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Long Distance Relationships and Relocating

Posted by QueensOnly • 12/10/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: compromise, divorce, love, man, marriage, pay, relationships, relocating, time, woman

How soon is too soon to relocate for love?

Also, if two people are trying to develop a serious relationship and they live far apart... Who should have to do the relocating, the Man, the Woman, or Does it not matter?

Last but not least, if one person insists that the other person relocate to be closer to them... Who should pay for the relocating, or should that not even be a factor?

Would you relocate if you and someone you're involved with were not yet at the level of saying, "I Love You"?

User Comments

12/10/08

SimplyForties

I have to say that if you are in a strong relationship where you are partners working towards common goals you would work these issues out between yourselves. You would talk it over and make decisions based on what is best for both of you. It should not be a question of who does what and who's going to pay for it. Your third question means it's way too soon!

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  QueensOnly
  
  I agree... It has got to be way too soon!
12/10/08

Profitimo

Tough questions, as of the moment i dont have the answers, but all I know for sure is that long distance relationship is very very hectic. And more often than not, it fails.:-(

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12/10/08

riverstyxxx

Nope. Been there, done that. Never again. I don't really date people I meet online anymore, much less move to another side of the country...much less Portland Oregon, where I wasted 5 years of my life for some skank who cheated on me left and right and turned into a single mother with someone else's kid and she can't get a new boyfriend because she's too stupid.

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12/10/08

QueensOnly

I hear you...

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10/26/09

clickeap

that's very hard..
Now i'm running on Long distance relationship, and it almost kill me..
need some suggest.. T-T

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