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My Boyfriend's Back....
Posted by lotusb • 11 days ago • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
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Those of you who know me (as a bloggy-friend) or follow my blog know about D, my ex whom I followed to Houston in order to be with, but whom I ended up splitting up with. 
Well I want to break this down in the simplist of ways. This month there will be
D- the ex whom I am now friend's with and love with a lot of my heart.
I- the ex I've known for about 7 years who is moving to Houston next week.
K- the ex who I never actually committed to, but dated off and on over the last decade who is coming to visit NEXT week as well.
M- the writer friend who lives here, wants to bone me really bad but settles for friendship.
T- the guy from work whom I boned occasionally until his ex girlfriend gave birth to their illegitamate child two weeks ago....who still wants to bone.
O- the guy I've actually been dating here in Houston who is awesome, but whom I decided to tell the infamous words to, "I wanna see other people"
With all these men flying around...a girl is starting to feel a little overwhelmed. Any advice? I'll take any advice at all....
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holy shit...what about me now??? lol.. -
Sounds like you might need to bury the "bones" and move to another state and find some fresh bones. -
sounds similar..
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#1 this is why we get along so well =) juggle baby, juggle!!
#2 ok - been there done that w/ the POA who's girlfriend has the illegit kid - i'd stay out of that one b/c my experience has been it's just more drama down the road w/ the baby's mama....
commit to none of them babes - you're well within your rights to date them all, do them all, and make a decision down the road. HOWEVER - make sure any decision you make is based on the HERE and NOW, NOT the PAST.-
Yea I was going to let the baby daddy go...he has enough on his plate. But I do kinf of feel like I'm swiming naked through a pool of men... (Que 'Its Raining Men')
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i am in a serious slut phase right now and i love it - i love having multiple choice any night of the week. i think it's very empowering for us and great for our ego's LOL
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I have a private question....Please refer to your blackberry in about 5-8 seconds...
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okey dokey chickadee =)
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u r the one who's decision gonna matter...the best u decide, more u will be happy...
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Maybe you just need to drop all the old men and make room for some new ones. Ur...I mean...one. Just one. If you put all your eggs in one basket you are more likely to be taken more seriously when it comes to dating.
Mike-
I don't know that she's talking about dating so much as juggling... lotus has my notes now from our BB conversation LOL so juggle away girl - I've been there - ok, I'm always there, the number is just always changing! LOL
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Isn't juggling the "Multi-tasking" version of dating?
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NVMND
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I don't consider this to be dating, SJ's right...it's more like juglging. And actually I always thought putting all ur eggs in one basket was frowned upon? (me frowning upon)
And yes THANKS Sj for that convo...!! Thanks to you, once I go to Target, I'll be more than prepared!! HEE HEE...
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You can always just come to kansas
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Become a nun.-
LOL...I don't think I've recieved the "call" on that one yet...
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You need to ditch all the former flames. There's a reason why they are not current flames.
Out of that lot - M (the writer dude settling for friendship) sounds the best of the bunch. Give him a try - not ONLY sexually either.-
R u sure ur not HIM...disguising as a random commentor on BC?....
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LOL or look at it this way Lotus babe - it's new booty you haven't tried yet!
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Hahahaha...
Now that you mention it, that totally does look like it came from him.
But nope nope... I've just been in that situation where I've wanted to shag a bird, and had to settle for friendship - which really sucks because I'm a much nicer guy than the Philistines she's been with. -
that always sucks when a girl (or a guy) plays the "let's just be friends" card because it screws with your heart and keeps you convenient for them...
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@lotus - u searching for a date here or u trying to solve ur problem???
i must say u should try to remember(as the yrs u have mentioned are too long) whom u were happy with the most..who did loved u most..cares for ya..
but i wonder if they loves u, then how come they were away from u for so so years...you got to be rite on money..on target.. -
"It's raining men"
I wish I had that problem! jajajaja
As SJ said, I would avoid the recent parent. The rest, well, that is why cell phones have calendars/agendas right?-
LOL!! Very true!
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I agree with most of the writers...never look back. They are exes for a reason. Why date so many people? I'd suggest hanging out with friends and doing some writing until you better know yourself and what you really want. Less of a mess and much more hygenic.-
I like your new avatar, pinkmonkeychatter. Very becoming.
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Thank you,dear.
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thank god u just listed 6 of ur exes...btw can u list all of ur exes???
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U can leave them all for me. I have a descent body, I am fairly good at having sex and I have a crush on you. -
Well texas is taken..head north -
Advice? Stop....boning....your....exes!!
In fact, remove all traces of ex material from your life. Why waste your time on men you've already discarded?
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