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Obama Against Gay Marriage- What he had to say
Posted by DocKC • 11/03/08 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
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I heard it with my own ears and saw it come from his own mouth on MTV in a one on one interview with Senator Obama.
Obama said he is against gay marriage and he would vote against the ammendment approving gay marriages. How do you feel about this? Please share.
I tried to post the video of the actual interview, but it wouldn't let me. You can find it on www.mtvnews.com.
Just looking for thoughts about this as I've heard that many don't know this about Obama.
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I was aware of this when I cast my vote, and while his lack of support on this particularly divisive issue is a bit troubling, and given his general support of most all of the other gay rights issues I chose to go ahead and give him my vote because I believe he can be the great healer we need after the 8 years of incompetence, arrogance and at times outright disdain and abuse we Americans have been subjected to by the Bush administrations.
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FWIW this has already been posted to the political forum so there are comments there to view also, and Obama has said where he stands more than once.
The entire quote is below:
Senator and Democratic presidential hopeful Barack Obama openly opposed California's Proposition 8 in a Saturday interview with MTV.
"I've stated my opposition to this," the Senator said in response to a question from a viewer in San Leandro, California. "I think it's unnecessary. I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman, and I'm not in favor of gay marriage, but when you start playing around with constitutions just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person...it just seems to me that that's not what America is about. Usually, our constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them."
pageoneq.com/news/2008/obama_prop8.html
From the transcript:
Obama: I have stated my opposition to that. I think it is unnecessary. I believe that marriage is between a man and woman and I am not in favor of gay marriage, but when you're playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that that is not what America is about. Usually constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them. What I believe is that if we have strong civil unions out there that provide legal rights to same-sex couples that they can visit each other in the hospital if they get sick, that they can transfer property to each other. If they've got benefits, they can make sure those benefits apply to their partners. I think that is the direction we need to go. I think young people are ahead of the curve on this, for the most part. I think their attitude generally is, "We should be respectful of all people," and that is the kind of politics I want to practice.
Sway: So you would vote ...
Obama: I would vote no on the proposition.-
This interview that I just saw he did not say anything about the "playing around part..." He very clearly said he would vote against the ammendment to make it legal. Period. www.mtvnews.com.
I brought this up as many of the people I have spoken to said one of the reasons they are voting for Obama is because he is NOT against gay marriage. Just wanted them to be aware of what I heard come from his mouth.
He can twist words in each and every speech and people will grab on and use each and every word. Just as you have posted that link about him saying something different than what he clearly stated in this interview. Always something different.
Sorry if this topic was already posted. I didn't know that as I'm not in every forum. Can't always be original. Just wanted to hear what others had to say on this topic. Yes, I took a chance...a big chance...but hey...what the heck.
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@kc
IMO the number 1 issue in the Presidential Election is NOT proposition 8 in California. IMO any adult who casts his or her vote based on a federal candidate's stand on a single issue on a proposition being voted on in California ie. at the state level is off-base.-
@ Timethief- I "hear" you and what you say is perfectly fine. I'm not saying anything about what people should look at....I strictly started this discussion about ONE single topic, not the entire election and who people should vote for.
My intent was to ONLY bring up the fact of what his view was on gay marriage. It was to make those who are UNAWARE of one single fact that he said, now aware. AND that was because I heard many people say to me that they wanted him as president because he was NOT opposed. Hope you understand my intent. I never even said for whom I voted or for whom anyone else should vote.
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@kc
IMO the number 1 issue Presidential Election is NOT either Obama's or McCain's stand on proposition 8 in California. IMO any American who casts his or her vote based on a federal candidate's stand on a single issue must be obsessed with that single issue and is unwilling or unable unable to look at the larger picture an examine the stand of the candiates on all of the issues. -
@ Kevin- I don't know what is acceptable or not. I used to get myself into a lot of trouble in forums. LMAO....bringing up things and people screaming at me in debate. I had to learn the hard way not to get emotional about it.
So, I bring up the facts and stay neutral and let the chips fall where they may. And ALWAYS keep smiling....people can get very emotional in here with their opinions. I still love everyone though...:)-
@DocKC
There's no rule against posting to both forums. I just wanted to make you aware that this issue has been discussed is being discussed in the political forum too. Perhaps you and others would like to read what's already been posted there or perhaps not.
I know you love me and the others too. Sadly not everyone is as loving as you are. Regarding being emotional. The political forum is very active and we have resident right wing religious members who have been are constantly clanging away on this topic and on abortion for months on end.
