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   9/02/08

   bladeaxe4

   

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      9/02/08

      ModelElaine

      What are you thinking?
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   9/02/08

   bladeaxe4

   you had so much of it ! still justifying whether to have it or not ???? at the very precise moments, everybody falls for it ! so cautions, justifications or words of advise dont work at those moments ! an ice cold water would do more than that !!!

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   9/02/08

   Onchong

   If we see sex as solely a physical or carnal act, then we are missing out on its grander meaning and godly purposes. Sex was created and ordained by God as a blessed gift to husband and wife.

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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      blessed gift ?? i dont know whether itz a blessed gift or not, but somehow it had me laugh !
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      9/02/08

      alexmcone

      Just husband and wife ? What about two people who are in love with each other. Isnt sex for them too ?
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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      noh ! just kidding alexcone !
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      9/02/08

      alexmcone

      Question wasnt at you ... was at Onchong.
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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      i know ! that's why i wasnt being serious !!!!
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      12/23/08

      Jeunelle

      @Onchong...I understand what you are saying and I agree.
      The unworthy are not to be let into the temple or else they will defile it.
      Those that do not understand what we are saying aren't worth our time.
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   9/02/08

   gmoney

   what is sex?

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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      art for few, passion for average and addiction for many !
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      9/02/08

      alexmcone

      You a girl gmoney ?
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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      gmoney is a he and not a she ! hehe jk
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   9/02/08

   dfunkt

   one of my biggest reasons for waiting to sleep with a guy is a practical one...what about diseases? im sort of a hypochondriac that way. id rather have a good enough thing going with a guy where i can talk to him about his sexual history and getting tested without him getting up and leaving and right away. plus fooling around with someone you dont know that well causes a lot of performance anxiety dont you think?

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      9/02/08

      bladeaxe4

      maybe a lot of activity guys are into these days, well here everything is love entangled and deepened ! nothing sorta deal or health check-up but itz gud for point taken up !
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      9/02/08

      ModelElaine

      At 17 yes, performance anxiety may well be present. But it doesn't happen much after say 20
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      9/07/08

      dfunkt

      i mean im 20 and the first time with a new person is always a bit awkward. it takes time to find your "groove", so to speak. sex is all about learning to understand your partner and his body. otherwise, sex would be exactly the same with each person. that wouldnt be much fun, would it?
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   9/02/08

   Onchong

   What's the big laugh, bladeaxe4? If you don't believe that sex is a blessed gift from God, then don't! Are you happily married?

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      9/02/08

      RTBjr73

      Well, I am happily married...and offended that you would make such closed minded, irresponsible comment. My wife and I hit the backseat of her car on the first date...been doing it ever since (7 years) and don't believe in your deity.
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   9/02/08

   fated82

   I need to start a 'sex' blog in my portfolio too...Sound like a very good niche to write about. Heehee

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   9/02/08

   hellboi

   ahem...yes, i hope you mentioned me in that post of yours:)

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   9/02/08

   thefly

   
   
   
   
   buzz buzz

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      9/03/08

      IbneAdam

      Like it thefly.
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      9/03/08

      dosox

      Thumbs up
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      9/03/08

      beinki

      that is to funny
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    9/03/08

    dosox

    Sex is great and relaxing plus interesting.

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       9/03/08

       mekap04

       Sex can also kill you. Remember to be safe. I just had to add that.
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    9/03/08

    dosox

    @mekap04
    Oh! I missed out the most important thing. thanx

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    9/03/08

    angiasaa

    The concept of marriage was created by man. This was approximately 4000 years _after_ the first signs of religion on the planet. Monogamy came about much later after marriage!
    
    I don't see how anyone could say that God created sex as a gift from a Husband to a Wife. If that was the case, we'd have marriages from time of the caveman and even before. And why are only Humans doomed to marriage? we're not any more special than a beast. We _are_ beasts!
    
    Sex should be a matter of judgment and mutual consent. Beyond that, each party is entitled to his or her own drives and inclinations. If they have a particular interest, that's perfectly fine as long as all participants are well aware of what it is that they're doing and they're completely willing.
    
    So be it sex on the first date, sex with a complete stranger, or sex with someone you've known all your life.. At the end, don't make a compromise _for_ sex. Unless of course, that's what you _really_ want.
    
    We're all entitled to our thoughts. If you think something is the right thing to do.. Do it! Just don't force yourself on someone who does not want it is all. :o)

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    9/07/08

    othellobloke

    Couldn't sex be a gift from a wife to a husband instead of from a husband to a wife?
    
    No offence intended Onchong, but you spouted the biggest load of bolox I've ever heard.
    
    Sex is an act to get off that is for anyone who has a willing, legal partner - marriage and religion got nothing to do with getting it up and on.

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    9/08/08

    Sebastyne

    I've never had problems with sex on the first date. The only time I have had problems with sex is when I WAITED! The first boyfriend I had, as in when I was a virgin, I insisted on waiting because I had some weird belief in my head that you should date for 3 months before having sex... Why, I'm not sure, that was somehow to prove that the guy was interested in me. What I failed to notice was that I wasn't that into him at all! So, after dating him for 3 months, I was in too deep to get out, and ended up dating him for 2 years, out of which time I tried to leave him for 6 months.
    
    The second time I waited was a more complex issue, there were friends involved and other possible broken hearts and what not, so I couldn't have sex with a guy I really fancied. It took us 5 years to get into a situation that it was okay everyone concerned, and it was great... Then I realised all the fuss about him had only been sexual, and I got completely over him after the second night together.
    
    So if you ask me, bring it on. And if a guy won't date me afterwards, I'm glad to find out what a small minded idiot he was so soon in the game, rather than find that out when we have a kids and he's teaching his idiotic ideas to them!
    
    (As to your survey Elaine - my relationship with my husband started as a first date sex thingy, and he was an online find.)

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    12/23/08

    KittyKat53

    Most young men and women have no idea what to expect because they have never been taught or given information. It takes awhile to get to know someone mentally and physically. Does having sex with someone mean that you will have just a sexual relationship or a one night stand? So while it may have been better for you to wait to have sex with him, the fact that you slept together on the first date certainly doesn't mean the relationship is doomed. Who knows? This guy could turn out to be your Mr. Right
    
    sexforblondes.blogspot.com/

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