and asked why she felt that way. She said she constantly heard her parents arguing at night and her mother telling her father things like, “If you don’t stop buying all those expensive electronic gadgets we are going to end up in the poor house. And then who will support us?” But what truly scared me was when I asked the other kids if anybody else felt like this, nearly every one of them seemed to have a similar story."

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  1. Floormodel
    you know some deep children. Brilliant 5 yr olds and worried 9 yr olds.

    my children's biggest fears right now are keeping their jobs long term and for one son supporting his daughter while her Mother's in school.
    1. elitethinker
      Well worrying about our children is normal behavior. The worry from children are well ... worrisome because it means this society is really in crisis.
  2. nothingprofound
    Absolutely not. My biggest fear as a kid was my mother dying. My daughter's is not being able to have the kind of life she thinks she wants.
    1. elitethinker
      You didn't live at time of crisis like now.
  3. nothingprofound
    When I was born my parents had just passed through the Great Depression. And the first thing my mother taught me, was never to worry about money.
    1. Floormodel
      My Father took a different lesson from the depression. He still worries about money.
    2. nothingprofound
      My mother told me the Depression taught her to be a good neighbor.

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