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Just Five Minutes To Deal With Divorce
Posted by greenindia • 10/15/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: a five minutes deal, divorce
A pepsy (300ml only), (2) A Pizza, Chick n spicy (Chicken hot n spicy green caps aake a ride ind mush)
99.99% you will not go for divorce.
Take this as my guarantee.
Further read for the full prescription:
talentsglobal.org/2009/10/15/just-give-me-five-minutes-before-you-break/
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I think it'll take more than that, but I'm no expert.-
Just see the full prescription
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I agree with you, and I MIGHT be considered an expert. I've done roughly a couple of hundred divorces. -
I am on the other end. You will forget divorce if u apply this.
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So you are saying if I grab a pepsi, a pizza, and some chicken, I will forget that I hate my husband?
Wow.-
Yes, and follow some simple steps in the article. Then you wont think about divorce.
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Will I still be thinking about murder too or does your recipe take care of all that?
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Greenindia, I really don't understand what you're saying at all. How will a drive in the country and sharing some food solve all the problems leading a couple toward divorce?
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Hm. I'm very skeptical. And I couldn't help but notice that you said, "Give me five minutes" and almost your next words were "take an hour..."
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Take my word. Follow some simple steps in the article. Then there wont be any question of divorce.
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"Sponsored by Pepsico and Pizza Hut-- feed your marriage!"-
Hahaha!
That made my day!
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Do you think Pepsi will want their money back based on the misspelling?
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Hard to say. Depends on whether it was pay-per-click or not.
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Not sponsering pepsico. But its an ingrediant which gave me 100% result.
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I really was just teasing you a little, GreenIndia.
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I enjoyed ur teasing. But its a practical thing, where our philosophy fails, just doing this found tremendous result.
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Honestly, Greenindia, this is very insulting. I've worked with many, many people who worked very hard to save their marriages--who certainly invested more than five minutes and a drive in the country--and were not able to overcome the problems that had led them to that place. To suggest that there is a quick and easy fix available to everyone is not only unrealistic, it's very insensitive to those people who have struggled to save their marriages and failed...or succeeded after real work.
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You are right. But Just take a couple honestly. Do it with full faith. U will find the amazing result. All of it has start when our learning and philosophy fail. Only thing we need is a straight and unprejudiced approach. I am not insulting ur feeling, but try to say pacticing this is not a bad thing.
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Would that it did work. After 14 years in divorce practice and 20 in domestic violence, I can honestly say it's unlikely.
And I agree that these issues shouldn't be treated so cavalierly. -
@LarissaEsq all it is depending on how much we like to maintain. A predetermined approach will do most often no good. There are problems in a married life. What I mean to say is that, If both the partners carefully learn that part the points where friction is generated, If they are ready to show a little bit of patience, it is very easy to build a synchronization. Second thing is a physical understanding. Ofcourse, Ladies are likely to have more physical consequences, pain, discontentment, anxiety, other kind of problems when her mail partner become more demanding, most often untimely. If u let grow this, sure you can't expect another end but divorce. But if u realize these are only medically rectifiable small things and both the partners keep an open discussion with each other and afterwords engage to find a consultant to solve the problem, over a small period of time it can be rectified. But usually what's going on here is most unfortunate that each of them take on their egoes, drastically pulling themselves far away from their real problems, and all ends in split. This point is very crucial and a professional guidance is required here.
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The quick and easy fix for a divorce is to get one.-
u r so right. I wish I had had the courage and common sense not to believe him when he promised to change his controlling ways if i came back, when i left... -
I just wont like the word compromise. It has got no standard meaning. I would like to prefer the word understanding. It has all the beauty to make life enjoy.
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The quick and easy fix for a divorce is to never get married in the first place.
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I made a homemade pizza and bought coca cola last Friday night .. then the b/f and I argued most of the day on Saturday... Had I known that if I had just gotten pepsi and pizza hut that all this could have been avoided I would have just ordered in and saved myself the trouble ... thanks for the tip Thrift! -
There are certain specifics. It means a small prescription. Prescribed for certain specific conditions. If u r within that, undoubtedly it will set u alright.
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ROFL FUNNY!
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I divorced 3 husbands because they couldn't 'cook' toast.
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All that cooking toast is husbanding...??? Funny...!!!
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Where is that guy you have for proofing your posts? Gone to his native for diwali?
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I thoroughly enjoyed and rejoiced in getting divorced - people are so sensitive about it. I have friends who WISH their parents would have gotten divorced instead of "sticking with it for the kids' sake." Guess what - your kids know when you're miserable together and they're much happier when there's peace around them.
I see no reason to stay in a miserable situation.-
Anyone who claims to be staying together for the kids and remains "miserable" and without peace is doing it wrong. If two decent people are seriously committed to making a stable home for their children, no one has to be miserable. They can simply commit to treating each other decently, supporting each other, and focusing on their common goals so that no one has to be miserable. Anyone who isn't willing to do that is lying if he/she says s/he's staying "for the kids".
