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Ladies If You Were A Guy

Posted by Diggidee • 8/29/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: commitment, love, marriage, MEN, relationships, sex, women

I am wondering - ladies if you were a guy what kind of guy would you be when it comes to dating? A one woman man, player, lover, married etc etc.

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8/29/08

aningeniousname

They'd all be gay guys except the lesbians who would be straight guys, female to male transsexuals would be......no hang on give me a minute I can finish this........no.

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1. 8/29/08
  
  Shiley
  
  Lol! I was just thinking that!
2. 1/15/09
  
  searchingwithin
  
  I think you have something here. I love men way too much and admire their physical makeup way to much, to move on over to the other side. Hmmm.
  
  But if I was born a man, I wouldn't feel that way, more than likely, so I would probably be the nice guy, but not a push over. Kick your ass if need be, but only if need be. Say what I think, and mostly, mean what I say. Even though we all say things we don't mean from time to time. Compassionate, but not a push-over.
  
  A big heart, with a fighting spirit.
8/29/08

JaydenVasara

interesting question... i'd probably have done the player thing during college but hopefully would have snapped out of it shortly after.

i dated too many of those 30+ yr old party-hard-bachelors...wouldn't want to end up like that if u were a guy

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8/29/08

calais50

i don't think my gender would influence my approach to dating, beyond the obvious difference that I would be dating a different gender.

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1. 8/29/08
  
  SweetViolet
  
  yup...same here.
  
  I first go for people who are beautiful on the inside...and intelligent.
2. 9/10/08
  
  actionneeded
  
  or would you be dating a different gender?
  
  luculent
8/29/08

monhershaft

i'd have game! i'd know how to talk to a woman and get her interested. i'd probably be with an independent strong successful confident woman who was loyal and faithful but also had a life outside of us.

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8/29/08

saraho

I agree with SweetViolet, and add, have a sense of humor.

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8/29/08

jackpayne

You need quite a sense of humor even to contemplate such a way-out thought.

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8/30/08

aleare

What a question! Well if I were a man, I'd probably be a cheerful and funny guy, but a little superficial

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8/30/08

Theresa111

It would depend on my mood.

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8/31/08

EelKat

I'd be like Lord Sesshomaru... avoid women, avoid sex, avoid every thing and every one, and get very mad whenever anyone tried to break through my barrier of avoidance. Actually... I already do that now, so I'd be exactly as I am already, only I'd be a man and not a woman.

Actually, I CosPlay men, already, and will be CosPlaying Sessh next, so, hey, I'm one step there already!

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9/01/08

TragicComedy

Suppose it would just depend. I'd play the field but I wouldn't be afraid to settle down with just one girl if she was worth it either.

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9/01/08

dheeruyadav

then wat about guys? they would be ladies...?

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9/01/08

ModelElaine

I'd be a player. No real difference from being a woman

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9/01/08

curlydesigh

I would be the same way I am as a woman, a player until I found the right one. Still be honest though!

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9/10/08

Ranu

Definitely a player until married.

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9/10/08

terrastone

A one woman man, not in a rush to get to the altar. (One at a time....)

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9/10/08

CrystalRaven

a celibate monk

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1. 1/14/09
  
  acousticguitarist
  
  not many of them around
9/10/08

melindaville

I would be a one woman man--after I was a playboy for a few years

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9/16/08

foxyzombie

I would be that good-looking varsity jack-a$$. I think the MAN above was smart enough he made me into a woman. =p

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9/16/08

faithsju243

Well since my friends say I date like a man now I guess there's really no difference to my approach just looking for a different catch in a matter of speaking.

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9/16/08

Anok

I'd be the same as I am now.

Then again, I do seem to have more testosterone than the average female....

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1. 9/16/08
  
  voodooKobra
  
  You'd wield an entire fallen tree in battle if you were any more aggressive.
2. 9/16/08
  
  Anok
  
  You know me too well
3. 1/14/09
  
  acousticguitarist
  
  it's the ancestors
9/16/08

annaswan

If I were a guy... what in the world would I do with all these shoes???

Seriously though, if I were a guy, I'd like to think I'd be a lot like my Dad (begin hero worship). He's rugged on the outside and honest and sincere on the inside. A real stand up type of guy. (end hero worship).

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9/16/08

DrowseyMonkey

Why do I have to be a guy? I don't wanna be a guy. Maybe I'd be the same as a guy as I am as a woman ... only hairier or something.

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9/16/08

Profitimo

i think it doesnt really matter, because there are also girls who are such players, and vice versa. if i were a guy, i would have gone through the same phase as i went through being a woman.

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10/22/08

Bayho

personally i will never understand why people play each other.. so dumb.. why cant you just pick one.. why do you have to all..??
anyways .. im bored at work. and i was gonna add on to that but i forgot because the phone rang and i had to pick it up.

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11/17/08

VideoProductionTip

I think the answer would depend on how horny I was.

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11/18/08

dcdatingdiva

I'd be the same as I am now, a serial dater with a wild streak, looking for that "special" someone, but in the meantime dating everyone who comes before the "special" one appears

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12/29/08

vijayanths

seems like this is for women only, so I withdraw.

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12/29/08

hatingtherain

I wouldn't even want to imagine what it would be like to be a guy.

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12/29/08

dekadaye

married, dating is exhausting. i want one person to love

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12/29/08

TZY

I'd be a.. player ;p

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12/29/08

Theresa111

Lots of women before settling down as a reformed rogue.

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1/14/09

letters2soulmate

I would be the one who reaffirmed women's belief in real love and romance.

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1. 1/14/09
  
  sensico
  
  you are soooo dreamy
1/14/09

blurgirl

if i am a guy I might stick to one girl and hopefully she will be faithful to me forever. it's quite tiring to be a player and I might feel that it's a waste of time and money involved.

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1/15/09

KittyKat53

I'd be a good lover and learn how to keep her happy

sexforblondes.blogspot.com

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1/15/09

britt04aggie

sometimes i wish i was a guy just to see what the hell yall are really thinking!
momsjustwannahavefun.blogspot.com

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1/15/09

ArsenicCookies

I would be a player. Gotta test that double standard theory

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1/15/09

acousticguitarist

Buddy, if the ladies were guys they'd have testicles and other bits and they would be ladies and then they wouldn't answer your question because they were guys.

Panda logic

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1/15/09

Sebastyne

Oh I have definite plans of being reborn as a very handsome long haired bar tender with a way with the ladies and high standards. That is to say I would be a player until I found that special someone.

Now, apart from the bar tender bit, I think I was that in reverse - but I want to be even better at it as a guy. Anyway, I would like to try the male player thing for one life.

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1/15/09

LynneaUrania

When I WAS a guy, I dated only one at a time and typically didn't move on till months after that relationship fizzled. When I gave up being a guy, everything changed.

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