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   5/09/08

   kellybax

   Looks and money are not determining factors for me. A hot poor person could be a total jerk or a true gem. An ugly millionaire could be a total sweetheart or a complete butthead. A persons personality and how they act and treat people is more important than money or looks.

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      5/09/08

      ThriftShopRomantic

      Huzzah, Kelly!
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      5/09/08

      mattclark

      Being both ugly and poor I completely agree with Kellybax, damn, shouldn't have opened my big mouth.
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   5/09/08

   mawbooks

   No matter how you answer, you're in it for the looks or the money. Both are superficial.

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      5/09/08

      calais50

      Actually, the main thing I'm attracted to is neither looks nor money-it's high intelligence.
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   5/09/08

   calais50

   There has to be a certain level of attraction there, so hot poor person, all other factors being equal.

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4. 

   5/09/08

   MadameX

   Neither of those issues should or would really play much into the decision to marry--for me, at least.

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5. 

   5/09/08

   timethief

   IMO all relationships begin because some "attraction" has taken place. Setting aside marriage, neither looks nor money are the major "attractors" for me.
   What's between a man's ears, what ethical base he operates from, his maturity level and temperament, sense of humor, personality, behavior, interests and, whether or not our pheromones trigger any sexual "chemistry" between us, are all factors that are far more important to me than either looks or money.
   Notice that those things only add up to "attraction" and notice also that I would not even consider marriage at all until an actual relationship had sustained for quite a long while.
   P.S. Did you notice that this "marrying a millionaire" is a recurring theme on the forum www.blogcatalog.com/discuss/search.php?q=marry for money

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6. 

   5/09/08

   Dicky22

   ME OF COURSE MONEY........LOL!

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7. 

   5/09/08

   nardeeisms

   I already happily did the latter and everyday live in fear of him evolving into the first. - Nards

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8. 

   5/09/08

   RTBjr73

   The poor hottie!!!!
   
   My wife's a hottie, and the kids have put us in the poor house!!!
   
   Pretty good trade off. :-)

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   5/09/08

   Anok

   I'd marry my husband. Duh

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10. 

    5/09/08

    wolfieb

    An ugly millionaire. Then I could pay the hot poor person.
    
    I guess that what this says about me is that I'm dirt poor with no scruples. Oh well.
    
    :-)

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       5/09/08

       MadameX

       And a head for business.
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    5/09/08

    jafabrit

    I agree with the others, a false choice because they are both to do with money.
    
    Like anok said "I'd marry my husband, duh".

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12. 

    5/09/08

    cruzr

    I went with hot and poor

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13. 

    5/09/08

    friendsofmissi

    i`d rather marry a normal persona, who is neither hot, not rich, but who makes me feel safe

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14. 

    5/09/08

    ender

    not necessarily either. i'd rather marry the better person who suits me.

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