User Comments

1. 

   9/13/08

   Onchong

   Not to be so trusting!

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   1. 

      9/13/08

      ernestlobo

      correct... lol
2. 

   9/13/08

   jackpayne

   Only perfect vision is hindsight.

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3. 

   9/13/08

   harleyblues

   ohhh my!
   hb~

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4. 

   9/13/08

   ArsenicCookies

   don't spoil men

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      2/23/09

      missaup

      I agree with you....take care of your man and spoil him though (only when deserving) but never put d*&k on a pedestal....lol
5. 

   9/13/08

   csiunatc

   When you suspect something is up. It usually is.

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6. 

   9/13/08

   Anniepooh

   Where to start?

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7. 

   9/13/08

   DrowseyMonkey

   Be yourself. Let them be themselves.
   
   Don't change for someone and don't try and change someone.

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      9/13/08

      LGramlich

      Totally! If you can't accept someone as they are, don't get involved with them.
8. 

   9/13/08

   LGramlich

   1. Be solidly secure in yourself before getting involved with someone else.
   2. Have clearly defined boundaries & guard them. Anyone who's unwilling to respect those boundaries isn't worth the time or energy.
   3. Do for another because you want to, not because you expect something in return.
   4. Communicate honestly (& don't call names, dredge up the past, etc.)
   5. Be true to yourself. Don't let a relationship get in the way of your personal happiness. If you're off of that path, it's time to reasses (& possibly leave,) the relationship.
   
   That's probably enough for now...

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   1. 

      9/13/08

      ArsenicCookies

      very good tips
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      9/13/08

      LGramlich

      Escapethefate; Thank you. I learned them (& many others,) the hard way.
   3. 

      9/13/08

      Anniepooh

      You're so smart. Where were you 20 years ago???
9. 

   9/13/08

   jackpayne

   The chief cause of problems is solutions.

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10. 

    9/13/08

    Jeunelle

    Here's what I learned.
    
    Never date anyone that lives in the same Town, State, County, Country, Continent, Planet,
    Solar System or Universe as you.
    
    This way when you break up, you won't have to see their ugly face again or have to ask yourself
    "what the hell was I thinking".

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11. 

    2/23/09

    angelshair

    Try to keep your part of mystery...

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12. 

    4/23/09

    archiegottlieb

    push them away just enough to keep them.

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13. 

    4/23/09

    fruitcake

    past - It was fun while it lasted.
    
    present - Damn this is hard work!

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14. 

    4/23/09

    itSAMEERacle

    when you start to lose all of your friends of the opposite sex out of fear that youll make the other upset and depressed, just stop. After a year with a girl who planned our babies names and marriage i seem to have made almost no new friends who are girls and its my first year of college. But now im getting back on track after we ended a while back

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15. 

    4/24/09

    ArsenicCookies

    I have learned that my ideals are not shared by any 88% of the male population and therefore have decided that relationships are distractions on the path to success and should best be avoided... Not to say that I don't have any form of relationship, the ones I have are just unconventional and often frowned upon.

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       4/24/09

       TonyB

       Do you mean that 88% of guys are convention and the other 12% have some other form of relationship?