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Posted by sjtavo • 10/19/09 • Subscribe to this Discussion [RSS] • Report This Topic
Topics: sex, taboo

Why are people afraid to talk about sex? or is it just a BC taboo topic?

Realizing there are some minors who come to this site thought I'm not sure how frequently they contribute to these discussions, if I were 16, I would have appreciated some enlightenment in this area when I was their age LOL

Some folks seem offended if we talk about orgasms, or squirting, or God-forbid anal sex come up I think the holy water might start flying... why is sex such a taboo subject for some people?

It's not like it's something a minority of the population participates in....aside from the occassional priest or nun or monk, everyone becomes sexually active at some point....

User Comments

10/19/09

russianmodels

I spend so much time trying to have it that I don't have a lot of time to talk about it. Sort of!

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10/19/09

MissSuzie

Just like some who don't mind sharing their sex lives with the world, there are some who choose to keep their privates private.

I see nothing wrong with either point. To each his own.

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10/19/09

sjtavo

it just seems that as of late, whether it's sex or something "deeply" personal, some folks get offended. I guess I'm just a very open person generally, and certainly see no problem "airing dirty laundry" with people who don't know me personally. I was just curious. considering the response to this thread (lack thereof), that pretty much answers the question LOL

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10/19/09

LolitaV

I like talking about sex and starting threads about them. I believe that just like irl those with sexual hangups and maybe blockage seem to dislike sex talks. But I will keep talking about it 'til me and BC part =D

sex, sex, sex!!!

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1. 10/19/09
  
  ekim941
  
  "Blockage"...
  
  That's funny
2. 10/20/09
  
  Agit8r
  
  sounds painful o.0
10/19/09

nothingprofound

I think it's a tossup here at BC. Some people obviously feel pretty comfortable talking about it, others don't. The discussions in any case tend to be more comical than clinical, because when it comes down to it how much is there really to say.

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10/19/09

bringbackpluto

Sex is one of those topics. Religion, politics, etc. Some people feel comfortable with it and some don't.

Some find it easier discussing it online and other people would prefer talking about it face to face.

I'd say the majority of people no matter where you are......BC....party......etc.......are not that comfortable getting into it.

I for one have no problem with it. I enjoy the banter and hearing about what people are "up" to. It's fun for me.

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10/19/09

KittyKat53

I feel there should be more talk about it...at least with sex education. And enjoying sex and learning what you like and don't like is a part of sex education...if its learning how to please and be pleased. Wouldn't you like to know how and why you squirted instead of being embarrassed and ashamed of how your body responded to stimulation? This is why I have two sex sites; one strictly on education..stds etc and one on how to's

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10/19/09

DailyBeerReview

i finally clicked on this discussion because frankly when you said you were naked last week, you cheated me.

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1. 10/20/09
  
  sjtavo
  
  LMAO I was just trying to catch your attention - and it worked LOL
10/19/09

laurencefosgate

Gotta have it, and since it's so important unless we attempt to understand it, it may control us in ways that are not in our best interest. So let's talk about it whenever we feel the urge.

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10/19/09

Halconite

On this topic, I'd rather be an actor than a talker...

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1. 10/20/09
  
  sjtavo
  
  absolutely - actively participating is much more orgasmic than general discussions!
10/19/09

trailofpen

I think you need to be spending more time having sex and less time talking/foruming about it.

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1. 10/20/09
  
  sjtavo
  
  trust me - I try! but I think my boss would have a problem with me getting nailed at my desk during work hours, so something's gotta fill that gap! LOL
10/20/09

NatetheGrate

That's right, just do it! LOL

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10/20/09

Rivy

I do more "watching" about sex (videos) then I do "talking" about sex. Actual sex? Well, it's been a while... I'd probably need to spend a few months on the treadmill before re-entering the marathon. When I read discussions here about sex, I find more humor than erotica. Which suits me. I find it easier to laugh about life than be overwhelmed - which I certainly was when I discovered real sex included more than learning he missionary position.

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10/20/09

sjtavo

the discussions do tend to run the side of humor rather than blatant erotica - I guess as a person who's not intimidated by discussions of sex, orgasms, squirting, blah blah blah I just see why others are offended by it. I don't know.

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10/20/09

SoftwareGal

sex is sex, nothing to be discussed/hyped on. everybody already know what is and what to do with that. So just get yourself some sex and enough pretending as a 'cool sex' person.

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1. 10/21/09
  
  sjtavo
  
  LMAO "pretending" as a cool sex person I feel put in my place LOL maybe it's the follow-up to an 18 hour day, but folks saying that i'm full of shit is getting really old.
10/20/09

jeremyjanson

I don't think any topic should be banned or pushed to the side in any forum, including BC, but I do believe that if you talk about sex in a certain way it can have a negative effect on the dignity.

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10/20/09

Agit8r

I think that in the past removal of such discussions has been attributed to the "Google Ad Rules" whereby the people who hock "Build-A-Thong" and online games that say "Rescue my spilling bossoms my lord" can't be associated with the smut that we write about

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10/20/09

kdawg68

These topics are taboo now? Seems we had some great fun with them in the past.

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10/20/09

FredSr2009

Some talk about it and some don’t, usually the one's doing it don’t talk about.

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