If I speak in the languages of humans and angels but have no love, I have become a reverberating gong or a clanging cymbal. 1 Corinthians 13:1
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What amendment making it legal would he vote against? I don't believe any have been proposed.
You misunderstood the interview. The amendment in question is Amendment 8 in California which would make gay marriage illegal, and Obama has said that he would vote against THAT. -
Both politicians running for the Presidency have the same view on gay marriage. It is the politically correct thing to say if you are a politician.
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DocKC
Proposition 8 is worded to eliminate same sex marriage by limiting "marriage" only to being between a man and a woman.
Obama said "I would vote no on the proposition"
"From the transcript:
Obama: I have stated my opposition to that. I think it is unnecessary. I believe that marriage is between a man and woman and I am not in favor of gay marriage, but when you're playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that that is not what America is about. Usually constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them. What I believe is that if we have strong civil unions out there that provide legal rights to same-sex couples that they can visit each other in the hospital if they get sick, that they can transfer property to each other. If they've got benefits, they can make sure those benefits apply to their partners. I think that is the direction we need to go. I think young people are ahead of the curve on this, for the most part. I think their attitude generally is, "We should be respectful of all people," and that is the kind of politics I want to practice.
Sway: So you would vote ...
Obama: I would vote no on the proposition."
You've got this backwards.
Obama said he said he would vote against the amendment BANNING same sex marriages.
He did NOT say he against an amendment APPROVING same sex marriages.
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@Timethief
Yes, I know how you are and love you still.
This I learned:
If I speak in the languages of humans and angels but have no love, I have become a reverberating gong or a clanging cymbal. 1 Corinthians 13:1
I on the other hand am different than you are and refuse to debate and/or get emotional. Perhaps we should indeed leave this discussion for the political forum. You're right about that...
I knew I was taking a chance and now would like to have this discussion deleted. LMAO....can that be done?-
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Proposition 8 is worded to eliminate same sex marriage by limiting "marriage" only to being between a man and a woman.
Obama said "I would vote no on the proposition"
"From the transcript:
Obama: I have stated my opposition to that. I think it is unnecessary. I believe that marriage is between a man and woman and I am not in favor of gay marriage, but when you're playing around with constitutions, just to prohibit somebody who cares about another person, it just seems to me that that is not what America is about. Usually constitutions expand liberties, they don't contract them. What I believe is that if we have strong civil unions out there that provide legal rights to same-sex couples that they can visit each other in the hospital if they get sick, that they can transfer property to each other. If they've got benefits, they can make sure those benefits apply to their partners. I think that is the direction we need to go. I think young people are ahead of the curve on this, for the most part. I think their attitude generally is, "We should be respectful of all people," and that is the kind of politics I want to practice.
Sway: So you would vote ...
Obama: I would vote no on the proposition."
The OP was confused and got this backwards.
Obama said he said he would vote against the amendment which proposes BANNING same sex marriages.
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clear up? you have to be kidding this was done simply to muddy the waters. For the record it has absolutely no bearing on what a president believes when it comes down to marriage since the courts time and time again have ruled it a state issue.
You are also very unlikely to ever see the supreme court ever touch this issue either. The conservatives on the court don't want it there because it would force an decision on whether marriage is a religious institution or a secular one. The liberals don't want to tackle it either because they are afraid of winning as they are losing. A win for gay marriage in the SCOTUS means opening up all sorts of alternative marriage arrangements not even the most open minded on the court wants to see. -
[A win for gay marriage in the SCOTUS means opening up all sorts of alternative marriage arrangements not even the most open minded on the court wants to see.]
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slippery_slope#The_slippery_slope_as_fallacy
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2. B will inevitably happen. (slippery slope)
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False assumption by the court's liberals or not it is still a reality. The moment the federal government claims jurisdiction on the rules of marriage then it not the state governments immediately has to legislate and pass those rules into law. If you don't think that is a slippery slope with all sorts of implications you have ever paid too much attention to what politicians do on a day to day basis.
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Gay marriage is wrong, as I believe the very concept of marriage is for procreation and as such should be between a man and a woman. I am however opposed to discrimination against Gays and Lesbians. I do not approve of the lifestyle and I get quite miffed at people who compare being gay to being black. That really irks me.
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He is right; marriage, man, woman, god, the whole ball of wax. Before you attack I am a non believer. He is right that that this is a religious institution and one the government, not just the state of this or that or the federal government have any business meddling in at all. Every level of government needs to get out of the marriage business and leave it where it belongs in the hands of the religious.
