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Posted by lotusb • 10/27/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: monogomy
If you were a single woman (or man) would you get sexually involved with a man (or woman) who had a non-marital relationship?
What if it was just one night?
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Hell 2 the NO!!!
That's asking for a fight-
Personally if my bf slept with another woman, the last thing I'd want to do is fight the chick.
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Ps what ur avatar?
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My purple mini skirt and legs in black fishnets.
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Knowingly? Nope -
My wife, when I met her, was in that kind of relationship, and I did. But she and her partner at the time had an openly non-monogamous relationship.-
Sounds awesome.
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depends. I might, I don't wanna say no because you never know. so maybe.-
Thats why I love ya Lolita....
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Depends on how big the other woman is. And how fast she can run. If i can out run her then maybe.-
jajajajaja
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we have a friend that is notorious for running around on his lady. I asked hubby how he got away with it. He said because his old lady couldnt run that fast. I finally met her and I am suprised that she can run at all. But I still dont think that he shoudl do it to her.
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LOL!!!
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been there....but in hindsight it depends on the circumstances....
there are too many factors to decide on...
but ive done it. and if i was single, i might do it again, depending on the circumstances...
not advisable, but doable....-
((referencing earlier blackberry message))
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OK -Overall - NO.
But there are circumstances that MIGHT let it be ok... Maybe not the greatest thing... but OK.
Aggggg...
I mean seriously - it has happened to many people before... But cheating sucks. All the way around.
It hurts a lot of people. Including the cheater sometimes.
But there are situations like 3somes... Or situations where the wife/GF cannot and/or WILL NOT have sex with the male and has given permission for him to enjoy the ministrations of another female.. (NOW THiS LINE HAS INDEED BEEN USED BY MEN - DON'T FALL FOR IT - ASK THE WOMAN FOR PERMISSION FIRST)
So there could be legitimate yes answers from some... But overall - No... Not a good idea. Bad bad bad bad idea. -
@ LOTUS
OMG OMG OMG OMG REALLY?
AIM EXPRESS, NOW BI#@H! -
I don't think I would, I prefer being in a committed relationship and if I'm not in one, there's always BOB lol ..
I know one gal who ONLY dates attached or married men, she's never really been able to explain why that's her preference though. I do my best not to judge her but to be honest, I do worry that one day it will really slap her in the face.-
Thats very likely to be a literal slap.
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I had a friend who did that too, I asked her why and all she'd say was that she got the good parts of the men and their wives got the bad parts. I don't agree, it seemed more like she was too afraid to have a relationship and by going after married men she never really had to take the risk. I think she missed out on so much
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yes indeedy.
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Floor, you make a good point and I bet your right... It's too bad really.
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I think having a consistant pattern of dating men who are "taken" is never a good iea. While I would NEVER EVER under any situation get involved with a married man, I would under circumstatnces providing get involved with a man who had a girlfriend. Not on purpose, nor would I go looking for it, but I can't guarantee it would never happen.
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Aids, baby, aids! 8-|-
What the hell does aids have to do with it?
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You don't want to get it. 8-(
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Whether or not someone is in a relationship does not affect their chance or yours of getting aids.
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Not my style. To me, it would be a warning sign that the very same thing could-- and would likely-- happen to me, too. -
I've had it happen a few times, when I didn't even know it was happening. Amazing how guys will forget to tell you the smallest things, like, "I'm married."
I've had more than one guy tell me, "If you see me in public, don't approach me because I'm married."
They never tell you that until things have happened. Odd.-
OK - I'm confused now...
I thought you were a guy --------- However - this tells me you're a gal?
Or you enjoy guys? *GRIN*
Cause in the Gay Community - I can see that happening a LOT!!!
Cause there would be a married man who was gay but trying to be hetero - and then sneaking out here and there to enjoy his preferred sexuality.
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Very very true wagerwitch. You are not confused. LOL. The majority of people would be shocked to find out how many guys do this "on the side."
In college I was "seeing" a closeted basketball player. No one knew about us. Small town South Dakota. Had to be careful. We had a fun relationship, just not sexual. Then I noticed something changed. When we were in sexual situations, he'd never "finish." This went on for weeks.
When I finally asked him, he admitted he would come over and get very turned on and "ready" so he would be able to go home and "finish" with the girl he was dating. A girl I didn't know about.
He had to keep up the image for the other guys on the team. -
Ayuh...
My brother is VERY gay - and he has told me some interesting things have happened. Meeting a guy at the bar - meeting him at places at weird hours...
Then finding out - MARRIED.
Hmmmmm...
I told him to kick him to the curb. Anyone cheating - regardless of why is bad in my book - unless they have the permission of the person that they are cheating on... (And that DOES happen) - but I'd want full knowledge from THAT person before hand.
Sneaky sneaky is not permission. LMAO! -
I agree. Cheating is bad!
Your brother and I should compare stories. Is he cute? Single? -
He's HOT HOT HOT - and in Minnesota... LMAO!
You might even know him -
WHAT!! I must meet him! Send him to my blog. My email can be found there!
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