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General sweeping statement accusing people of lying etc.. hear, hear, this is coming from MadameX CAW!
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Yes, Tsu, I think a person whose actions directly and clearly contradict his actions is lying. That's pretty much definitional; I'm not at all clear on how it's "sweeping".
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Anyone who claims to be staying together for the kids and remains "miserable" and without peace is doing it wrong
I'll say with equal sense of being right: Anyone who orders pizza is doing it wrong -
"I thoroughly enjoyed and rejoiced in getting divorced." May I look it from the other angle - Little enjoyed marriage - may be the reason behind this outpour. Its really interesting our psychological transformations and patterns. What is good and what is bad is not the question. I think these are lot of relativity. But I must understand If my face is turned towords you, there are people behind me, though they are not in direct contact with me, its a reality they exists.
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so two people who no longer have positive emotions for each other, are no longer sexually attractive to each other and don't want to be together, should still stay together for the sake of the kids to maintain a "stable home" ?
I can't agree with children being raised in an environment where there are no acts or demonstrations of love - a kiss, a hug, a caress, loving gestures - between the parents. I think the kids just grow up with a warped sense of a what a healthy loving relationship is... -
categorized under "points and counterpoints" - nothing life-changing has yet been uttered!
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As a divorce lawyer, I have seen a lot of different reasons for divorce.-
I am interested, if u digg deep into most cases, would u feel most of them divorce without any adequate and concrete reason?
I ask u not as a lawyer - that is ur profession where u have to do business and I respect it - but out of curiosty I think exploring ur vast experience, u may be able spell out something regarding the subject and I wish to be your listener -
I am also a former divorce attorney, and I would say that in my experience the single biggest reason for divorce is that people got married too lightly, without realistic expectations.
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@MadamX
Your observation is absoluteltly correct. Before getting married, people must have the knowledge about the realistic patterns of married life. -
Greenindia, In my experience, most people have good reasons for divorce.
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Hmmm -
Anyone here getting a divorce? Give it a go, just out of curiosity. But then again, I believe that if I was getting a divorce and told my husband to go and have a drive with me in the country side, with this pizza and pepsi and spiced chicken, he would tell me that I was a crazy bitch and should just fuck out of his life.
So, let's just assume for an argument's sake that this actually works; how do you convince your spouse who is not exactly excited about the thought of communicating with you any longer to go for a drive with a pizza, chicken and Pepsi in order to save a marriage?-
We don't simply pracice certain things framing it as out of logic. But thinking and doing is different. Anybody can argue anything unending. Anybody can say this won't do good. Just one month before my wife was severely ill. She got a cerebral bleeding. Every moment was critical. The physician, the head of nuero surgary dept, was also upset instead of his continous effort. No brain control over the organs. You could not make her stand or sit or doing things. Everything was out of controll. This time I had to leave all the logics and arguments of medical science. I just intensly longed and and prayed for some betterment. It was a heart breaking moment. I have no words to describe what I felt at that moment. It was an evening arround 7 pm. I spent there exact one hour. When I left there I was sure she would be on her feet the day after. No doubt, I could see her walking in her own the next day. People can describe this in any manner. That is their whims and fancies. I wont care. For me her recovering was the only matter. I got it. I also donot find words any words to describe this. And I am not an ardent believer also. Still the question remains. Perhaps I wouldnot not find a logical answer for it.
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I am so surprized people are so open minded to consider the most wacko ideas
I ought to improve myself here for sure!-
Feel really? Then u do the sooner. Thats better.
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So often i have came across to these things..but never heard about such weird thing...a pepsi and a pizza can give ur relationship a successful happy ending...uhhh...i hvn't married yet..but still if did then will try for no divorce so that wont get into such ideas...u r kidding..-
I've only been married 7 months and I can tell you that it's a lot more complicated than that already.
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hmmm...must be rlly complicated...
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Is it possible to get divorced at a drive-in counter. I dont think I want to leave my car when getting divorced. Thats how I got married. And at the same time you can order a Pepsi, a burger and celebrate.-
Hurray........!!!
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Ok, you are invited to the party on my backseat. Do you drink Pepsi light?
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haha..nice one Mr.Poo -
Thanx Sorcerer, you are inviteted too. Pepsi Light or a Coke?
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This is my personal philosophy on divorce: There should be no divorce. Divorce is ugly and causes many years of pain. Instead, whoever is the bigger a$$hole, the philanderer, the driving force behind the marital discontent, should simply have to die. No more custody battles nor fighting over the division of marital assets, just a quick, clean break.-
I now feel it will be equally good to discuss what marriage is meant for.
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@greeindia but what about divorce????? r u married greenindia????
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@alvasim To ur curiosity, yes I'm married. But no divorce, sure to live together. I promise.
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