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Is your wife cheating and blogging about it?
Posted by adamgt • 15 days ago • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: cheating wife, wife cheating, wives blogging
I put a post up on my blog today about the ever growing trend of bored wives cheating on there husbands and then blogging about it, what I want to know is from both female and male points is do you think it is right to preach about your promiscuity? and what would you do if you found your wife doing the same thing?
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My wife's not a blogger. So if she's cheating on me I won't discover it online, unless her lover is a blogger.-
Ah NP, your wife would never cheat on you! You're a treasure! -
I agree daniG -
Do you two really think that being a "treasure" immunizes one against an unfaithful spouse? How much does cheating have to do with the partner being cheated on, versus the personal issues of the cheater? -
My thoughts on cheating are that cheating is a symptom of the problem - but not the problem. Each party has to wear their share of the issue. Often, only the cheater gets tarred and feathered. But, if you scratch the surface, you'll often find 2 sides to the story. I'm not excusing cheating, because I think if one gets to that point, a frank talk is preferable. If the problem cannot be fixed, don't cheat - get divorced and date whoever you want. But at least admit there's a problem first.
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I agree, Dani...I just don't think that doing everything "right" necessarily ensures that someone won't cheat. Sometimes, the problems that cause that kind of behavior are internal.
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if my spouse was cheating and I find out:
1)Get an appartment.
2)Pack my shit.
3)take my kids.
4)Move out.
5)Move on with my life and live it like he never existed. He could see, have his kids anytime he wanted but I wouldn't touch his money for child support- I'd think of his as a sperm/orgasm donor. I'd move on to bigger and better things because I can be bad all by myself
I didn't marry him because I needed a man. I married because I wanted him and if I cannot have all 210 pounds, 6'3 feet of manmeat to myself, I'd rather pass.-
If your spouse was cheating, why not kick him out? -
I couldn't stay in that place and start fresh. I'd need to get rid of everything about him.
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The Internet seems to have become that new "bubble" in which people forget that the world may be watching (just as people do all manner of things in their cars in heavy traffic as if they weren't surrounded by clear glass). Some of those bloggers are undoubtedly hoping to get caught or looking to provoke a conflict, but I suspect that many are simply so caught up in their own little worlds that they don't think about the fact that they're making public announcements.
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Some cheaters want to get caught (at least a part of them does) to alleviate their guilt.
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Well if that were ever to happen to me....I would intern start blogging about him cheating,plus do more bad stuff to him and blog about that to,but I couldn't write bout everything seeing as how what you say or write can be held against u in a court of law
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Absolutely not! But then, I am madly in love with my husband. When you are married to the best, there's no reason to look further. -
Melinda, do you really believe that it's dissatisfaction with one's spouse that leads to cheating? -
I think it is very often due to dissatisfaction with the *relationship.* I don't believe people in a happy relationship cheat on each other. If they cheat, then there's something not working in the relationship.
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If roles were reversed and I found out my husband was blogging about cheating, I think it would be fair to say that he probably has other habits online other than blogging, which I bet would be the same for this said woman who preaches online about her promiscuity. Ie: dating sites, and so on. Just a thought.
What would I do? Wait until he's gone to work, open up a new back account, transfer all saved funds into my new bank account, change the locks, and have all his shit packed upon return. That's just me though, lol -
I don't think bragging about deceiving someone else is very palatable. -
that would be an awesome blog to read-
seriously...where are these sites?
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I don't have a wife:-), but if I had one and she did that, I would feel very angry and humiliated! -
Cheating means one thing: disrespect. If she then felt the need to advertise it to the world by blogging, then from my perspective that only compounds the disrespect.
If I found out my partner cared so little for me she'd do that, then she's not my partner. She's history.-
Well put.
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Indeed. Hubby could then take his laptop and move it to someplace where he could blog about getting booted out so fast his head spun. Anyone who would be that cruel clearly has no interest in having a happy and healthy relationship.
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If someone is cheating and blogging about it, chances are they are in desperate need of attention.
If I caught my husband cheating and blogging, I'd tie his ass up, dig a deep hole in my backyard, and slowly (over several days) cover him with soil until he was buried.-
Why would you do such a thing? Get him to dig his own hole.
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He wouldn't be able to...grilled arms are cheap dog food. Times are tough these days.
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You sound sweet.. may he never cheat on you -
I am sweet, just often misunderstood.
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So am i, sometimes
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These sound like old school Penthouse Forums, just online. Care to share some of them since they are so numerous?-
there is a list of sites on my blog blokebuddy.com if u wanna look at some of them, the post is in humour and titled is your wife cheating and blogging about it.
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I AM promiscuous and I DO blog about it - I'm also single and absolutely free to do as I choose.
I don't cheat on a partner - it's not in my nature, so i wouldn't blog about anything like that if I were actually committed to someone. -
they are probably cheating cuz they got a good reason,,,
the blogging is just a public confession so they can feel better about them self when they let it all out there...
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