That said the government has a responsibility to promote the general welfare of its people. Time and time again it has been proven children raised in families with two parents fare better in life and are more productive their entire lives, not just straight families, but families with two parental figures. As such the government has a duty to strengthen that bond. They have a duty to ensure that anyone that wants to be a family is treated as spouses, not as married couples, but as spouses in a family. It is time to do away with marriage completely and institute civil union/domestic partnership/(some new trendy buzzword) for everyone who wants to be a family. -
Bradhart. I'm aware of the reach that religious has had within the institution of marriage within North America (and the world, really) - but to suggest religion is from where the need for marriage spawned is an ethnocentric perception at best. Take a look at cultural anthropology. And yes, I asked a question not to berate you but because I do want information if it conflicts with mine. I am always open to receiving new information, but if I do that for everyone that states something, then it would get a little messy after a while. It may just be so that I need to do more reading on the subject - but since you're here, and you offered some information, I didn't think there'd be any harm in asking where you received this information. Share, you greedy knowledge keeper.
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@Markprogue
Why limit it to Blacks? What about Jews and while we are at it, Gypsies also. This is where the argument becomes absurd when you compare a lifestyle choice to a race. I actually do know a lot of people who were once gay and are not that way anymore. One of them is actually a renowned Pastor Donnie McClurkin. You can Google him and read about his story.-
[lifestyle choice]
Nobody chooses to be gay. I never chose to be heterosexual. Did you?
[I actually do know a lot of people who were once gay and are not that way anymore.]
They're suppressing their urges.
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No, being gay is not a lifestyle choice any more than your race is a lifestyle choice.
Being apart of flamboyant gay culture however, is. But that brings up the question as to why it's OK to discriminate based on lifestyle choices, such as religion, profession, political persuasion, sexual interests (gay or straight) or hobbies.
And marriage was originally about procreation AND more importantly, the transference of property. Specifically, the transference of property from father to son - should his wife be skilled/lucky enough to bear him a son. (If not, the property would be transferred to a son in law by way of marriage, thus solidifying the family lineage).
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It's a question that rarely gets answered, Voodoo.
I always ask, if you believe homosexuality is a choice, then lets see what other non criminal lifestyle choices we make daily are also discriminated against, religion? Nope. Political affiliation? Nope, musical taste, fashion, or genre? Nope...they can all still enter into marriage contracts as long as they're adults! -
@ zaboye..
“Ex-Gay” Donnie McClurkin is Not So “Ex-Gay”
bloggernista.com/2007/10/26/ex-gay-donnie-mcclurkin-is-not-so-ex-gay/ -
Zaboye said, "This is where the argument becomes absurd when you compare a lifestyle choice to a race."
Why? They're both genetic factors. And of course people can do things you perceive as gay without actually preferring to be gay. (Sexual preference vs. sexual orientation.) Look at the Sambia that drink semen from men and go on to marry women. (Only 2% went on to become gay willingly..'full-time').
Not to mention, if I were to become a preacher and I used to do 'gay' things, I'd probably say I didn't yearn for the pen*s anymore, too. I mean, I want as many people in my congregation there so I can get their tithe. (I suppose I could be an openly gay preacher, but that's just a bit harder.)
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@Siralmo,
Being Black or African is not a culture, it is a race, point of correction. The way of life, traditions and heritage is what typifies and encapsulates the culture. -
voodooKobra wrote:
"Of course it's a lifestyle choice! They choose to do what satisfies their biological urges that doesn't hurt anyone else. Choice. See?"
Never mind the 'sarcasm' disclaimer, you actually buttressed my point and by default the counter to your supposed logic. God help us if we were all to submit to every crazed biological or emotional urges we feel. I believe that's why we are on "twos" and not "fours". -
Race, a social construct? What arrant hissicuff. Where did you come up with that?!
Race is a biological construct steeped in hereditary delineations and intentionally misread by social and cultural idiosyncrasies.-
What constitutes a race?
Am I black because I have some black ancestors? I look pretty white, but I have seen the photo evidence and documentation from the 1860's and 1870's that tell a very different story for both sides of my family. More to the point I have seen the later photo evidence and documentation on my mother's side that shows my Cheyenne and Sioux heritage. If we want to go with just the researched ancestry you can tie me to Moorish and Sephardic ancestors from Spain. What box do I check when it asks for race? None of your damned business.
