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Hi everyone, I am Lolita and I am new to BC. I started blogging 3 days ago and I think I'm addicted, lol!
my blog can be found at www.sexingrock.blogspot.com
please feel free to take a look (suggestions are welcome) also leave me a link to your favorite post, I would love to stop by:D

Lolita

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  1. MissSuzie
    Hi Lolita and welcome to BC!
    1. LolitaV
      thanks for the welcome. I LOVE your latest post!!!
      and i think you are damned right. Anyone who questions a mother's ability to parent without having physically been present while she interacted with her children needs more than boots shoved up their asses. Be strong!
    2. MissSuzie
      Thanks! And I think you putting your sex life out there like that is well...different.
    3. LolitaV
      i prefer gutsy.
  2. Stillthinking
    Wow, dirty.

    Need some brain bleach.
  3. siralmo
    yeah.... no thanks, i have no respect for a blogger who goes by an screen name that includes lolita
    1. siralmo
      well in that case i would take that your parents and get it changed

      with a blog that reads sexingrock

      your not off to a moral start

      this is where i draw my reference en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lolita (read the first paragraph)
    2. LolitaV
      FYI i LOVE my name because it doesn't define me. i could have been named pig for all i care, i'd still be me. as far as your moral concerns, please keep them to yourself. since i'm not here to please you. I write for myself and anyone who likes to read, is welcome to do so. prudes can move right along...
    3. siralmo
      well if you are fine to be associated with underaged sex, then fine i'm not stopping you

      after all it doesn't define you, because you are unique, completely unlike anyone else
    4. LolitaV
      i guess the only one associating me is you. from 4 senteces, you've judged, sentenced and locked me up. understand that where i come from, Lolita (sorrows)is a common name, that i like and could careless what you think of it. so please stop the grief!
    5. siralmo
      that is ok... i just left my reasoning there for your thought

      don't take it personally its not an attack on you... its an issue that i have with the screen name and its relationship to your blog
    6. Stillthinking
      Not everyone reads Nabakov. In Hispanic cultures, Lolita simply means "Little Lola".

      It was a name before it was a cultural symbol for pedophilia.
    7. LolitaV
      lol, don't take it personnaly, well i have. because someone wrote a book i am to blame. you have an issue with my name, so shall i change it to please you? and fyi, my blog is about my monogamous, marital sex and love life. is it illegal? you don't like it, fine don't look. but please don't give me virtual grief! now, adios!
  4. LolitaV
    Stillthinking,
    I love your blog's artistic feel. your last post really touched me because you had the guts to get up and do what most (myself included) put off and never get around to or are just afraid to. Bravo!
    1. Stillthinking
      Wow, thanks for the compliment! I appreciate it. I have been putting off travel for 10 years, it was about time I took matters into my own hands.
    2. LolitaV
      I've always wanted to visit Japan, India and Morocco. but I'm still at the someday stage.
  5. legbamel
    Have you met the CollegeWarrior? Wait, on second thought you may not want to do that. Welcome to BC.
    1. MissSuzie
      Hahaha! I heart you!
    2. LolitaV
      thanks for the welcome. who is this collegewarrior?
      Your (shoes and) blog is way cool, plus blue is my favorite color!!
    3. Stillthinking
      An underage douchebag who thinks 25 is old.
    4. LolitaV
      then i guess i'm about to reach old age. i am turning 25 next month
    5. nothingprofound
      Lolita: I read your blog and had to take a ten minute break from the computer for obvious reasons. Be gentle with us susceptible males.
    6. LolitaV
      sorry, it really isn't my intention. i started blogging about "it" to make my "it" life better than it is now because by blogging about it, i'll be doing "it" more (the only thing D. complains about) and i just wanted to share my experiences and blog.
      i kind of thought my blog funny.
  6. cookingasshole
    I thought my blog was dirty!
    1. LolitaV
      the truth is always dirty.
      ps: i love your blog title.
  7. dbowles1017
    I heard sex and came here
    1. legbamel
      [ba dum bah!]
  8. rbgeorge
    Yikes. You must be the bravest blogger ever! I put the Content Warning up on mine because I was worried about the language. Well, you're either fearless or a Graduate Psychology student working on a thesis study about the general public's response to such overtly sexual material in such a typically innocuous place! Kudos to you either way. My hat's off to "D." too! Must be nice to have such problems!
    1. LolitaV
      nope. i'm neither. just a happy suburban mom/wife blogging about her favorite activity and trying to better it and get more of it.
  9. iyaayasmoderator
    I thought your blog is great. Putting your own story up for the world is very srtuctured therapy. I'm going back to read the rest.
  10. LolitaV
    Thanx, for liking my blog. i'm glad you see the point
  11. pinkmonkeychatter
    I personally have no problem with people writing or talking about their sex lives. I am a grown up and quite enjoy sex. I think the real question is how will you adapt your themes so that your blog has both variety and purpose over the long run. Shocking is fine if it also has substance. I really liked your latest blog, when you talked about the issues you and your husband had over differences in sex drives. That topic is very interesting.
    1. LolitaV
      thanks. the blog is mainly about our sex life and there is more to it than just the "action" personally i think that my honesty gives it substance and at the end of the day, it's about me being honest with myself and making this big part of my marriage (which most couple have BIG issues with- including my own) better.
      it's nice to see a grown up who isn't afraid of SEX

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