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Hey girl does the reactions and actions of your partner often made you think that he is cheating on you?

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  1. cuttingedgedjs
    Maybe if I was paranoid.
  2. shadowmoon87
    If I had one...
  3. Diggidee
    DO MEN REALLY CHEAT OR THE AGE OLD QUESITONS, WHY DO MEN "CHEAT"?


    An essay

    I decided to write this essay on the subject of men cheating in defense of men. I’m not taking the side of the men because I am a man. I honestly hope to shed new light on male prowess sexual behavior; a subject that was born the day men and women fell in love. In my writings and in my one on one consultation, I don’t pretend to wear rose colored glasses. I call the way I see it. If you are looking to hear what you want to hear as opposed to what you need to hear, this essay is not for you.... to get the full essay

    www.blogcatalog.com/blog/do-men-really-cheat-or-are-men-being-men

    Anthony
    1. Sway
      ...oops, wrote my comment in the wrong place... lol
    2. crpitt
      That was too long.
  4. ThriftShopRomantic
    Oh yes, he cheats all the time. First it was at solitaire, and Go Fish, but then it got totally out of hand... to card counting and income taxes.

    Oh, wait. I'm not in a relationship. Who WAS that then?!
  5. Agit8r
    This reminds me of a joke......
  6. cookingasshole
    no...

    but I LOVE that reality show "Cheaters"
  7. rfburnhertz
    Partner.

    "Partner" use to be the name used for someones best friend or persons within a group of friends.

    Now it's the person you get naked with be you married or unmarried.
  8. wagerwitch
    I can answer this:

    NOPE - Not this one.

    Not now - not ever...

    He was visiting away at the neighbor's - for only 20 minutes and sent me a text that said - I already miss you.

    This is someone who has been with me for over years.

    I feel the same way.

    Nope - no cheating here.

    Not even the slightest hint, nudge or thought about it.

    Always used to think that about my exes tho...

    Always.

    Like I wasn't good enough or something - so they'd have to cheat - NOT THIS ONE.
  9. Sway
    just a note on men cheating on women... Im not trying to justify this shameful act... Studies have shown that species almost always fall into two categories: 'polygamous' or 'monogamous' i.e. either the males have multiple sex partners all the time or they have one for life. There are some major anatomical and behavior differences in these species. The males of a polygamous species are always larger then the females and weigh more then the females of the species. The females and males usually have very different physical features such as muscular features, types of hair, and facial structures. Polygamous species also usually live in relatively large communities. While monogamous species do not usually live in communities but usually only in pairs if they even live by others at all. Both the male and female of a monogamous species are almost always the same size and weight and usually have very similar body structures. There is actually a lot more of this information but I think by now you can probably tell what I am getting at here... I am just stating the scientific evidence. I myself despise those who cheat on their partners.
  10. wagerwitch
    Oooh Sway - interesting - where did you find this info?

    I would love to read up on that - cause that is TRULY interesting to me.
    1. Sway
      I read about it in a book called "The Third Chimpanzee" by author Jared Diamond A great book, very interesting. When he talks about this in the book he sources a few other books and biologists.
  11. wagerwitch
    I'll have to find that book and put it in Spreeder - that sounds like a VERY interesting theory. Thanks Sway for the info.
    1. Sway
      I actually have a link to where you can buy it on my site: thinkersbebo.com/recommended_books.htm
    2. Sway
      I loved it, in fact Im probably going to read it again this summer when I get some free time.
  12. Sam1982
    Where do people find the time to cheat?
  13. GenuineWoman
    If your man cheats on you, it is a signal that you should develop yourself as a WOMAN!

    In general, if a person has problems, it tells that he(she) needs to develop skills to resolve these problems.
    1. MissSuzie
      "If your man cheats on you, it is a signal that you should develop yourself as a WOMAN!"

      I did just that. I started feeding him arsenic and things turned out quite lovely.
    2. crpitt
      If your man cheats on you, it is a signal that you should develop yourself as a WOMAN!

      erm NO its a sign that HE should stop being an arsehole.
    3. MissSuzie
      Feed him arsenic and he'll cease being an arsehole...I promise.
    4. GenuineWoman
      Are you serious?
    5. MissSuzie
      Are you?
    6. crpitt
      I couldn't be arsed with that, just kick them in the bollocks and leave or make them leave.
    7. GenuineWoman
      But he is an asshole with certain women!!! Don't you realize that?
    8. MissSuzie
      Look, if a man cheats on me it is not MY fault. I will not change who I am to keep a man. That is just utterly ridiculous.

      As for the other shite, I was just kidding (kind of).
    9. GenuineWoman
      You can change absolutely everything!! It is experience of mine and my students!!!
      Start loving yourself! you will see changes right away!
      You can check my words only by trying to do something yourself!
    10. GenuineWoman
      I change myself not for others, only for myself...not to have shit in my life!

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