In the end race is a social construct meant for the single purpose of discrimination. Go back far enough and we are all mongrels of some sort.
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MarkPogue
"Hiding behind the Bible to justify your hatred? Now...comparing gays to animals???"
Please point to the specter of intelligible hatred I displayed on this matter and while you are at it, I also would ask that you please show where or how I compared gays to animals? -
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Oh great it's fallacious argument night.
A fallacy is, very generally, an error in reasoning. This differs from a factual error, which is simply being wrong about the facts. To be more specific, a fallacy is an “argument” in which the premises given for the conclusion do not provide the needed degree of support. A deductive fallacy is a deductive argument that is invalid (it is such that it could have all true premises and still have a false conclusion). An inductive fallacy is less formal than a deductive fallacy. They are simply “arguments” which appear to be inductive arguments, but the premises do not provided enough support for the conclusion. In such cases, even if the premises were true, the conclusion would not be more likely to be true. — Dr. Michael C. Labossiere in Fallacies www.nizkor.org/features/fallacies/
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MarkPogue
"from you...
I believe that's why we are on "twos" and not "fours"."
Thanks for the rather cogent evidential information. I had forgotten that delineation was akin to insinuation. (lost for words)-
If you're at a loss for words, you should spend your period of speechlessness reading a book.
Or Wikipedia:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biology_and_sexual_orientation
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@voodooKobra'
Please do not insult me. We can disagree without being disagreable. Sometimes, this is the problem with flaming liberals and right wing neo-cons. You expect everyone to agree with you and if they don't, they are damned. I can assure you that I will not look to you for intellectual discernment. -
Here's a question: If it's possible for a homosexual to "choose" to be heterosexual, then wouldn't the opposite hold true? Could any of you bend over in front of Bubba GreaseYourAss and enjoy it? I doubt it.
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Wikipedia... LOL, and that's where you get your information. Bet you wrote 90% of that hogwash. LMAO
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And oh btw, I restate again that I oppose any discriminatory laws against Gays and Lesbians, but believe as a Christian that it is morally wrong and is a lifestyle choice.
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@Siralmo,
Sure you don't believe Mr. Down in the Georgia Peach ultraconservative is a Gay Rights advocate, do you?-
BTW, you mentioned Donnie McClurkin and how he conquered homosexuality....
McClurkin has made remarks claiming that he is in a “war” with homosexuality and that homosexuality is not God’s intention. He is scheduled to perform at an event for the Barack Obama campaign in South Carolina. Barack is not scheduled to attend the event and has added an openly gay minister to deliver the opening prayer
bloggernista.com/2007/10/26/ex-gay-donnie-mcclurkin-is-not-so-ex-gay/
In other words...he's not cured.
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I have to wonder why you chose to bring this up the day before the election.
It's not like McCain is pro-gay marriage, so it can't be to steer people towards McCain's alternative...is it just to smear Obama to make him appear not as liberal as some of us seem to think? Just a little gratuitous mud spatter in his direction the night before the election?
Let's avoid that nasty word "lie" and just say you "misquoted" him as being against gay marriage when, in fact, he was saying he was against a measure banning gay marriage. So...what's your point in putting this discussion up in the first place? -
Oh, just get married anyway. What matters is that you are together with the one you love and a piece of paper is a legal matter. The bonds of love should be the real ties. Be happy!
* Disclaimer * These are my opinions and not intended to be in discord with anyone's lifestyle. To each his or her own. He just said what many people were brought up to believe. But the fact that laws might be passed regarding this subject is more of a civil matter than a religious one. -
- perhaps Obama has to "say" that, in order not to give further ammo to the republicans in their smear campaigns ?.. just a thought..
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The truth will set you free. Funny how @MarkPogue believes a so-called 'bed mate' of Donnie but yet believes Donnie is lying. People will choose what they want to believe, I, on the other hand choose to stand on the unflinching but loving word of God and for that I have no apologies. I have faced more intense fire than a bunch of rabid hissicuffs from left wing bloggers. Again, I say with all firmness that homosexuality is wrong, but I am against any form of discriminatory laws against gays as I leave that to God to be the sole judge. After all, he is the creator, not us.
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nothing new here. he made the same clear in the debates. it is a position that i see as politically expediant and not thoughtful. it disappoints me. i don't think the position squares with other positions. having said that, i'm not about to throw obama out with the bubble bath water. he will select supreme court justices that will make sure future laws will not diminish equal pursuits and protections for all.
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